Social Sex God in 3 Years: Final Progressions

[Smurf]

Progress

I feel really good about game right now. Feel like I'm cresting upwards now and actually seeing progress. Definitey attributing that to going out almost every day this week. Even if I haven't been out specifically "gaming" I've been talking to people and being social every day. I've made a lot of new friends and potential girls. Super excited for how this turns out.

Also wanted to make my third page start with an LR to start things right.

Friday

This girl last night matched me on tinder and messaged me first asking about pole dancing. Basically an "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" type thing. I matched her interest levels and decided on a date for Saturday.

On Friday I took a few civilian friends out to an arcade bar. Started slow but I slowly got into the groove. We went to another bar that wouldn't let my friend in because he had a tank top. We head to another place and hang there then decide to hit up an after hours spot.

On the way there we run into a gay friend of mine who is with three girls. He invited us along which I should've said yes to but we just headed to the spot anyways. Got there and there wasn't much going but still bonded with my friend which was nice since it's been a minute since we've properly chilled.

I ended up not sleeping and heading straight to work after.

Got off, took a nap, then finished setting up the date with this tinder girl.

Her pictures were cute so I was hoping I wasn't getting cat fished. We set it up for 8 and I got there at 8:20 haha. She's actually suuuper cute. Around my height with this nerdy thing going on. Short dark hair but she made it work, and a tight body. She already has a drink so I grab one and we chat for a bit. Then she suggested we go outside and I was perfectly okay with that.

We're talking outside and I had already seeded the pull with using her pole at her house before we even met in person. She says she has mario kart at her house and I'm down with it. She's down with it and I ride bitch on the back of her mo ped.

We get back to her place and its super nice. Take my shoes off, she gives me a tour and we walk into her room. She gives me a dab and we chat for a bit more. She asks if I wanna play mario kart and I say yeah, but not before she gets on top of me and we started making out. She was actually hotter than I thought when she took her top off. It starts getting hotter and clothes come off and fade to black.

We eventually do end up playing mario kart, she destroyed me. We started a movie then turned it off 'cause it was like 2 1/2 hours long. We started to go at it again when her mom came home. I'm in shorts and a t shirt and just chit chat with her awkwardly before going back into her room. We go again then I say I have to go.

I leave and I'm high on hormones and wax. I tried to go back downtown but I was high and just kinda chillin. I just ended up going back home.

That girl was actually just my type. High sex drive, nerdy, into pole, it was great. Definitely will be seeing her again. As for today, Sunday, gonna go out again, either with some friends or solo. Shits going well.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Sunday

Hung out with a few friends but it was raining so it was a wash really. Talked to one girl but pushed her buttons too hard and she left.

Wednesday

A lot better night. Had a good conversation with a friend about our friend group which was nice. Headed out and felt good at first then felt drained. Met some folks and they charged me up again. Had one that stood out, this girl I had passed earlier that looked like she was shaking her ass at me when I walked by. I approach her later and she's super receptive but with a few guys at that point. I should've pulled her off of her group and went outside. Noted. Rest of the night was just drama with my friends, one trying to fight one and all of us not trying to pick sides so we defuse it. I got all in my head at the end and didn't approach some easy ones.

Going out tonight. Should be a good one considering we're slowly entering the weekend. Gonna try and put more detail in my reports and write them as soon as I get home so its fresh.

Work on:
-holding attention
-quickly getting into my groove
-consistent interactions

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Thursday

Not much happened, felt super low energy at a high energy venue. Tried to push through but not much was happening. Still good practice.

Friday

A lot better. Felt really out of it the first half but came back the second half. Went to an after hours and chatted this dark haired girl. She floated off so I rotated to this other girl. She was really receptive and I could see the dark haired one staring out of the corner of my eye. We all went to the bathroom and I made out with the blonde one in front of the other one. Then proceed to grab the dark haired ones number. She may or may not hang out today. I tried to pull the blonde one but she had a boyfriend of ten years back in another state. She was leaving the next day so no go. Still hilarious.

Going out again tonight, we'll see how that goes.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Saturday

Went out decently early around 9:30. Got out with a wing and warmed up. Was having a little trouble as I was pretty sober but nothing crazy. We bounced venues and nothing really stuck. Got to a venue I liked and decided to get in before they started charging cover. Got a few in here, then went for a smoke. Here's where things got interesting.

