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Chrance

Cro-Magnon Man
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It was a Saturday night. I was out alone but ran into some guys I knew who helped me skip the line into the bar. The bar was sparse as usual due to Covid restrictions. After about 15 minutes of roaming around the bar (I abandoned those guys and was now pretty much on my own again) and posting up somewhere to see what sets were good or not, I at last noticed a group of three girls, where one of the girls knocked over a drink, spilling everywhere.

Me: "Sorry that's not cool you're gonna have to leave now ma'am." to the girl who knocked over the drink.
Her: laughs but in a mocking manner, as if to say "you're not funny. Nice try."
Me: "you know, if you want to dry your hand you can put it up to this thing." pointing to a heater near by.
Her: Does another mocking laugh.

Then her friend interjects, the friend being the most attractive of the three and my eventual target.

Target: Hey, has anyone said you look like X actor?
Me: "No never." (I lied lol)

After some banter, Target got up to get some paper towels. She came back with a box of paper towels. I wanted to restart and focus in on our conversations.

Me: "Where did you get this box of kleenex's?"
Her: "Oh I don't know. I think I stole them."

She gave the paper towels to her friends. Then her and I continued to chat while we both stood up, her two friends remained seated. The details of the conversation I cannot remember. One of the friends stood up and offered her seat to me so that Target and I could sit down together. It was clear the friends, though tough at the beginning, weren't going to be big obstacles.

Target and I sat down. From here it was simply her and I talking for an hour about our various interests with some kino (leg touching) gradually mixed in. At one point she asked me. "So on a typical Saturday, where you have no errands, what do you do?" And I gave a response of my standard hobbies. Then I returned the question with a twist. I asked: "Alright, so on a typical Saturday, what do you do for fun besides masturbating?" And she laughed and said yes, in fact she did masterbate. "To what?" I asked jokingly. "Nothing special or crazy" she said.

I asked several logistics questions and gathered that she drove herself out and that she isn't taking her friends home. This gave me a green light to move things to further isolation. I suggested going to a different bar since I was "tired of being at this place." She told her friends we'd be just down the street. A group of guys were actually interceding into the 3-set, but were all just talking to the two other girls. Those two girls seemed entertained and gave her friend the go ahead. No real resistance for us to go somewhere else alone together. So I take her hand and we leave to the bar next door.

Nothing magical happened at this bar. I got us some drinks, we tried sitting down somewhere but the bouncers and waiters kept hassling us to only sit in designated spots due to Covid. But regardless, we were able to get some alone time in away from the chaos of the other bar. During this time I learned she was very into music and suggested showing her a song I really loved and I was sure she would love to hear, as well as my guitar which she says she can play. Unfortunately Target still had the phone of one of her friends. It was nearing closing time and quickly everyone was getting kicked out, so Target and I left. She wanted to meet up with her friends to hand over the phone.

During this duration of time, where target was contacting her friend to see where they were, I was a little bit nervous because this could make or break the interaction. What if the friends wanted to all leave together? What if they had a no split up policy? I saw the friends down the street and we met up with them. I asked them how they planned on getting home and they said they had an uber coming. This gave me some relief. Now I just had to wait for them to uber away and it would just be Target and I. Eventually the uber came and they left!!

I took Target to my car in a garage nearby and showed her the song. We began to makeout. I told her to get in the back seat. She could sense what I was trying to do. We took off all of our clothes and I fingered her. However, she resisted by saying "I don't want to do this in the back of a car." After hearing her say that twice I decided to take a risk and drive her straight to my place. "Alright, I said. We'll go somewhere else." We both got our clothes back on and drove to my place.

In my place I showed her around, then took her to my room and continued where we left off. This time, however, there was a new resistance. "Why do you deserve it?" she would repeatedly say. Each time I would either ignore the statement or agree and amplify with something stupid like "Because I'm a god." She was also nervous over the fact her vagina wasn't "prepped" for going home with a guy. The LMR continued, so I slowed down and did a "Freeze out" (I think that's what its called). We chit chatted, naked on my bed, for about 30 more minutes, then I started turning the lights off. Once all the lights were turned off we began making out again. At a certain point in the makeout, she climbed on me and asked if I had a condom. I put the condom on and we had sex. It was great! though I think I had some anxiety so my cock wasn't as hard or stiff as usual. I think I was using condoms I don't normally use.

End of story!

Some Thoughts:
  1. What really made this set possible was that the friends and the logistics in general were all in my favor. The two friends were cool leaving in an uber together and Target had drove herself out, alone.
  2. I've dealt with LMR a few times (Two whole months with that Virgin from January lol), so dealing with it again, even while we were completely naked, did not unnerve me.
  3. If the girls did have a no split up policy, then I would have done (and have been intentionally practicing) the following:
    1. Get all of them to go somewhere else, such as to a different part of the same bar (at minimum) or ideally to a whole other venue or location
    2. Retry isolating Target while getting other people to join the interaction and talk to the two other girls.
  4. If the above doesn't work then I would just go for the number close and leave. I don't usually go for the "Invite them all back to an after party route" in order to pull and close, but I can open a thread for us to discuss that. I've noticed some guys actually invite the group of girls back to their place and I've only done that one time and as a last ditch effort.
  5. In general, I'm pretty slow with moving the set forward. I take my time and end up spending all night talking without realizing it, getting lost in the conversation. Moving things forward faster would be ideal.
  6. During our conversation, I put in effort to focus on "relaxing" subjects.
 
