Singles & Dating advice

[Eternity]

Was just posting some answers on Yahoo answers on this sub forum. I was like holy shit! The amount of girls posting questions on how to get guys interested or having sex with them left me shocked. Kinda like this forum. Young girls in H.S who supposedly know what they are doing, well don't really know how to do it; goes double for guys too. Shit, giving the guys advice is kinda hard because i'm used to guys knowing all the terms we know from Chase or the PUA community so i had to water some things down. People should consider themselves blessed to be part of G.C, because when u read some of the questions coming from guys there; you smack your head because some girls are throwing themselves at them and can't take a hint. I even directed some poor fellow to the main site, hopefully he'll take it to heart and change his life.

Anyway, what i'm trying to convey is i'm glad i'm here and i am learning from some great people on this forum. I could've been easily like those guys but thanks to Chase i am here and love being part of this awesome community. Hopefully it will stay like this for many years to come!!!

 

[Ross]

I used to spend a lot of time dishing out advice and asking questions on that website. First place I started to really think about answers to tough questions in dating. However, back then I was still in the transition phase from a "nice" guy who wanted to marry a virgin to the good guy who doesn't plan on marrying.

I could never imagine going back there now. I tend to stay out of any dating discussions these days, because sharing the truth with people who are talking about the subject because they're mad/frustrated/confused doesn't tend to work out.

It's usually a good idea to respond to guys if they ask an open ended question (like on this forum) or if they come up to you for advice. Unfortunately, the men over there are often asking the wrong questions, seeking answers in an unrealistic mental model.