My wing approaches these two and I come in a little afterwards. I asked if they're being nice to him. Its two girls, but really unlikely pair. One older one but still cute, dressed pretty casual and another younger one in a tight dress and heels. Initially I'm talking to the older one and she's pretty receptive. I'm just getting the social motor started just chatting. Eventually we switched around and I'm talking to the younger one. We kinda split off into two conversations while still being next to each other. I took a seat in this swing thing they have in the smoking section and chill back while conversating.

At one point I notice she has a fat ass and decide to see where it goes. I ask her about tattoos and she shows me one on her back. I spin her around to see it and say I like it. I fluff some more then my wing and I suggest dancing. We do this and I head to the bathroom real quick.

I come back and show off some dance moves. I see my girl doing this shimmy and roast her a bit on it. She leans in and tickles my stomach and I know its on. I see a few friends/other wings and say what's up and introduce them. They walk off and I grab her hand to spin her around. We keep dancing and I eventually grab her hips and we start grinding facing each other. its that one where she's grinding on your leg essentially. I'm thinking I have a good chance to pull at this point and decide to make out with her for a little bit. We do and break off relatively quickly. I suggest sitting for a bit.

We grab this corner couch and cuddle up on there for a bit and chat. I find out she has work in the morning. Shit. I try and seed the pull anyway but she's not having it. We talk some more and I deep dive her a bit about family and her thoughts on porn. She seems pretty sane, so I keep diving on things I could do for a date the next day. Turns out she likes soccer. I tell her I'd destroy her at soccer.

She's pretty competitive but part of me still wants to pull that night. I try and finger her but she's not about it, like, "not in public". I look at the time and its around 12:15. This is becoming a time sink and decide to set up a date tomorrow where I beat her in soccer as long as she agrees not to cry. She puts my number in her phone and I tell her to text me. She leaves shortly after giving me space to try and finish my night out.

I go to the bathroom and there's makeup all over my nose and my black shirt. I look like a fucking coke addict. I get most of it off my face but my shirt suffers. I'm wearing a jacket still and just decide I can use that as part of my opener. Hi - oh this? Just some blow I spilt on my shirt. Never got to use it though.

I ended up losing my wing and my friend and headed home since my phone was dead. When I get home I plug my phone in and she sent me a picture of a soccer ball saying "goodnight". Pretty sure it wouldn't flake at this point but not totally sure.

Date

The next day we set up a date at a park. She ends up being 30 minutes late which was annoying but I'm not too too worried. We meet up and its kinda wet grass but she brought some skateboards. The first 30-45 is just me rebuilding the vibe from last night. I'm looking for a pull excuse as I don't want to waste time and she says her phone is gonna die soon. I tell her we should go charge it and she's like "Okay! "

We get to her house and her roommates are gone. At this point I'm thinking I'm home free no LMR. Ehhhh. She gives me a tour, we get up to her room and watch some Rick and Morty. I go to make out and she pulls away. Okay, didn't see that coming. I pull off and go again, this time reminding her I'm a good kisser. Its a bit longer and I pull off first this time. Her door is open and her roommates come in. Here I usually let the girl take the initiative on whether she says hi or not. Similar to that let her break circle first concept. She says hi but her roommates don't say anything. She comes back in and closes her door. I feel a little more confident in the situation. I stopped for a little and talk some more. We take some dabs and now I'm high, horny, and lazy. We talk about anime shortly and she mentions how she thinks its fucked up that anime sexualizes little girls at times. I agree (this is noted for later. Get this shit...)

We make out some more and I'm just trying to find the spot on her body that talks the most. I pulled her shirt down and grabbed her tits and get a nice reaction. She's still not fully invested in it so I'm pulling away regularly. We make out again and I start rubbing her and she starts to shift into "fuck me" mode. It gets hotter and I pull her top off. She says she's on her period and I just say, "yeah?" In a sexy tone and keep making out. She starts pulling her pants off and I know I'm good to go. She says, "you don't have a condom, I don't have a condom" which I solve pretty quickly by pulling one out.

Next part is TMI for sure.

We fucked a few times then took a nap. We wake up and its dark outside at this point. She goes, "can I show you something? You have to promise not to judge." I'm like, "sure", thinking she's gonna pull out some dildos or a butt plug or some shit. She does pull out two dildos, I'm like, "cool..." She pulls out these rubber handcuffs which I thought were pretty dope. Then she pulls out a fucking pacifier. I get a little wierded out but my face says, "I don't care". Then she pulls out this baby outfit and I'm kinda just drawing a blank in my head. I don't know what to think, so I just ask some questions like, "what makes you like that", "when did this come about", in the most non judgmental tone I can muster up. She explains a bit but in my head I'm not satisfied. I get the whole daddy-dom thing in concept but I swore she said she didn't like the sexualization of younger girls in anime...and so... I just add it up to cognitive dissonance. Like I'm okay with sticking my fingers in a girl's mouth but pacifier? I just didn't like the implications. Okay end rant.

