Social Circle Question

[Bboy100]

Ok, so I have a question about Social Circle....does attraction expire with girls who are a part of it?

I ask because there's this girl who I've hung out with almost every weekend for the past year and a half, and she's STILL trying to hookup with me. I friendzoned her for various reasons, but today, she tried to hookup with me (for the third time!).

I guess another part of it might be that I consistently demonstrate preselection via various sexcapades I have which she hears about, girls she sees me with, and Tinder messages I show her. Maybe that's part of the reason attraction is staying alive?

General thoughts on how friendzoning works in the context of social circle would be nice.

 

[normajean106]

I'm surprised no one's answered this yet.

In my opinion, if you consistently and constantly act as the lover/seducer member of the group, then I don't believe the attraction will expire (that is, unless the girl finds someone who she believes is better).

To me, I like to think of it like a token machine. The more money you put in, the more tokens that come out. Stop putting money in altogether, and you won't get any tokens.

If you were to stop hanging out with her every weekend, then I'm sure she would eventually get over you.

 

[Bboy100]

Yeah, that seems to line up pretty consistently with my experiences. Thanks Norman!

 

[Marcellus]

I don't know where I got this, but I heard attraction just takes much, much longer to expire during social circle. Who cares she'll probably get the message soon enough anyways haha.