There are many signs, but the thing is that you shouldn’t focus only on one or two verbal or non-verbal signs, rather focus on overall situation.
She looks at you directly, smiles, and looks down >>>> Most likely you seem attractive to her. Some may interpret that you can approach but she also might just be in good/flirty mood and does it to other guys too. She may be attracted, but she also may just show you respect with no intention to go out with you at all. I would talk to her and find out more.
She looks at your direction but not directly at you, eyes wide open >>>> She is probably checking you out, especially if you gave her a good look right before that. She can see you quite well in peripheral vision. Sometimes she may even look almost 90 degrees away from you (almost perpendicular) but don’t be fooled, as long as she has eyes wide open she may still be checking you out. Don’t be surprised if she checks you out in the mirror.
She’s already “checked you out with her look” and now she is approaching, walking towards you, stands/sits next to you, stands right in front of you so you can’t miss her… Good sign, she wants you to notice her, she is quite interested, you have good body language and looks, and seem to be attractive to her.
She approaches (as above), she gets closer to you, and now she starts talking. She may just start talking over the phone or with someone else so you can also “hear” her. Even better, she starts talking directly to you, she opened >>>> Good sign. Note that if she approached you and starts talking to you directly, she most likely has high confidence, and most likely approached this way another guys as well. She is not an amateur, she knows what is she doing and has some experience, she is used to interact with many guys. You need to move fast with this girl or you are gone.
Now she is talking to you, she is getting quite excited, has sparks in her eyes, smiles frequently >>>> Yes, she is attracted. Move!
She is touching and twisting her hair. >>>> Ok, everybody knows this one. But did she put both of her palms in her hair, start shaking it and make it look like she is crazy while talking about crazy stuff? Yes, she wants to do crazy things and you seem to be the perfect guy that she could do many crazy things with. Like she could beat your dick with her hair.
She lifts her arm or both arms and showing you her armpit(s) directly >>>> Ok, she is not showing you armpit(s) and tits only, she wants to make sure that you can smell her too. Probably more subliminal signal, she may not even be aware of it, but quite strong as well. Somewhere in her brain, she is thinking sex.
She is talking to you, is quite excited, and you notice that she opens her mouth and move her jaw down and forward, perhaps even breathing shallowly >>>> You should start seriously wondering whether she is already tingling down there and getting wet now, without you even touching her…?? Maybe she needs something in her mouth..??? Move.
She is talking to you and straightness up her chest, points her erected tits directly towards you >>>> Duh, unless you are blind you can’t miss it. She is showing you her tits. Can you see or do you have to look away?
She looks at your dicks and/or ass >>>> Ok, well, that poor girl just can’t help it, she wants to fuck and can’t really control herself. You should feel sorry for her, go home and jerk off. Unless, of course, you have the guts to move things forward…
She is touching herself, especially erotic areas such thighs and chest, lips… >>>> Yes, touching feels good, she wants more touching. Does she have to look for someone else or will you be the lucky one who will be touching her? Or will you go home and jerk off with your left hand?
She starts touching you >>>> Of course, there is the physical contact. Start touching back or she is gone. Physical contact is HUGE, she wants to feel you, be close to you. She may touch only lightly, perhaps just coincidentally. Or, if she feels more confident with you she may even “lay” against you with part of her body. Don’t be surprised if you feel her tits, or if she – by pure coincidence – touches your dick. She wants to know how it feels to touch it, she is thinking how she should handle it. She may grab your arm and give you a good squeeze, perhaps even hold it that way several seconds, which basically means – Wake up and start moving your lazy ass! She wants more! If she is touching you don’t move back. Move forward.
She walks or runs into you, bumps into you by coincidence >>>> Most likely it is not a coincidence, it is a physical contact and you should notice.
She starts talking sex, especially when she starts on her own >>>> Great sign. Don’t be confused though, most likely she will be talking in negative way about sex, unless she is quite confident with you. She is trying to find out what do you think about sex, maybe she just wants to see if you see sex in a negative way. Don’t switch the subject like Nice Guys do, move forward. Talk about sex. Show that you are comfortable with sex and that you see sex in positive way, that way she doesn’t have to worry about you seeing her in a bad/slutty light. If she talks positively about sex, she is more confident, she is thinking about doing it, and she is most likely open to it - with you...
She makes the conversation very easy for you, assuming that you as a guy have somehow average conversational skills >>>> Don’t be fooled, girls are much better conversationalists than guys. If she wants to have great conversations she can easily talk to bunch of girls. She knows tens of girls and she’s got another five hundred of them on her facebook. So if the conversation flows nice and easy, she is making conscious effort to make it easy on you because she wants something else (than conversation) from you. Good sign. Leave all the conversations for Nice Guys, move instead!