We did end up fucking some more( no baby outfit fuck no) and she did seem a lot more into it. The first times we fucked when she came she pushed me out which I thought was weird but didn't give it too much thought. It happens again and I realize she squirted. I asked if that happens all the time which she says yes to. It was cool but kinda messy. Don't know how I feel about it. And it definitely has the faint smell of urine.

I stayed the night against my better judgment. We fuck again in the morning then I rush home to take a shower. She texted me yesterday (monday) asking if my day was good which I replied to. She sent another one which I ignored. Don't know if I want to see her again.

Stuck in desolate town again for a week so tinder game it is. Luckily the first is next weekend so I won't miss out. Hopefully these last two are a sign of consistency to come.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Monday

Was in a super rush to get out as I was meeting up with a friend at a bar. Almost missed the bus too, luckily it was late. Met up with her and we just chatted for a bit. Talked about weird sexual fetishes we've encountered. Trying to aim the conversation towards sex even if our relationship is completely platonic just for practice. The bar we're at is dead so I suggest this jazz bar a mile down the road. It's a decently long walk and kind of awkward. Gotta' practice keeping my mouth moving in these situations/deep diving.

We get to the place and it's not necessarily overflowing with women. My friend has a papaya so I plan to use that to get my social muscle moving. I indirectly open this girl commenting on how she took her shoes off right away. She gives me this super eccentric vibe right off the bat, but when I push the interaction any further she gives me a shoulder. Turns out she had a boyfriend. I quickly make friends with him and he offers me some weed. I decline. There's a socialite group of girls that I knew I should've approached but didn't. #pussboi. Opened this other girl on her cardigan. Goes nowhere.

Some more of my friends show up and I get caught up in their bubble and stop moving. I vibe well within the group but get clogged up and eventually fizzle out. I end up going home here.

only two for a Monday. Sucks but whatevs. We'll see what happens tonight.

2.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Wednesday

Haven't been feeling it lately, don't know why. Started pretty late around 10:00. Got out and just couldn't really muster anything up. I got to a place and left pretty quickly. Next place wasn't as bad but still stifled. I think I'm not talking enough. My wing gets there and it gets a bit better. I got one in here just over my shoulder opening. It goes h. We decide to leave pretty quick.

We get to the next place and my emotions just get on top of me. Some friends were there but I still wasn't feeling it much. I got a decent one in but the girl was spike-drunk and I wasn't bringing the energy. My mood tanks and I walk home with a friend.

Two more but I really need to hit it hard. At least 10 tomorrow.

Work on:
-open quickly, rapidly
-Keep sending yourself around to maintain energy
-Stay positive

 

[Smurf]

Friday

Initially was planning on going out but Tinder Girl texted me wanting to hang. Was gonna bang her out then head downtown but she dabbed me up and I passed out after we fuckes. Sensing a pattern here. Passed out at hers then went home and made food/showered. Going out now so we'll see how that goes.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Saturday

Went to a coffee shop after I woke up. Met a friend and just got my social muscles moving. Went back home to get ready for the night.

Got out around 10:30-11:00. Met up with a wing and got a shot at the first bar I went to. I met up with some more friends and we headed over to this poppin bar. Got in, went out to the patio and its packed. I opened one girl but she was spiked out and I didn't control her energy like I should've. Danced with friends and got a dance circle going. Opened a few other girls just dancing and they dance in our group. We attract some good energy and people enter and exit our circle. I fucked up because some girl wanted to dance with me and I played too aloof. Talked to her after the place closed and she wasn't about it after I had already pussied out.

I send it to the after party and its poppin as well. Here I open this girl and I'm feeling pretty good. Conversation got dry though and it staled out. I indirect this girl with a hst on and she asks what her hair looks like. I tell her "sexy" with some strong eye contact, but not vulture-like. She recieves it pretty well. I float around and my wing had started puking for some reason. He ended up being okay though.

