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Clubbing district:
For once actually I went out early (around 8pm, prime time is 11pm to 1 am) and started completely sober.
Outfit - Black biker jacket, red tee, blue skinny jeans, black sneakers, rings, a necklace and black leather armband thing lol
Bar 1: Small, dark and cramped. Got a beer. First approach was totally off, was sitting next to small dance floor, girl was dancing and I tried to engage her while she was having fun. She just said no lol. Missed out on what seemed like a simple approach, older looking lady giving me lots of signals, felt a bit off and didn't approach. Totally should've tried. Place didn't have much girls that were easy to approach so just left.
Bar 2: Same vibe as before but more energetic buzz going on. Got a beer but nothing else. Total f*ckup as made no approaches even though there was plenty of girls. Was difficult to get in the groove. Left after half an hour of nothing.
Bar 3: Club vibes, started strong, approached people at the bar upon entry and just got into social mode. Was a good build, sadly place was more for dancefloor pick and I didnt really want that vibe. Was helped by a cute barlady and tried to get her digits. Just told "she's really cute and helpful for letting me skip the long line to order". She smiled and pretended to be working when I asked her. Sadly her colleagues kept on surrounding her as soon as I asked (maybe they sensed lol). Decided to bail but felt she would've given her deets had I gotten her at the right opportunity. There wasn't too many girls to approach so left.
Bar 4: Big Club vibes, place was a gold mine of cuties. Started approaching immediately.
Approach 1: Girl was behind me at the bar, told she can come infront if she puts on her cute face to get the bartenders attention lol. She accepted and came infront, then just started grinding on me
Got her name and place but she got pulled away.
Approach 2: Smoking section, intentionally bumped into a cute girl smoking, apologized and started a convo on the lack space. Got her name, place and had some light banter. She's a stylist and so teasingly rated her outfit lol. Moved to a space on the balcony that opened up. Built some rapport about her life and job switching. Offered to get drinks and she agreed, took her deets.
Approach 3: Previous girl left to find her friends, so continued chilling in smoking section. Looked to my left and saw another girl, wasn't sure if she was there the whole time but just jumped. Opener was joke and she laughed. Got her name and bantered some more. Got her place and had some small talk. Got interrupted by her friend. Friend was exremely direct telling me that I should stick around with the girl if I wanna get laid lol. Girl needed the bathroom, but the friend dragged me along, "Hold his hand and take him, you don't wanna lose your piece" LOL!!! Waited for them at bathroom but got bored.
Approach 4: This was due to a feeling of dropping social momentum. Jumped to the nearest girl I saw, which was next to bathroom. Opener was just social, made some light chat but the girl's friends dragged her away.
Approach 5: Went to get a beer at the bar. Asked girl standing next her friend if she was next to order, she pointed saying her friend is. Made some banter about bar lines, she laughed. Asked her if her BF wont mind me chatting, she laughed and said no BF. Got her name and place, her friend needed the bathroom and asked me to wait with the girl who would take her place in line. Made some small talk, but needed to rush as she had gotten her order. Asked her out to drinks and she gave me her deets.
Approach 6: Joined another side of the bar line, made bar banter with girl. She was angry about line lol. Her BF showed up to mark his place I think. Made social comments and jokes as time went on waiting for bartender.
At this point bumped into direct friend of Girl 3, asked her about her friend. She mentioned she's around, then asked if im into threesomes, cuz they down for that LOL!!! Told I would never say no and to find her friend. Girl 3 showed up and joined our convo. I told her the friend wants to share me with her lol. She laughed and said her friend is crazy. Decided to isolate Girl 3 so took her to quiet part of smoking section. Deep dived alot and found out alot about her. She more of hands on girl jobwise. Didn't flirt tho she seemed open to making out but I didn't want to in public. Honestly was still open to more approaches. Should've gotten her number and carried on.
Closing time came and I tried to pull as bouncer was clearing smoking section. She was down but needed to tell her friends. We found her crazy friend and I was curious to see if the "threesome" was still open LOL. She didn't wanna give my girl her phone surprisingly (she'd been holding onto it for the night). The friend gave me her number and said she will send it to my Girl. Friend had mother hen vibes despite crazy direct vibe lol.
They had come with a group and were sorting out transport. It was a back and forth with my Girl and her friends, and I lost interest. (Funny enough I spotted Girl 5 from the bar earlier, her ASS was... on fire). Saw Girl 5 heading outside, so told Girl 3 I'm gonna wait outside for her (BIG FUCKUP!!!!).
Didn't find Girl 5 or 3 again after that
Approach 1 re-engage: Bumped in Girl 1, she was ordering her Uber. I thanked for helping me get drinks using her cute smile earlier, she laughed and I made some small talk. Her friend had passed out and she needed to take her home, but didn't want the night to end. Suggested a another night out sometime and she agreed. Got her deets.
The convo with Girl 1 happened next to entrance of the club. Was waiting there to get Girl 3 as she exited but I think she saw me engaging Girl 1. I was sure I would bump into her but luck wasn't with me.
At this point its 4am and everyone is on the street. I switched off and decided to get food and head home.
Got approached by 2 cuties asking for a lighter at the McD. Made some small talk. They were sisters and were heading home after getting some food. The one sister was clearly cuter with a surprisingly big ass LOL. During the convo the less attractive sister grabs my hand while I'm talking to her. I think she wanted to get my attention as I was focused on her sister, was a weird moment. Looking back had I been ON, I could've used that to flirt with the sister and potentially get her deets or more.
Biggest lessons: Never had a continuous approaching experience especially where i was sober and still in control at bar 4. Was a good experience and looking forward to recreating the moment.
