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Today on the boat I sat beside a girl, she seemed to give me a sideways glance so I opened with something "yeah, the chairs are comfy here but the heat is intense, huh?" (A bit lame 
) She said she was fine. It was obvious she was rejecting me but mama raised no quitters haha so I asked her you like it huh with an incredulous/ playful look and asked her whether she was from someplace warm. She said she didn't wanna talk to me ao I gave her a yeah cool/shrug face. Sat a bit so I wouldn't seem reactionary then left. The boat was coming ashore.
I was waiting in line for the exit. There was a blond girl in a blue dress beside me. Our hands accidentaly touched. There was an engagement party in one of the boats beside ours. I asked the girl if she thought that was an engagement party or a wedding party. Girls know these things. It is known. She smiles and said it was an engagement party. I asked her how she said there was sign. I laughed and told her here I was thinking she could tell from the handsmaid dresses as well. She blushed prettily. She said but there was a dress theme and she thought that was quite good. I told her I liked her style as well, "perfect summer dress." We were still walking. I found out she was going to tale a bus to travel to another city right now but she lived in Istanbul so she would be back on sunday. I asked her what was her job and she told me it was quite complex, she sold things. I said : Hmmm What a mysterious answer! I wonder what you're selling... I did this again for another question again. Painting her as someone who was trying to be mysterious. When she asked me what I did I made her work for it by telling her to guess. Then I told her. When we had to part ways because we had to go to diffrent directions I asked her to get a cup out coffee with me when she came back. She said okay. So I gave her my phone so she could put her number. She was interested in a nervous excited way during this short interaction.
After my salsa class (which I quit). I talked to a friend. He is a good looking, cool dude. I don't know how well he does with girls but I wouldn't be surprised if he was good. He has a very easy going, laid back manner. I met him a month ago. I invited her to a beach electro party but he said he was tired and wasn't up to staying up all night (those parties end around 7 am and that is if you choose not to go to the after). He invited me to drink with his friends and go out within the city. I said ok. We met an hour and a half later and went to his friends apartment to drink. There was him, a hot girl (who was not on my periphery because I knew they hooked up before though not had sex and still had a thing, GTS, girl in tight shorts) and another girl I didn't know. She was cute but nothing special (Girl in White Dress, GWD).
I vibed with them pretty good. One thing that might have elavated my sexual status is when the topic was on Amsterdam red light district I told them I wouldn't enjoy it because I knew it would be something I paid for. Knowing that she didn't desire me would be a turn off for me. And it is true whenever I paid for a prostitute I never, ever enjoyed it. Anyhow I told them I went to the sex show with my ex. Stuff that painted me as a sexually liberated guy.
The clubs in Turkey usually have a lame setup. There are tables everywhere and they have you sit around it so there is no dance floor or an area where you might socialize with people. And you have to have girls with you to get in. That is why I never bother with night game in Turkey. Although when the oppurtunity arises I go to different clubs with people who invite me because I wanna learn more about the scene.
We went to an electronic music club. It was on a rooftop and it was good. It didn't have the tables I mentioned (electronic clubs are places to socialize and do drugs so they're not that lame). But you still had to have girls to get in. The girl/guy ratio was good and the fact that half of the guys were probably gays made it better.
GWD's friend joined us there. He was I think without a doubt gay. But his oriantation was a topic for debate for the whole group all night lol. Because she flirted with girls according to GWD. And GTS said he asked her if he could kiss her or something.
I really wanted to approach but it was the first time I met any of these guys outside school so I didnt wanna make an ass of myself. Still, I chatted up two girls and when I came back to my friends. GWD told me with a sly smile "oh, what didn't you like them?" I said nah, they were cool. She told me she didn't think they were beautiful. I laughed and said "setting the bar high, huh?" (They were beautiful though). I said "who should I talk to then, who do you like?" She said she would be on the lookout for me. This talk was heavy with kino. I pulled her into me to talk to her a lot.
My friend told me let's check out the venue. We were going to see if there were any hot / available girls to talk to. Girls came up to us and they were like: Guyys where are you going, hit on girls? So we had to invite them as well.
We went to the front stage. A girl approached my friend and asked about his aid band on his face (actually a door hit, the guy is not the fighter type lol). I had a brief discussion of it with my friend. And we both agreed the girl had a bf. I saw it later. She was dancing with her bf very close etc. My girl asked me what we were talking about realizing it was about the girl. I gave her a smile and asked her who she liked best and I'd intoduce her to the guy. She looked around couldnt find anything and after more dancing she pointed to a guy and said I want him. The guy was short, old and was doing ridiculus things. It was obvious she was joking but I played along amd said alright! I was talking towards him but she stopped me and said she was only joking! I said why not the guy is enjoying himself immensely she said yeah he was but he had nothing else.
