Sign of interest

[Smith]

Hi there, still a beginner trying to figure out signs of interest and whether a woman is looking to be picked up. A few days ago, I was walking down the street and across the street I saw a pretty decent girl walking out of a building. She crossed the road and was about 15 to 20 meters behind me. When I came to a red light, I stopped and looked to my left and with my peripheral vision I saw her right behind me and she kinda looked around not knowing where to stand as we waited for the green light, then she decided to stand next to me. I knew I should have say hi, but being so inexperienced I didn't say anything. When the light turned green, she walked fast and cross the street earlier than me. But after she crossed the street, she turned around and looked my way for 3 to 4 seconds while I was still crossing the road. Was that a sign of interest? or was I interpreting too much? lol

 

[PinotNoir]

I don't know if it was a sign of interest, but it was definitely a sign of openness and willingness to be approached.

IMHO, you can only guess at what are signs of interests. You don't know until you just say, "Hey, you're cute. Are you single?" or with more personality, "Hey! Stop checking me out. I'm not a piece of meat!"

You have to converse with a girl to find that out, at least for beginners. Chase and some others may be able to tell straight away.

But if you see a girl like this, definitely approach and converse with her. Because even if she rejects you, she will be really friendly and nice about it. You'll never regret approaching a girl like this.

 

[Smith]

Yea now I think about it. I shall approach girls like that in the future even if it's just to prove myself right and gain more experience. Thanks man!

 

[Flames]

If in doubt just say 'Hi' anyway. It might not be socially acceptable in a big city (though I'm just speculating) but generally speaking. A 'hi', small pause/wait for response, then a smile, will yield good results most of the time. Plus it spread positive feelings usually and the world needs more of that

Thing with intuition is that if you already think something then it's usually so, paranoia associates a negative emotion towards it, but it's not neccerserily so. It becomes easier to work with your intuition over time, as long as you keep an uncluttered, judgement free mindset.

 

[Verisimilitude]

Hey Jino,

When you have your "radar" on (which should be always), you should be using your peripherals for two things. The first is girls that you want to approach. The other is girls that want to be approached. If a woman meets either of these two criteria and you are looking to approach women (again, which should be always), you should approach, no questions asked. Don't think, just do it. You'll feel a lot better about yourself and they will thank you for it too