She is nervous. Very nervous and anxious >>>> Be careful, she is on the edge. You got her, she is thinking that you are real sexy motherf*cker and she is seriously considering having sex with you. She is fighting her desire to have sex with you versus her conscious that is telling her that she might be perceived as a slut (by you or other people). She may either have sex with you because she is quite interested, but she may also fall fast into autorejection and run away. The intensity between both of you is too high. You should be dominant and lead FAST while remaining calm, but if you do too much and push too much she is gone. If you do nothing she is gone as well.
She shows you things on her body while taking clothes off >>>> Good sign, she feels comfortable to show you parts of her naked body. She is open to show you more.
She moves closer to you, physically, emotionally and mentally >>>> Good sign, she wants to be closer. Move.
She is making EVERYTHING easy for you – conversation, touching, texting/calling back, going for dates, offering trips, initiates, going to your place or inviting you to her place >>>> Don’t fuck it up, don’t hesitate - she is OPEN, you have a huge window(s), move fast and close fast. You have a free ride, no effort is needed.
Some negative signs:
She is moving “away” from you, physically, mentally and emotionally > That’s just Bad. Don’t chase
She cancels date(s) with you and doesn’t reschedule > She’s not interested
She doesn’t call and texts back > who knows, but not too much interested
She is very brief and short with you > she is moving away from you
She is cold, there are no vibes > she might be already gone, or expecting action from you which you already failed
She is “fading away” – calls less and less, is colder and colder, does less and less for you… > she is gone, don’t chase, move on
She disrespects you > bad, but open to interpretation
She does nothing for you > why would you want woman like that at first place?
She doesn’t want to do anything with you > she’s not interested, gone
She flirts with other men right in front of you > she is disrespecting you, not interested
She talks about her great boyfriend(s) > she’s telling you that you are a pussy
She argues with you, she is logical > both are attraction killers, she is killing the attraction
She talks diseases, getting sick, disgusted and negative feelings > she wants you to see her as sick, thus you should leave
She is bossing you around > for your own sake, get the fuck out. She doesn’t respect you at all and she is making you her bitch
I wouldn’t worry about 1-3 negative signs if they just happen occasionally, she might just be in her mood, but once you see that they start increasing and piling up it is probably wise to dump her because she is already on the way out. As a matter of fact, she might be already gone and just being nice to you by giving you some time to “get it”…
Some of the negative signs may be quite difficult to interpret, for example she might want to get you pissed intentionally because she is horny, so she starts disrespecting you and flirts with other guys right in front of you. She may want to "fight" you emotionally and even physically. Nice Guy would pull away because he is shy and his balls were just beaten blue. Dominant guy gets pissed and fucks her instead, because this is the exact reaction she is expecting from him…
She looks at you directly, smiles, and looks down >>>> Most likely you seem attractive to her. Some may interpret that you can approach but she also might just be in good/flirty mood and does it to other guys too. She may be attracted, but she also may just show you respect with no intention to go out with you at all. I would talk to her and find out more.
She looks at your direction but not directly at you, eyes wide open >>>> She is probably checking you out, especially if you gave her a good look right before that. She can see you quite well in peripheral vision. Sometimes she may even look almost 90 degrees away from you (almost perpendicular) but don’t be fooled, as long as she has eyes wide open she may still be checking you out. Don’t be surprised if she checks you out in the mirror.
She’s already “checked you out with her look” and now she is approaching, walking towards you, stands/sits next to you, stands right in front of you so you can’t miss her… Good sign, she wants you to notice her, she is quite interested, you have good body language and looks, and seem to be attractive to her.
She approaches (as above), she gets closer to you, and now she starts talking. She may just start talking over the phone or with someone else so you can also “hear” her. Even better, she starts talking directly to you, she opened >>>> Good sign. Note that if she approached you and starts talking to you directly, she most likely has high confidence, and most likely approached this way another guys as well. She is not an amateur, she knows what is she doing and has some experience, she is used to interact with many guys. You need to move fast with this girl or you are gone.
Now she is talking to you, she is getting quite excited, has sparks in her eyes, smiles frequently >>>> Yes, she is attracted. Move!
She is touching and twisting her hair. >>>> Ok, everybody knows this one. But did she put both of her palms in her hair, start shaking it and make it look like she is crazy while talking about crazy stuff? Yes, she wants to do crazy things and you seem to be the perfect guy that she could do many crazy things with. Like she could beat your dick with her hair.
She lifts her arm or both arms and showing you her armpit(s) directly >>>> Ok, she is not showing you armpit(s) and tits only, she wants to make sure that you can smell her too. Probably more subliminal signal, she may not even be aware of it, but quite strong as well. Somewhere in her brain, she is thinking sex.
She is talking to you, is quite excited, and you notice that she opens her mouth and move her jaw down and forward, perhaps even breathing shallowly >>>> You should start seriously wondering whether she is already tingling down there and getting wet now, without you even touching her…?? Maybe she needs something in her mouth..??? Move.
She is talking to you and straightness up her chest, points her erected tits directly towards you >>>> Duh, unless you are blind you can’t miss it. She is showing you her tits. Can you see or do you have to look away?