My friend and his girl told us they would go to the toilet. I told my girl that I would tell her the girl I liked and pulled her close, she asked me who, I said I'd tell her in a minute, looking at her, implying it was her, then I pushed her away. 20 seconds later I pulled her again and started to make out.
We made out quite a bit. I always pulled apart first. She asked me if I had a girlfriend, I looked at her and asked playfully why she wanted to know. She said something then I told her to rest easy, I did not have on.
The music stopped around 4 but GTS wanted to party more. GWD's friend decided to go home. But suggested us to go to a gay club nearby. We did. The music was terrible! And GTS appearantly was disgusted by all the gay make outs (narrowminded little fuck). We left. I had my hand on my girla leg the whole way on the taxi.
Another thing I forgot to mention at first I did not kiss her near her friends in order to be discreet but later when she kissed me beside her friends I did not give a fuck.
Okay so we went back to the apartment. I was trying whether it would be possible to isolate my girl. GTS (the host) asked us how we wanted to sleep. There were two bedrooms and one big sofa in the living room. I told her you guys go ahead and sleep we guys are fine sleeping on the sofa. Maybe I shouldn't have dealt with the situation like this. Maybe I should have pulled my girl close when we were chilling and then told her when she asked the question we will (GWD and I) will take one bedroom. I think now with solid frame control this would have been possible. All GWD had to do would be to stay silent and GTS wouldn't have been able to say anything because that would be awkard. I chose the easy way and regretted it.
GTS acted like she didn't understand though I think she perfectly understood. She said there is a free bedroom why one of you guys aren't staying there. We told her we'd be quite comfortable here. Sometime later GTS said hey van I talk to you for a second and they retrated to the kitchen. After they came back my girl sat far away from me and beside her friend.
I told GTS quite pointedly:
- hey don't you guys bother sleeping in the same bed, we're quite comfortable here
- It's no bother at all! We always sleep in the bed.
-Alright but why don't you sleep in separete beds *tonight*?
-Nah, we're good you guys get comfy
I was mouthing my friend why the cockblock lol.
When the girls left to their room we laughed about it with my friend. I said why the cockblock dude? He said he didn't understand it himself and would ask her tomorrow. I told him this is I think what happened GFS pulled GWD aside and asked her if she wanted to have sex with me. GWD couldn't say yes so she said no. My friend agreed with me saying he could picture it perfectly, I was right.
That is it. Win for the cockblock.
) She said she was fine. It was obvious she was rejecting me but mama raised no quitters haha so I asked her you like it huh with an incredulous/ playful look and asked her whether she was from someplace warm. She said she didn't wanna talk to me ao I gave her a yeah cool/shrug face. Sat a bit so I wouldn't seem reactionary then left. The boat was coming ashore.I was waiting in line for the exit. There was a blond girl in a blue dress beside me. Our hands accidentaly touched. There was an engagement party in one of the boats beside ours. I asked the girl if she thought that was an engagement party or a wedding party. Girls know these things. It is known. She smiles and said it was an engagement party. I asked her how she said there was sign. I laughed and told her here I was thinking she could tell from the handsmaid dresses as well. She blushed prettily. She said but there was a dress theme and she thought that was quite good. I told her I liked her style as well, "perfect summer dress." We were still walking. I found out she was going to tale a bus to travel to another city right now but she lived in Istanbul so she would be back on sunday. I asked her what was her job and she told me it was quite complex, she sold things. I said : Hmmm
What a mysterious answer! I wonder what you're selling... I did this again for another question again. Painting her as someone who was trying to be mysterious. When she asked me what I did I made her work for it by telling her to guess. Then I told her. When we had to part ways because we had to go to diffrent directions I asked her to get a cup out coffee with me when she came back. She said okay. So I gave her my phone so she could put her number. She was interested in a nervous excited way during this short interaction. After my salsa class (which I quit). I talked to a friend. He is a good looking, cool dude. I don't know how well he does with girls but I wouldn't be surprised if he was good. He has a very easy going, laid back manner. I met him a month ago. I invited her to a beach electro party but he said he was tired and wasn't up to staying up all night (those parties end around 7 am and that is if you choose not to go to the after). He invited me to drink with his friends and go out within the city. I said ok. We met an hour and a half later and went to his friends apartment to drink. There was him, a hot girl (who was not on my periphery because I knew they hooked up before though not had sex and still had a thing, GTS, girl in tight shorts) and another girl I didn't know. She was cute but nothing special (Girl in White Dress, GWD).
I vibed with them pretty good. One thing that might have elavated my sexual status is when the topic was on Amsterdam red light district I told them I wouldn't enjoy it because I knew it would be something I paid for. Knowing that she didn't desire me would be a turn off for me. And it is true whenever I paid for a prostitute I never, ever enjoyed it. Anyhow I told them I went to the sex show with my ex. Stuff that painted me as a sexually liberated guy.
