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Hello GC members,
This is is my first post on the forums and I'm looking forward to making quite a few more in the future. Some background of myself: I'm 23 years old and I found pickup and GC around one and a half years ago. Since then I've racked a bit under ten lays and a FWB relationship and an ongoing open relationship. I feel that I have gathered some basic experience but my niche is still revolving around the university.
The case I have for today is following: I was at this party today and have been in a similiar place before. I had consumed quite a bit of alcohol and was mainly just chilling with friends and wondering how fucked up I am ( I know not very healthy). During this a girl I know from social circles sits right beside me and I just know she's DTF. I know she has had some sexual encounters with a good friend of mine before but I dont think they have anything going on anymore. I felt quite horny when she sat next to me even though I still signalled to her my refusal and I think I actually told her that I "just don't feel like it now". One of the main reasons I told her this and didn't pursue the case any further was because I was so hammered. I know from experience that my sex drunk is from mediocre to poor at best and I dont enjoy it that much. I see her randomly in school and some events so I felt I didn't wan't to cause some wierd social situitations. I think she auto-rejected a bit as I told her I wasn't in the mood. She hadn't laid herself before me like this before. Some girls who have found my playerish background by accident seem to act like this girl. My main question here is: what do you think I should have done? Is the possible sex and the experience itself worth the social risk of coming off as a bad lay or something like that? I don't find any other potential in the girl than the casual fling and I also felt a bit bad as she had had something going on with my friend even though it wasn't on anymore. I have also my doubts that my casual open relationship with this girl that I'm seeing about once a week is affecting my judgement... I'm more used to getting my lays from sort of cold approaches in student parties or close proximity of my social circle which really isn't that big.
Big thanks already in advance
This is is my first post on the forums and I'm looking forward to making quite a few more in the future. Some background of myself: I'm 23 years old and I found pickup and GC around one and a half years ago. Since then I've racked a bit under ten lays and a FWB relationship and an ongoing open relationship. I feel that I have gathered some basic experience but my niche is still revolving around the university.
The case I have for today is following: I was at this party today and have been in a similiar place before. I had consumed quite a bit of alcohol and was mainly just chilling with friends and wondering how fucked up I am ( I know not very healthy). During this a girl I know from social circles sits right beside me and I just know she's DTF. I know she has had some sexual encounters with a good friend of mine before but I dont think they have anything going on anymore. I felt quite horny when she sat next to me even though I still signalled to her my refusal and I think I actually told her that I "just don't feel like it now". One of the main reasons I told her this and didn't pursue the case any further was because I was so hammered. I know from experience that my sex drunk is from mediocre to poor at best and I dont enjoy it that much. I see her randomly in school and some events so I felt I didn't wan't to cause some wierd social situitations. I think she auto-rejected a bit as I told her I wasn't in the mood. She hadn't laid herself before me like this before. Some girls who have found my playerish background by accident seem to act like this girl. My main question here is: what do you think I should have done? Is the possible sex and the experience itself worth the social risk of coming off as a bad lay or something like that? I don't find any other potential in the girl than the casual fling and I also felt a bit bad as she had had something going on with my friend even though it wasn't on anymore. I have also my doubts that my casual open relationship with this girl that I'm seeing about once a week is affecting my judgement... I'm more used to getting my lays from sort of cold approaches in student parties or close proximity of my social circle which really isn't that big.
Big thanks already in advance
