So Are you A Creep or Romantic?

[trashKENNUT]

Girls are super amazing, and they are jackasses too. AHAHA!!! (just kidding)

Anyway...

So i find this highly intriguing with girls. If you handle your fundamentals well, you can stare blankly at a girl's breast in public and she will not care. If you do not handle your fundamentals well, I don't think you can even stare blankly for a second at the same girl. So what makes a Creep? and what makes a Romantic?

Is it...

Interest?
Fundamentals?
Rich?
Handsome?

The thing is Men and Women are just as shallow. Watch this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0vwo_TvFPQ

Zac

 

[Marty]

Zac, fantastic video.

This just underlines everything taught here: it's not what you do, it's who you are.

That's why Chase and his team are constantly urging us to make ourselves better people, and not focus on "technique" or "routines". That's why "pick-up lines" don't work and are usually counterproductive. Low-effort, sincere openers communicate so many good things with such ease.

Many years ago, in Antwerp in 2001 if I remember correctly, I attended a corporate training conference on NLP. The message from the two excellent leaders was the same: forget technique. You have to internalize the mindset and habits, through constant practice and intelligent work.

Poorly thought-out gimmicks are no substitute for a lifetime of focused, continuous improvement.

-Marty

 

[Drck]

What do you think about NLP Marty (and others)?

 

[Marty]

Perhaps I still need further work on my fundamentals, as I have been called a creep a couple times over last week.

By a woman? To your face? Or by a third party?

If the latter, it could be an envious attempt at dismissal.

 

[Marty]

Casanova:

By certain girls in social circle to my face yes, it's always accompanied with a nervous laugh.
If I remember correctly it comes after I say something really sexual.

When you say these sexual things, are you in a one-to-one or group setting?

-Marty

 

[Whizzy]

I bet if you said it without them in earshot you would get a different response