Hey guys, me again with second post.
I would describe myself as above average looking guy, been told I look great from many women. Have no problem to be funny or weird at the same time, still trying to be more confident. Yet, I think I'm doing a imposter work. Let me explain:
I find myself stuck in this pattern, where I make really great first impression (confidence, look really attractive, smell great, make a great vibe), and girls are all over the place for me. But after a while, I get exhausted of pretending to be this bad boy alpha guy (I'm still learning to be more energetic), and get lazy with them, act more aloof, respond less to them, and they get tired of me after a while and leave me.
What could be the problem? How can I improve, or overcome this aspect? Should I act aloof from the start, even though I believe they wouldn't find that attractive?
I would describe myself as above average looking guy, been told I look great from many women. Have no problem to be funny or weird at the same time, still trying to be more confident. Yet, I think I'm doing a imposter work. Let me explain:
I find myself stuck in this pattern, where I make really great first impression (confidence, look really attractive, smell great, make a great vibe), and girls are all over the place for me. But after a while, I get exhausted of pretending to be this bad boy alpha guy (I'm still learning to be more energetic), and get lazy with them, act more aloof, respond less to them, and they get tired of me after a while and leave me.
What could be the problem? How can I improve, or overcome this aspect? Should I act aloof from the start, even though I believe they wouldn't find that attractive?