Ohhh shit! This is pure, unadulterated gold
. I even took notes.
- Take inspiration from psychology to innovate
- Work on speaking slowly with a clear voice from the diaphragm
- As excellent as 60YOC is, this is solid game playing to win, not turning over rocks In Search Of...
- Use sensual language to elicit emotions
M in MASF is for Moderated. Fun fact Mystery
recently told the story of how the spamming KJ *cough* responsible for this was the guy who invented the term "pivot" and subsequently sued him for using it on VH1
- Write super detailed field reports (
@average_daygamer please add more info)
- Beware displays of wealth to avoid her slowing down the courtship
- Have fun going out to leverage emotional contagion
- Ground yourself in nightlife by building a quasi social circle with the regulars on off-nights and leveraging the social proof with the weekend crowd
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- Touch-and-Go can be applied to everything from releasing after kino to not taking up space in her group all night. (
@topcat talked about related stuff in his last lay report) Similar to Mystery's "roll-off" concept of pushing her hand away after touching her, 6th DHV attraction trigger (willingness to walk away), and trust building of her arriving safely after bouncing in your car. Pretty wide-ranging concept.
- Build just enough connection to get over her trust threshold and leave it at that. Do not soulmate-zone yourself (tagging
@PaulieFlyn10 cause I basically said do the opposite to clinch a connection if escalating half-way... but that is only in that one context, not all the time, and balanced with Grandmaster).
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- Early game group opinions that anyone (including guys) can get emotionally invested in (chick crack)
- Response to target's opinion in more personal way ("you would say that", or say nothing and give her a look to let it dawn on her what she said like implied innuendo... ideal reaction is if she punches your arm without you saying anything... hinting is most powerful)
- Move her, then get to know her with an early focus on logistical elements of her group, etc. before flirtation
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- Even if you're typically indirect, experiment with brash direct to build those muscles
- Clean your place thoroughly to not give her an excuse to bail if she's on the fence. Slow your roll since she'll be ready 10 or so minutes after you
- A lot of girls really want to connect so a lot of game is to not fuck up
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- There's a book on the horizon
www.girlschase.com
