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After reading a couple of threads by users who are now having issues with getting over not being one of the cool kids in their high school and college days, I finally found a way to help them overcome it. I am not 100% sure of how to make this happen or if, outside of being a celebrity, this kind of thing is feasible but it is an idea I am 100% sure will fix the problem.
What did you really miss out on by not being one of the higher status guys in high school and college?
The hot girls and the parties. You missed out on spending time with groups of hot girls as well as the parties that mostly an exclusive group of people went to. The socials, the formals, the date nights, and you name it. Well, that is what you really missed out on by not being one of the cool kids in high school and college. The reason it still bites at you is because you were forced to be around all of these guys and girls constantly who were having all of the fun.
Well, here is how you get over it.
The generic advice would be to do yoga or meditation of sorts but that is not too helpful in my opinion. What will really help you is being a small scale Dan Bilzerian, as much as a lot of people hate (in my opinion more like HATE ON) him.
1. Didn't get hot girls growing up? Great, you have this site to help get you started, start getting hot girls!
2. Build that circle and lifestyle. You want that lifestyle of parties, sex with hot girls, and the hedonism. Don't center your life around it but do it every now and then. I don't exactly know how to do this but I am sure that given the talent we have on this forum, others will be able to find a way how. The purpose is to get hot girls and some cool guys in your social circle that you can do a lot of events with. Head to the bars with your newly found crowd if you can.
3. Social media is a wonderful thing, so get on it, BRAG MOTHERFUCKER BRAG. Threw a nice party with some hot girls and cool guys? Put it up on Instagram. Out on a date with some hot girl? Put it up on Instagram. Hit the bars with your friends and hot girls? Put it up on Instagram. Went to an exclusive party and met some hot girls? Put it up on Instagram. Met a celebrity? Put it on Instagram.
And here is the fucking truth about the people who will hate you for it.
They wish they were you. They wish that instead of being married, they were having your experiences. A lot of them wish they could enjoy the things in life that you have been enjoying. Many of them will hate that as they get old and fat, you're loving life. If what you have created is good enough, a lot of the former cool kids (especially those that have aged out of it) will start to hate you and they will even let you know about it. Cherish that shit, seriously.
My short experience with it.
As a Korean guy growing up in the deep south, dating success was hard to come by. After I moved out west, I started having more success with hot girls. Well, soon I started putting pics up on my social media of girls I was dating at the time, since that is what couples do. I started getting a couple of PMs from former high school classmates that were telling me to "slow down" and word spread about my high school classmates calling me a "douchebag".
For some reason, it made me feel better, that I had come such a long way...
What did you really miss out on by not being one of the higher status guys in high school and college?
The hot girls and the parties. You missed out on spending time with groups of hot girls as well as the parties that mostly an exclusive group of people went to. The socials, the formals, the date nights, and you name it. Well, that is what you really missed out on by not being one of the cool kids in high school and college. The reason it still bites at you is because you were forced to be around all of these guys and girls constantly who were having all of the fun.
Well, here is how you get over it.
The generic advice would be to do yoga or meditation of sorts but that is not too helpful in my opinion. What will really help you is being a small scale Dan Bilzerian, as much as a lot of people hate (in my opinion more like HATE ON) him.
1. Didn't get hot girls growing up? Great, you have this site to help get you started, start getting hot girls!
2. Build that circle and lifestyle. You want that lifestyle of parties, sex with hot girls, and the hedonism. Don't center your life around it but do it every now and then. I don't exactly know how to do this but I am sure that given the talent we have on this forum, others will be able to find a way how. The purpose is to get hot girls and some cool guys in your social circle that you can do a lot of events with. Head to the bars with your newly found crowd if you can.
3. Social media is a wonderful thing, so get on it, BRAG MOTHERFUCKER BRAG. Threw a nice party with some hot girls and cool guys? Put it up on Instagram. Out on a date with some hot girl? Put it up on Instagram. Hit the bars with your friends and hot girls? Put it up on Instagram. Went to an exclusive party and met some hot girls? Put it up on Instagram. Met a celebrity? Put it on Instagram.
And here is the fucking truth about the people who will hate you for it.
They wish they were you. They wish that instead of being married, they were having your experiences. A lot of them wish they could enjoy the things in life that you have been enjoying. Many of them will hate that as they get old and fat, you're loving life. If what you have created is good enough, a lot of the former cool kids (especially those that have aged out of it) will start to hate you and they will even let you know about it. Cherish that shit, seriously.
My short experience with it.
As a Korean guy growing up in the deep south, dating success was hard to come by. After I moved out west, I started having more success with hot girls. Well, soon I started putting pics up on my social media of girls I was dating at the time, since that is what couples do. I started getting a couple of PMs from former high school classmates that were telling me to "slow down" and word spread about my high school classmates calling me a "douchebag".
For some reason, it made me feel better, that I had come such a long way...