For once actually I went out early (around 8pm, prime time is 11pm to 1 am) and started completely sober.
Outfit - Black biker jacket, red tee, blue skinny jeans, black sneakers, rings, a necklace and black leather armband thing lol
Bar 1: Small, dark and cramped. Got a beer. First approach was totally off, was sitting next to small dance floor, girl was dancing and I tried to engage her while she was having fun. She just said no lol. Missed out on what seemed like a simple approach, older looking lady giving me lots of signals, felt a bit off and didn't approach. Totally should've tried. Place didn't have much girls that were easy to approach so just left.
Bar 2: Same vibe as before but more energetic buzz going on. Got a beer but nothing else. Total f*ckup as made no approaches even though there was plenty of girls. Was difficult to get in the groove. Left after half an hour of nothing.
Bar 3: Club vibes, started strong, approached people at the bar upon entry and just got into social mode. Was a good build, sadly place was more for dancefloor pick and I didnt really want that vibe. Was helped by a cute barlady and tried to get her digits. Just told "she's really cute and helpful for letting me skip the long line to order". She smiled and pretended to be working when I asked her. Sadly her colleagues kept on surrounding her as soon as I asked (maybe they sensed lol). Decided to bail but felt she would've given her deets had I gotten her at the right opportunity. There wasn't too many girls to approach so left.
Bar 4: Big Club vibes, place was a gold mine of cuties. Started approaching immediately.
Approach 1: Girl was behind me at the bar, told she can come infront if she puts on her cute face to get the bartenders attention lol. She accepted and came infront, then just started grinding on me
Got her name and place but she got pulled away. Approach 2: Smoking section, intentionally bumped into a cute girl smoking, apologized and started a convo on the lack space. Got her name, place and had some light banter. She's a stylist and so teasingly rated her outfit lol. Moved to a space on the balcony that opened up. Built some rapport about her life and job switching. Offered to get drinks and she agreed, took her deets.
Approach 3: Previous girl left to find her friends, so continued chilling in smoking section. Looked to my left and saw another girl, wasn't sure if she was there the whole time but just jumped. Opener was joke and she laughed. Got her name and bantered some more. Got her place and had some small talk. Got interrupted by her friend. Friend was exremely direct telling me that I should stick around with the girl if I wanna get laid lol. Girl needed the bathroom, but the friend dragged me along, "Hold his hand and take him, you don't wanna lose your piece" LOL!!! Waited for them at bathroom but got bored.
Approach 4: This was due to a feeling of dropping social momentum. Jumped to the nearest girl I saw, which was next to bathroom. Opener was just social, made some light chat but the girl's friends dragged her away.
Approach 5: Went to get a beer at the bar. Asked girl standing next her friend if she was next to order, she pointed saying her friend is. Made some banter about bar lines, she laughed. Asked her if her BF wont mind me chatting, she laughed and said no BF. Got her name and place, her friend needed the bathroom and asked me to wait with the girl who would take her place in line. Made some small talk, but needed to rush as she had gotten her order. Asked her out to drinks and she gave me her deets.
Approach 6: Joined another side of the bar line, made bar banter with girl. She was angry about line lol. Her BF showed up to mark his place I think. Made social comments and jokes as time went on waiting for bartender.
At this point bumped into direct friend of Girl 3, asked her about her friend. She mentioned she's around, then asked if im into threesomes, cuz they down for that LOL!!! Told I would never say no and to find her friend. Girl 3 showed up and joined our convo. I told her the friend wants to share me with her lol. She laughed and said her friend is crazy. Decided to isolate Girl 3 so took her to quiet part of smoking section. Deep dived alot and found out alot about her. She more of hands on girl jobwise. Didn't flirt tho
she seemed open to making out but I didn't want to in public. Honestly was still open to more approaches. Should've gotten her number and carried on. Closing time came and I tried to pull as bouncer was clearing smoking section. She was down but needed to tell her friends. We found her crazy friend and I was curious to see if the "threesome" was still open LOL. She didn't wanna give my girl her phone surprisingly (she'd been holding onto it for the night). The friend gave me her number and said she will send it to my Girl. Friend had mother hen vibes despite crazy direct vibe lol.
They had come with a group and were sorting out transport. It was a back and forth with my Girl and her friends, and I lost interest. (Funny enough I spotted Girl 5 from the bar earlier, her ASS was... on fire). Saw Girl 5 heading outside, so told Girl 3 I'm gonna wait outside for her (BIG FUCKUP!!!!).
Didn't find Girl 5 or 3 again after that
Approach 1 re-engage: Bumped in Girl 1, she was ordering her Uber. I thanked for helping me get drinks using her cute smile earlier, she laughed and I made some small talk. Her friend had passed out and she needed to take her home, but didn't want the night to end. Suggested a another night out sometime and she agreed. Got her deets.
The convo with Girl 1 happened next to entrance of the club. Was waiting there to get Girl 3 as she exited but I think she saw me engaging Girl 1. I was sure I would bump into her but luck wasn't with me.
At this point its 4am and everyone is on the street. I switched off and decided to get food and head home.
Got approached by 2 cuties asking for a lighter at the McD. Made some small talk. They were sisters and were heading home after getting some food. The one sister was clearly cuter with a surprisingly big ass LOL. During the convo the less attractive sister grabs my hand while I'm talking to her. I think she wanted to get my attention as I was focused on her sister, was a weird moment. Looking back had I been ON, I could've used that to flirt with the sister and potentially get her deets or more.
Biggest lessons: Never had a continuous approaching experience especially where i was sober and still in control at bar 4. Was a good experience and looking forward to recreating the moment.