It starts to clear out and I try and make a play for the girl with the hat. I talk to the guy she's with and he says they're just good friends. I note it and try and see if I can pull to the bathroom or something. The guy ends up coming in with us so no go. Feel like I should've screened both of them more aggressively in this situation instead of assuming it was on. She leaves after they close and I grab her number but I don't expect much.

I slept all day Sunday then went to work today (Monday). Took a nap and now I'm headed out.

About 5 approaches and a number. Gives me 8 for the weekend and 10 total. Want to get around 50 or more by the end of the week.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Monday

Went out late around 11:30 to a spot. Got like two approa hes in but my friend and I weren't feeling it and went home around 12:30.

Tuesday

Woke up super late. Saw this girl I knew at a coffee shop when I was walking and stopped to talk for a bit. Chatted and she invited me to this show today. Ran home to get ready then headed over. It was super local and ended up being in someone's garage. Talked to most of the girls there and almost all of them lived in a far away town. One lived in my city so I grabbed her number and talked to her about hanging out later. She had A bottle with her and I had some but didn't think she was that drunk. I leave her for a little bit and she's in the corner crying after. I leave that alone, talked to like 3 more girls and left.

Half my post got deleted but whatevs. Didn't get much done for the rest of the night since I was going to water world early the next day.

Wednesday

Went to water world, was sick. Got a couple approaches in but not really an environment conductive to seduction. About five in here that went nowhere. Got some thrill in though and reminded myself I need to do what I'm afraid of.

Took a nap then went out to a club. Got about three approaches in here and one that went well. Should've moved her but didn't. They close and got another approach in with this guy and girl but the girl wasn't being receptive to the approach I was taking. Felt like I was being too much of a dick and not being nice. Didn't flip it around but may hang with them tomorrow.

Going out tomorrow to start the weekend off right. Should be good.

Around 21 more points up.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Somehow double posted.

 

[Smurf]

Thursday

Went out to a smaller bar with a friend down the street from our houses. Met up with some people we knew and confirmed between each other that one of the guys is pretty lame. The other people they were with were cool, and there was a cute girl but I didn't analyze the situation fast enough. Turns out the girl was just using the guy for free drinks and wasn't into him as she left shortly afterward.

We went to his house after but some shit went down with something that was said between people. I told them I thought both sides overreacted but that they were being douchebags and taking it too far. One guy understood my point but the guy who's house it was said, "there's no need to defend ourselves, fuck this guy - no offense to you." I said something to the air of, "I said my opinion, you said yours. You don't have to defend yourself but I'm not gonna censor myself." It was dropped after that but my friend and I shortly left afterwards. Not gonna' hang out with them again, the dude who's house it was is super insecure and I didn't appreciate the way he handled everything.

Friday

Went out pretty late around 10:30-11:00. Met up with a wing and decided to go to a bar that's pretty poppin' with a dancefloor. Got in there and got a drink. We approach these two girls but we didn't move them and they were waiting for something to happen. End up leaving them and didn't see them again. I made a few more half ass approaches but nothing stuck really. We go outside and head to an after party later. Here this girl is kinda flirty but seems like she's just crazy/attention seeking. I see her there often but don't really know how to convert. Need to get her chasing more - it's been something I've been working on is getting girls chasing and framing them as such with my verbals, while being pretty chill and not really verbalizing direct intent. It's been working to some degree. Also been experimenting with blatant direct intent casually thrown out then quickly changing the subject. That's pretty much all that happened that night, there were some girls I wanted to go after but I notice they leave around 3:30-4:00. Gotta' move quicker on those.

Pretty much just approaches here. 4-5ish. I'll say 4.

Saturday

Shoulda' pulled to the bathroom.

Went out to a club LATE, around 12:00. Fucking mistake. The line was long, even though I got to cut it. Met up randomly with the girl I met from Wednesday. Invited them to the after party afterwards but they didn't text back. Oh well. When I was inside it was just so crowded I didn't even approach really. Just kinda' chilled and socialized with no goals. Eventually head to the after party to find out some shit went down with my homie that works there. I head inside and he's shook up about it. I just chill and let the place fill up while making sure my homie is good. It starts filling up and I see the girl from the previous night. I'll call her CrazyArt. She tells me not to smoke while I'm chewing gum and takes the gum out of my mouth. Not sure what to think of that. I just chill and keep perusing the crowd. One of my wings shows up, I'll call him Russian. Tell him there's girls in the other room and we head over. I fuck up but it still opens but I can't sit down since all the seats are taken. It sucks but I push through just to practice. The girls eventually bounce and I chill and grab a drink. I say hello to a few of the regulars. Open this girl that's grabbing drinks and she's pretty receptive. Been experimenting with asking about a girl's tattoos while grabbing her wrist with two fingers and lifting it up, almost spinning her around. It gets okay results depending on if she's hooked or not. She says she has to find friends. Here I think I should've been like, "yeah, let's find them" but I let her go. She was decently hooked.