The clubs in Turkey usually have a lame setup. There are tables everywhere and they have you sit around it so there is no dance floor or an area where you might socialize with people. And you have to have girls with you to get in. That is why I never bother with night game in Turkey. Although when the oppurtunity arises I go to different clubs with people who invite me because I wanna learn more about the scene.
We went to an electronic music club. It was on a rooftop and it was good. It didn't have the tables I mentioned (electronic clubs are places to socialize and do drugs so they're not that lame). But you still had to have girls to get in. The girl/guy ratio was good and the fact that half of the guys were probably gays made it better.
GWD's friend joined us there. He was I think without a doubt gay. But his oriantation was a topic for debate for the whole group all night lol. Because she flirted with girls according to GWD. And GTS said he asked her if he could kiss her or something.
I really wanted to approach but it was the first time I met any of these guys outside school so I didnt wanna make an ass of myself. Still, I chatted up two girls and when I came back to my friends. GWD told me with a sly smile "oh, what didn't you like them?" I said nah, they were cool. She told me she didn't think they were beautiful. I laughed and said "setting the bar high, huh?" (They were beautiful though). I said "who should I talk to then, who do you like?" She said she would be on the lookout for me. This talk was heavy with kino. I pulled her into me to talk to her a lot.
My friend told me let's check out the venue. We were going to see if there were any hot / available girls to talk to. Girls came up to us and they were like: Guyys where are you going, hit on girls? So we had to invite them as well.
We went to the front stage. A girl approached my friend and asked about his aid band on his face (actually a door hit, the guy is not the fighter type lol). I had a brief discussion of it with my friend. And we both agreed the girl had a bf. I saw it later. She was dancing with her bf very close etc. My girl asked me what we were talking about realizing it was about the girl. I gave her a smile and asked her who she liked best and I'd intoduce her to the guy. She looked around couldnt find anything and after more dancing she pointed to a guy and said I want him. The guy was short, old and was doing ridiculus things. It was obvious she was joking but I played along amd said alright! I was talking towards him but she stopped me and said she was only joking! I said why not the guy is enjoying himself immensely she said yeah he was but he had nothing else.
My friend and his girl told us they would go to the toilet. I told my girl that I would tell her the girl I liked and pulled her close, she asked me who, I said I'd tell her in a minute, looking at her, implying it was her, then I pushed her away. 20 seconds later I pulled her again and started to make out.
We made out quite a bit. I always pulled apart first. She asked me if I had a girlfriend, I looked at her and asked playfully why she wanted to know. She said something then I told her to rest easy, I did not have on.
The music stopped around 4 but GTS wanted to party more. GWD's friend decided to go home. But suggested us to go to a gay club nearby. We did. The music was terrible! And GTS appearantly was disgusted by all the gay make outs (narrowminded little fuck). We left. I had my hand on my girla leg the whole way on the taxi.
Another thing I forgot to mention at first I did not kiss her near her friends in order to be discreet but later when she kissed me beside her friends I did not give a fuck.
Okay so we went back to the apartment. I was trying whether it would be possible to isolate my girl. GTS (the host) asked us how we wanted to sleep. There were two bedrooms and one big sofa in the living room. I told her you guys go ahead and sleep we guys are fine sleeping on the sofa. Maybe I shouldn't have dealt with the situation like this. Maybe I should have pulled my girl close when we were chilling and then told her when she asked the question we will (GWD and I) will take one bedroom. I think now with solid frame control this would have been possible. All GWD had to do would be to stay silent and GTS wouldn't have been able to say anything because that would be awkard. I chose the easy way and regretted it.
GTS acted like she didn't understand though I think she perfectly understood. She said there is a free bedroom why one of you guys aren't staying there. We told her we'd be quite comfortable here. Sometime later GTS said hey van I talk to you for a second and they retrated to the kitchen. After they came back my girl sat far away from me and beside her friend.
I told GTS quite pointedly:
- hey don't you guys bother sleeping in the same bed, we're quite comfortable here
- It's no bother at all! We always sleep in the bed.
-Alright but why don't you sleep in separete beds *tonight*?
-Nah, we're good you guys get comfy
I was mouthing my friend why the cockblock lol.
When the girls left to their room we laughed about it with my friend. I said why the cockblock dude? He said he didn't understand it himself and would ask her tomorrow. I told him this is I think what happened GFS pulled GWD aside and asked her if she wanted to have sex with me. GWD couldn't say yes so she said no. My friend agreed with me saying he could picture it perfectly, I was right.
That is it. Win for the cockblock.
