So what if you're a Men who believes for society and empathy?

[trashKENNUT]

So I passby this comment.

He noted this

"Ted on September 8, 2014 at 3:27 pm
Have you considered the possibility that other men correct you on your chauvinism simply because you are wrong? As covert sociopaths, I know you all can’t grasp the notion that other people do things without the expectation of personal gain… But other individuals actually subscribe to a system of morality and empathy."

Actually, I have been a WhiteKnight before. And although I will never be another human being, the whole post is wrong on so many levels. Not just on seduction but the principle of how humans really are, and how all of "nice guys" (and maybe religious people) are the biggest hypocrites that ever walk on God's green earth.

I feel like I will argue with a brick wall if I honestly want to talk to him. I swear that I wish I can help all the "nice guys" in the world. Almost all guys who stumble PUA, those who become good, very good. All of them want to help this so called "nice guys".

But I guess I take this from a holy scripture. I mean why not? Since you so far up your ass on "nice". There's a saying "God only help those who help themselves."

Zac

 

[EdenSerpent]

It's hard, isn't it? As much as I'd love to believe (truly!) that as humans we're all fundamentally the same, we're not. I think it's broader than the whole arbitrary alpha/beta dichotomy. Most people belong to a herd, and herds require shepherds. That role gets filled by people fundamentally different from the rest, with the capacity to live life actively instead of re actively. That's why it feels like there are so many of these "nice guys" and why we'll never be able to save them. It's a condition that requires them to save themselves, which they may just be cognitively unable to do. It's the same sickness that infects all religions of people calling out to a god to help them, without realizing that the force they desire has to work through themselves. The fact that they call us sociopaths only brings to light their own ignorance of their nature as humans. There are no "selfless acts", because all actions are a means to an end, even if that end is just satisfaction at helping someone else. That ignorance of their own motivations is their real hypocrisy. The only way to help the people lost in between is to awaken their desire to help themselves and live genuinely.

 

[trashKENNUT]

EdenSerpent,

There are no "selfless acts", because all actions are a means to an end, even if that end is just satisfaction at helping someone else. That ignorance of their own motivations is their real hypocrisy.

Hit the nail exactly on the head. (Btw, Sorry Chase, your word. joking).

I think the idea is that because of the internet, the world is transitioning. We are still idiots because history shows we move in cycles. However, we are well aware of things happening around the world. We are aware of things happening but we are not aware of ourselves. There's a huge difference. The reason why we never change a lot in human history is because we need to figure out ways beyond after moving a cycle.

So how do we work around our selfishness once the human race admit them? Definitely, It is not easy and it isn't worth the risk to destroy a civilization just to find a solution on how to work around our selfish gains, but we see lots of cracks right now on so many topics, around the world. Even self help is just a paper plastered all around to cover the real problems that we facing today.

We are in for a tough transition for the next 100 years. (I am not a scientist nor a certified historian. SO do gather your own knowledge, too.)

Zac