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Hello guys,
I am currently going to a lot of social events. I live in a very big city so I have many I can choose from.
There are some events where you really don't need to be so discreet about trying to pick up girls (dancing or partying evenings) but there are others where people generally tend to meet "officially" for cultural/educational purposes and where, even though people are not always the same, you really start making a lot of friends who you can easily meet again at the next event.
I know that many guys (and girls) that go there also have mating goals, and are simply too constrained by society's dumb correctness to actually show that, but, at the end of the day, if you're the only one being "aggressive" and "clear" about your intentions, you end up being labeled as "the one who just shows up to pick up girls", which is really not pleasant, considering I also want to make friends and socialise and don't wanna end up being a "social burden", which as you know actually decreases attraction.
Which advice would you give me for making my pick up agenda more discreet yet not lose effectiveness?
Tnx in advance,
Prehistoric
I am currently going to a lot of social events. I live in a very big city so I have many I can choose from.
There are some events where you really don't need to be so discreet about trying to pick up girls (dancing or partying evenings) but there are others where people generally tend to meet "officially" for cultural/educational purposes and where, even though people are not always the same, you really start making a lot of friends who you can easily meet again at the next event.
I know that many guys (and girls) that go there also have mating goals, and are simply too constrained by society's dumb correctness to actually show that, but, at the end of the day, if you're the only one being "aggressive" and "clear" about your intentions, you end up being labeled as "the one who just shows up to pick up girls", which is really not pleasant, considering I also want to make friends and socialise and don't wanna end up being a "social burden", which as you know actually decreases attraction.
Which advice would you give me for making my pick up agenda more discreet yet not lose effectiveness?
Tnx in advance,
Prehistoric
