So she doesn't speak English... give up?

[Humay]

An article by Chase (though i can't remember which one) says that he enjoys the attentions of women who don't know how to speak English, because clearly discussions and a relationship is out, so there's only one thing left to do.

I'm in China right now, and there's been many times where i have opened with a girl and they just gave me a blank stare, a nervous smile and a wave that can only mean: 'go away, i don't speak english'.

What on earth am i meant to do? I don't know sign language. :/ (i can speak a lot more Chinese than Chase, but still not enough to get by with a native chinese for more than a minute). I can only assume chase got a chinese person to write 'sex please?' on paper which he can display.

 

[PrettyDecent]

Hey Humay,

I didn't go to China, but I did go to Japan recently, and I'd guess that the cultures react similarly to Western men approaching them. Their reactions to my approaches are described in-depth in my journal entries. But basically, Western men intrinsically have a lot of value in Asian countries (novelty from being a different race, glamour of Hollywood, preference for white skin), and so it's excruciatingly easy to tip women into auto-rejection.

I remember reading an article by Chase about seducing foreign women. But it doesn't specifically describe daytime approaching (and you can see in the comments that Chase agrees here).

Rule of thumb: Don't open direct in Asian countries. It's too much when coupled with your value, and she likely doesn't understand complicated words in direct openers. I personally think you can say just about anything, but I got the best results with asking them (in Japanese) if they spoke English. It gets the elephant out the room, and they feel more comfortable using the english that they do know. Basically, if you approach enough girls using this, you'll get one who either:
a) Auto invests in the interaction and starts sending signals to pull immediately ("Where are you staying?"; "Are you alone?"), even if those are the only words she knows
b) Girls who speak a conversational level of English, and are very submissive (but not direct) to you pulling them home

With women who speak conversational English, follow the normal process you'd use. Mine involved getting something to eat immediately, and then heading to my place.

The trick is to remember that it is a numbers game. Albeit, you won't need as many numbers in China as you will in England for all intended purposes

Jake

 

[Chase]

Humay-

Some women will wave you off... that's just the name of the game. Some of them are waving you off because they don't know what you're saying and think, "Ugh, dumb foreigner, can't even speak my language in my country," while others are waving you off thinking, "I'm sorry, I just don't understand you." Some might even WISH they could understand you, but just don't think they can.

When that happens, that's fine - just keep walking.

With girls you can't much communicate with but who DON'T wave you off, and who are interested and smiles and happy to meet you and excited, just be smiles and nice gestures back, and keep telling them and motioning for them to come with you. Use simple words: "Food? Let's go have food! Eat!" and making an eating motion with your hand with a big smile on your face. If you have to trade phone numbers because you can't pull then, say, "You, me - phone call! See again later!" and laugh and trade phone numbers. Keep texting to meet up very simple - simple enough she can translate easily on her phone / computer if she needs to. "Want to meet and have lunch tomorrow?" "Okay! Let's meet at XYZ subway station. We can meet at 1:00 PM."

Just keep leading. So long as she keeps following, you're golden.

Chase

 

[Humay]

Hey Jake, you're totally right about not opening direct (i learnt that the hard way). I wish i saw your post earlier. To be honest, i'm not white or asian so i don't have much value here. Middle eastern looks are very rare in asia so most people assume i'm indian or north african.

Thanks Chase for your advice too. Absolutely no-one speaks english where i am, but meeting girls is no longer my concern. This continent is so beautiful, such things escape from my mind. And at least i have incentive to improve on my chinese speaking skills i haven't yet met a girl that didn't speak english and still complied, but there's always tomorrow.