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DoWhatWorks

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Super smooth bro.

Girls who don’t cockblock and leave you alone are the real MVP’s.

Although I have a theory that if her friends sense that she’s into you, they leave you be unless you give them a reason to think otherwise.

Be cool to hear what others think
 

Chrance

Cro-Magnon Man
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Super smooth bro.

Girls who don’t cockblock and leave you alone are the real MVP’s.

Although I have a theory that if her friends sense that she’s into you, they leave you be unless you give them a reason to think otherwise.

Be cool to hear what others think

Absolutely man. Guys and girls who let you be or even help you - these remind you that the world is good lol.

Sometimes though, with cockblocking girls, jealousy can be a factor too. I've had it happen a few times where I was in a loud dance club, talking to a girl. We were very focused on each other. Then in swoops the friend who grabs her by the wrist and pulls her away. "NOOOOO WTF" I scream to myself.

For this set I made it a point to get to know the friends a bit, which frankly I should always do lol. Even though the friend was catty at first, they both warmed up.

Another thing to consider with cockblockers, is that SNL's can have downsides or be a hassle for friends in general. Being a lonely woman is dangerous. Girls trying to keep everyone together is a mess. I can understand if some women say "Ok, I'll let their interaction go to a certain point. At that point I'll stop it so it doesn't go further" to prevent hassle that night, or to prevent the woman you're talking to from doing something "stupid".

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Damn your point reminds of a few weeks ago, where I finally had the opportunity, and the balls, to talk to the one woman I wanted to talk to all night. I opened with a question about her ethnicity (similar to my recent lay) and we were really getting into good, well-vibed convo. Then out of fucking nowhere! her friend busts in and says "Who the fuck cares!" grabs her, then pulls her away, leaving the place. I was pretty bummed out lol. "Damn, that girl liked me and her friend fucked it all up. Why does it have to be this way?"
 
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DoWhatWorks

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Absolutely man. Guys and girls who let you be or even help you - these remind you that the world is good lol.

Sometimes though, with cockblocking girls, jealousy can be a factor too. I've had it happen a few times where I was in a loud dance club, talking to a girl. We were very focused on each other. Then in swoops the friend who grabs her by the wrist and pulls her away. "NOOOOO WTF" I scream to myself.

For this set I made it a point to get to know the friends a bit, which frankly I should always do lol. Even though the friend was catty at first, they both warmed up.

Another thing to consider with cockblockers, is that SNL's can have downsides or be a hassle for friends in general. Being a lonely woman is dangerous. Girls trying to keep everyone together is a mess. I can understand if some women say "Ok, I'll let their interaction go to a certain point. At that point I'll stop it so it doesn't go further" to prevent hassle that night, or to prevent the woman you're talking to from doing something "stupid".

Edit:

Damn your point reminds of a few weeks ago, where I finally had the opportunity, and the balls, to talk to the one woman I wanted to talk to all night. I opened with a question about her ethnicity (similar to my recent lay) and we were really getting into good, well-vibed convo. Then out of fucking nowhere! her friend busts in and says "Who the fuck cares!" grabs her, then pulls her away, leaving the place. I was pretty bummed out lol. "Damn, that girl liked me and her friend fucked it all up. Why does it have to be this way?"


Hhaahah "remind you that the world is good lol" so dam true.

To be fair after reading your examples and reflecting on my experiences I think if the girl is into you and her friends can tell then the only reason they cockblock is:

1) It will mess up their logistics
2) The girl you're talking to is technically not available I.E has a long distance boyfriend
3) The friends don't trust you yet
4) Knee jerk reaction - girls have to be more cautious then we do on nights out (being super sexual straight away triggers this)


Number 3 & 4 are the one you can easily have the most control over by making an effort with the group as a whole. Keeping your game chill/sociable and less flashy or intense i.e grinding on the girl helps too. Admittedly it's easier to do in bar lounges vs clubs.

As 99% of guys don't bother it sets you apart. 1 and 2 on the other hand are a lot tougher.

It's why I ask qualifying questions very early on (gracefully of course) with a casual "so who here is single or kind of seeing someone? I don't want to get beaten up tonight". You can then find who's worth spending time on or whether you're better of warming up and moving on.

You can also track logistics and see if it's workable with. Which ironically explains why girls getting dragged away isn't something I really deal with anymore and it's probably because I sub-consciously qualify without even realising that I'm doing it lol.

Anyway random comment over and hope this is useful to someone skimming over this.
 
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