She looks at your dicks and/or ass >>>> Ok, well, that poor girl just can’t help it, she wants to fuck and can’t really control herself. You should feel sorry for her, go home and jerk off. Unless, of course, you have the guts to move things forward…
She is touching herself, especially erotic areas such thighs and chest, lips… >>>> Yes, touching feels good, she wants more touching. Does she have to look for someone else or will you be the lucky one who will be touching her? Or will you go home and jerk off with your left hand?
She starts touching you >>>> Of course, there is the physical contact. Start touching back or she is gone. Physical contact is HUGE, she wants to feel you, be close to you. She may touch only lightly, perhaps just coincidentally. Or, if she feels more confident with you she may even “lay” against you with part of her body. Don’t be surprised if you feel her tits, or if she – by pure coincidence – touches your dick. She wants to know how it feels to touch it, she is thinking how she should handle it. She may grab your arm and give you a good squeeze, perhaps even hold it that way several seconds, which basically means – Wake up and start moving your lazy ass! She wants more! If she is touching you don’t move back. Move forward.
She walks or runs into you, bumps into you by coincidence >>>> Most likely it is not a coincidence, it is a physical contact and you should notice.
She starts talking sex, especially when she starts on her own >>>> Great sign. Don’t be confused though, most likely she will be talking in negative way about sex, unless she is quite confident with you. She is trying to find out what do you think about sex, maybe she just wants to see if you see sex in a negative way. Don’t switch the subject like Nice Guys do, move forward. Talk about sex. Show that you are comfortable with sex and that you see sex in positive way, that way she doesn’t have to worry about you seeing her in a bad/slutty light. If she talks positively about sex, she is more confident, she is thinking about doing it, and she is most likely open to it - with you...
She makes the conversation very easy for you, assuming that you as a guy have somehow average conversational skills >>>> Don’t be fooled, girls are much better conversationalists than guys. If she wants to have great conversations she can easily talk to bunch of girls. She knows tens of girls and she’s got another five hundred of them on her facebook. So if the conversation flows nice and easy, she is making conscious effort to make it easy on you because she wants something else (than conversation) from you. Good sign. Leave all the conversations for Nice Guys, move instead!
She is nervous. Very nervous and anxious >>>> Be careful, she is on the edge. You got her, she is thinking that you are real sexy motherf*cker and she is seriously considering having sex with you. She is fighting her desire to have sex with you versus her conscious that is telling her that she might be perceived as a slut (by you or other people). She may either have sex with you because she is quite interested, but she may also fall fast into autorejection and run away. The intensity between both of you is too high. You should be dominant and lead FAST while remaining calm, but if you do too much and push too much she is gone. If you do nothing she is gone as well.
She shows you things on her body while taking clothes off >>>> Good sign, she feels comfortable to show you parts of her naked body. She is open to show you more.
She moves closer to you, physically, emotionally and mentally >>>> Good sign, she wants to be closer. Move.
She is making EVERYTHING easy for you – conversation, touching, texting/calling back, going for dates, offering trips, initiates, going to your place or inviting you to her place >>>> Don’t fuck it up, don’t hesitate - she is OPEN, you have a huge window(s), move fast and close fast. You have a free ride, no effort is needed.
Some negative signs:
She is moving “away” from you, physically, mentally and emotionally > That’s just Bad. Don’t chase
She cancels date(s) with you and doesn’t reschedule > She’s not interested
She doesn’t call and texts back > who knows, but not too much interested
She is very brief and short with you > she is moving away from you
She is cold, there are no vibes > she might be already gone, or expecting action from you which you already failed
She is “fading away” – calls less and less, is colder and colder, does less and less for you… > she is gone, don’t chase, move on
She disrespects you > bad, but open to interpretation
She does nothing for you > why would you want woman like that at first place?
She doesn’t want to do anything with you > she’s not interested, gone
She flirts with other men right in front of you > she is disrespecting you, not interested
She talks about her great boyfriend(s) > she’s telling you that you are a pussy
She argues with you, she is logical > both are attraction killers, she is killing the attraction
She talks diseases, getting sick, disgusted and negative feelings > she wants you to see her as sick, thus you should leave
She is bossing you around > for your own sake, get the fuck out. She doesn’t respect you at all and she is making you her bitch
I wouldn’t worry about 1-3 negative signs if they just happen occasionally, she might just be in her mood, but once you see that they start increasing and piling up it is probably wise to dump her because she is already on the way out. As a matter of fact, she might be already gone and just being nice to you by giving you some time to “get it”…
Some of the negative signs may be quite difficult to interpret, for example she might want to get you pissed intentionally because she is horny, so she starts disrespecting you and flirts with other guys right in front of you. She may want to "fight" you emotionally and even physically. Nice Guy would pull away because he is shy and his balls were just beaten blue. Dominant guy gets pissed and fucks her instead, because this is the exact reaction she is expecting from him…
