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My interview with @West_Indian_Archie, our Skilled Seducer of the Month for July 2025, is now live:


This one's audio, so you get to hear WIA talk.

Hope you fellas enjoy.
 

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My interview with @West_Indian_Archie, our Skilled Seducer of the Month for July 2025, is now live:


This one's audio, so you get to hear WIA talk.

Hope you fellas enjoy.
Fox Den.
 

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Ok, this was really awesome. One of my favourite interview so far. It is funny how you can tell just by the topics and themes one discusses to know whether the guy is an old schooler:
- Clear game plan fra A to Z
- Overarching concepts
- Clear understanding of female psychology - without moralizing.
- And can talk for ever without stop about this.

And so on. This was a thrill. I really liked the Touch N' Go strat - and I realized this was something I have had success with when doing it unconsciously. So him putting words into this was really nice.

Def something I will keep in the back of my head this week end.

This was awesome.


-Teevster
 

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Ohhh shit! This is pure, unadulterated gold. I even took notes.

- Take inspiration from psychology to innovate
- Work on speaking slowly with a clear voice from the diaphragm
- As excellent as 60YOC is, this is solid game playing to win, not turning over rocks In Search Of...
- Use sensual language to elicit emotions

M in MASF is for Moderated. Fun fact Mystery recently told the story of how the spamming KJ *cough* responsible for this was the guy who invented the term "pivot" and subsequently sued him for using it on VH1

- Write super detailed field reports (@average_daygamer please add more info)
- Beware displays of wealth to avoid her slowing down the courtship

- Have fun going out to leverage emotional contagion
- Ground yourself in nightlife by building a quasi social circle with the regulars on off-nights and leveraging the social proof with the weekend crowd

***

- Touch-and-Go can be applied to everything from releasing after kino to not taking up space in her group all night. (@topcat talked about related stuff in his last lay report) Similar to Mystery's "roll-off" concept of pushing her hand away after touching her, 6th DHV attraction trigger (willingness to walk away), and trust building of her arriving safely after bouncing in your car. Pretty wide-ranging concept.

- Build just enough connection to get over her trust threshold and leave it at that. Do not soulmate-zone yourself (tagging @PaulieFlyn10 cause I basically said do the opposite to clinch a connection if escalating half-way... but that is only in that one context, not all the time, and balanced with Grandmaster).

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- Early game group opinions that anyone (including guys) can get emotionally invested in (chick crack)

- Response to target's opinion in more personal way ("you would say that", or say nothing and give her a look to let it dawn on her what she said like implied innuendo... ideal reaction is if she punches your arm without you saying anything... hinting is most powerful)

- Move her, then get to know her with an early focus on logistical elements of her group, etc. before flirtation

***

- Even if you're typically indirect, experiment with brash direct to build those muscles

- Clean your place thoroughly to not give her an excuse to bail if she's on the fence. Slow your roll since she'll be ready 10 or so minutes after you

- A lot of girls really want to connect so a lot of game is to not fuck up

***

- There's a book on the horizon

 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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And so on. This was a thrill. I really liked the Touch N' Go strat - and I realized this was something I have had success with when doing it unconsciously. So him putting words into this was really nice.

I thought you'd like that one.

I also really enjoyed WIA's take on creating natural opinion openers about recent personal events then using that to build easy social proof throughout the venue (guys, girls, everyone).

I meant to expand on that in the interview and ask him about how picks topics for that (I would assume, based on the one he shared and off the times I've done it myself, always some juicy "what do you think this means?" romantic/sexual situation that happens with lots of people but leaves room for interpretation) but we split off into something else and didn't come back to it.

Seems like a great strategy for building momentum no matter your starting state.

Chase
 

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I meant to expand on that in the interview and ask him about how picks topics for that (I would assume, based on the one he shared and off the times I've done it myself, always some juicy "what do you think this means?" romantic/sexual situation that happens with lots of people but leaves room for interpretation) but we split off into something else and didn't come back to it.

This is a good one, but generally I try to take stuff from my actual life to use...but the key is that I kinda know what "both sides" are. There has to be a point of contention, something that she's gonna want to talk about from the depth of her soul.

It's gotta be emotional.

Obviously relationships/love/sex/gender-based stuff is very easy to work with.

Music, Food, Cologne, "Touching" - anything I know that involves the senses.

Politics? Religion? Even when done humorously, it can go LEFT real quick.

Speaking of religion, here's one from my past.

My homie is a devout Christian, but he started seeing this girl, that's very Jewish/Muslim/Mormon/7th Day/"Spiritual" (something that's not devout Christian)

They been seeing each other for a little bit, but not too much.

They're both keen on each other
*make an offhanded remark about whether or not he's hitting it - which can then spiral into how "devout" he truly is*

But he's thinking of ending it
  • Should he end it?
  • What is best for the girl?
  • What about love?

This does all types of things - 1) plants/signals Long Term if you need the girl to look long term, 2) hear her thinking/feelings, 3) puts you in a position to disagree (and reconcile) 4) puts you in a position to judge (frame grab) etc

In my experience, the game is as deep or as shallow as you want it to be.

A lot of it depends on what you want out of it.
 
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