FR Sober Nightgame Edition 3

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

Hey guys, this is sober nightgame edition part 3 of this series.

Drove to the bar, more nerves than usual, but a calming, good kind of nerves that made me feel alive, rather than the kind that eat you alive.

Bar was empty at first, got packed around midnight. Bar venue is 2 floors, the second floor is more like a dark dance floor with a DJ, except no one is dancing. First floor is a typical bar, except it’s very hard to have a conversation.

I’m having second thoughts if the venue is even good for meeting girls at, haven’t really seen lots of pulls or makeouts tbh(way less than I see at other bars/clubs).

Outfit the same as the last time, except I swapped the pink t shirt for a beige one.

Wing was the same as the last time.

When we first got in, we sat down at a table, mostly chicks talking to dudes in their social circles.

Spoiler: APPROACH 1

When we first got in, we sat down at a table, mostly chicks talking to dudes in their social circles. Finally, I decide to get a coke, and spot three girls sitting at the bar(one was a midget).

Just purchased lush teases, so decided to use one of those teases as an opener. They were eating fried pickles, so I opened them and said “is that part of the diet.” Tease didn’t land, instead of doubling down, I told her “it means you look good, healthy.” She was very receptive to me, showing her bracelet to me(compliance) and bantering back with the things I was saying. Called her the bad girl of the group, which she agreed with. Left the girls, got the instagram of the one I wanted.

Went back and left them three for a bit, though I realized I had the opportunity to move them. I went back and asked them if they wanted to join our table, they said maybe later, tbh I wasn’t waiting for them, bs excuses.

Had a couple of blowouts, one girl started laughing when I approached their table, I just put a weirded out expression on my face and said “nice to meet you guys.”



Another girl from last week remembered me, even though I have no idea who she is, apparently I said the same thing as last time. She seemed interested in bantering with me, but the friend pulled her to the side, when I tried involving the friend, she had no interest in joining.

Spoiler: APPROACH 2

Later, approached a group of three girls, who were super receptive to my approach. My wing was talking to one girl, while I was talking to the other two girls(couldn’t decide which one I wanted, either would do). Opened with a comment about her wearing lipstick, they thought I meant lip filler, got into a whole bit about them being fake.

Later used lush teases, made the teases sensual which they ate up. While one of the friends went to get a drink, I said “ah, good she’s getting a drink… you need the proper lubrication…. All the good stuff” which the other girl found funny. Changed topics immediately to fractionate out.

Did the good girl bad girl bit by calling one “bad girl one goodish girl” which they agreed they said “I had them figured out.

Eventually they went to the bathroom, grabbed insta of one of the girls, and me and my friend went to the other room.

MORNING UPDATE: Girl I got insta from yesterday declined my request, idk if something changed or if they were never interested.

To the fair, they entertained a big conversation and let me sit down at one point, and were bantering back.

Spoiler: APPROACH 3

Later in the night, found a cute Latina, immediately receptive to me, I could touch her without her resisting physical escalation. I tried dancing with her, she said no, she would let me spin her around and inspect her jewelry. Eventually went with her to get a drink(I did not pay for her drink) thought I would go for a kiss close after. She eventually said “nice to meet you.”

Had a few more interactions where the girl was receptive but the friend wasn’t having it. Might be my biggest problem in nightgsme right now. I usually have good convo and vibe with one girl, shes interested, fully facing me, and her friends pull her away, or tell her something and suddenly she is uninterested.

 

[average_daygamer]

Good work on going solo and sober the same as me. I want the skills to be transferable so I shun alcohol in order to ensure the skillset remains intact when sober.

 

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

Good work on going solo and sober the same as me. I want the skills to be transferable so I shun alcohol in order to ensure the skillset remains intact when sober.

Didn’t go solo, but yea going sober helps me retain more of what I did, and I feel better the next day.

 

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

UPDATE:

Girl from approach 1 and I have been exchanging back and forth on instagram, definitely think I did something right on the approach.

Let’s call her HB8, could be a high 7/low 8, I’ll go with 8 since she is more my type.

I send the nice to meet you text, and call back to something she had at the bar.

She returns my text, rather heartily, and then I ask her if she saw the bar fight that night.

She says no, I tell her what happens, not all at once however, as soon as I finish telling her that, I use this opportunity to tease with callback humor.

One of my first teases was how “she was on a healthy diet, with (fried food) insert, obviously joking.”

I called that humor back by saying “we needed you at the bar fight to defend us, your top notch shape would have some in from all the (fried food) you have been eating.”

She responded HAHAHAH I’m sure, I think I’m going to plan logistics to see her sometime in the weekend now, think I’m on the right track.

With the girl from approach 2, she declined my follow request, tbh idk what happened there, I was giving both her and her friend equal flirty attention, I couldn’t make up my mind about which of the two I wanted.