So What do I do?

[Anonymous]

K let me try and sum this up... the point is she has been chasing me for 7 months and i have been ignoring her for that time up until know... cause i realized that there is something deep between us and we have virtually everything in common, more so than my past gf. But now because i have ignored all her attempts now that i have gone after her... she has put up alot resistance. when ever i get close to her she pulls away... when i try to kiss her she pulls away. I know she is doing it to make sure she knows that I truly want her. The problem is that I am finding it difficult to just bulldoze through her resistances because im already emotionally attachted to her and i want everything to be perfect, so I get really nervous and I freeze when i am around her. Like i try to game her like i would any other girl but i can't cause i dont c her as just another girl to game. But i know she wants me like crazy cause everytime i make a joke about banging she gets really excited.

So right now i am mutually emotionally attacthed to this girl and I dont know the best way to communicate it to her. I think it is mostly because i dont get attachted before being intimate with a girl so the feelings and thoughts that go through my head are different and I think i am paralyzed with my fear of losing her.

So what do i do? How do i take on my fear? do i suck it up be a man game her? or am i at that point where " I can virtually tell her hey I really like u... i really want to bang u and i want us to be together."

 

[Franco]

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[trashKENNUT]

Supereagles,

So what do i do? How do i take on my fear? do i suck it up be a man game her? or am i at that point where " I can virtually tell her hey I really like u... i really want to bang u and i want us to be together."

She probably went into auto rejection, although you can probably take the casual small steps of genuinely texting and talking with her over a month or also before getting back together with her again out on a date. Just prior to that, make it short, don't go pour everything out on her when you totally ignore her back then.

Zac