I go smoke and just chat with folks some more. Talk to this girl who's number I got last weekend that I thought was a lesbian. We chat for a bit and she pulls off. I'm not getting the full lesbo vibe from her though. I talk to her guy friend who I had already screened last weekend to see if they were together. I'll call her HalfFree. Will make sense later. We talk and eventually we come around to go on a quick skiing trip. We bond some more and then it ends up being closing time. He invites us to chill at his house and I'm down. I say goodbye to people then start heading out the door. My friend that works there wants to come, I'll call him Obama. I'm talking to HalfFree's guy friend and he doesn't want a few people to come. I tell him we can say we're going to sleep soon. I've been experimenting with "we're already friends" type vibes and it's been working really well. We ditch some people and it ends up being 5 of us. 4 guys, 1 girl. Pretty shitty but I feel like I can figure something out.

We get to the place. I'm thinking and its one guy who's about to leave, one guy on acid, the guy who's house it is who isn't fucking this girl (as far as I can tell), HalfFree, myself, and Obama is gonna' show up later. It's not ideal but it's okay. We get there and go to his basement. Its a pretty cool spot and he's a nice host. I compliment him on his room and his host skills and we talk for a bit. Just cementing a good vibe between us. I sit next to HalfFree on the couch and the acid guy is on the other side of her. He hasn't made any sort of gesture he's even attracted to this girl so I think I'm good. We talk and put on some music. I instantly direct conversation between the three of us on the couch to free thoughts, sex, and things of that nature. HalfFree eats it up and we all end up having a good convo. Here's where I think I fucked up by overgaming/not building enough comfort.

I tease HalfFree on her tits, and she promptly takes her top off. Her tits are actually prettty big to my suprise, I thought it was a push up bra. She keeps saying semi- slutty things (which I like, and tell her this) then right after saying something ASD. I think if I had built up more comfort and qualified her about being sexually free it would've been better. Or I should've just pulled her into the bathroom. Not sure which.

We keep talking and she asks to touch my hair. She pulls it pretty hard. I don't exactly remember when but she started punching me lightly. I tell her she's aggressive. Later she talks about her relationship with her family, and how she would always fight with her sisters. I tell her that explains why she's so aggressive. She's like, "Oh my god, no one's ever said that before I think that's right!"

I tell her to play with my hair and she sits on the top of the couch with me in between her legs. I'm just confused on what to do about having two other guys in the room simultaneously. The other guy left in an Uber, which is good, but I still can't think of a way to smoothly remove ourselves from the room and outside/into the bathroom.

Obama gets there and now it's around 6:30. I feel my window has closed and I'm just trying to honestly let the vibe die a bit so it's not like "we almost had something" and didn't. We talk more but me and HalfFree are less physical than before. Hours pass and eventually the guy kicks us all out. We all leave and are trying to figure out what to do. I should've immediately suggested her house but she was tired and wasn't down. I decide to head home and Obama and the acid guy do something else. I got home and instantaneously passed out. I wake up and text her but she's with her cousin that's in town or something. Thinking I'll wait till the weekend to text her again.

The girl from last Wednesday texted but it's super not-solid. I texted her when she'd be free this week but no response yet. Gonna' radio silence her as I've texted her a few times this weekend.

HippyGirl from almost a month ago texted me out of nowhere vaguely asking me to come to the bar we met at. I decided not to that night. I'll text her this week and see what's up with her. I had already deleted her number.

Texted the hottie from my work my friends and I met a while back and she wanted to hang. Don't know if it's platonic or not but I think I'll play it that way for now.

Want to go out today (Monday) but we'll see.

21 approaches this whole week and 2 numbers. I feel dumb and should've fucked the girl from Saturday but didn't. Oh well, these situations are happening more regularly now.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Thoughts About The Week

Last week was good. Had some chances I just didn't capitalize on.

-If a girl invites you out, go, then just leave if she just wants to be friends.
Felt like I could've went out with HippyGirl on Friday but I just thought it would be a waste. Should just throw the dice next time.

-Find a way to pull the trigger.
HalfFree was down and attracted, I just needed an excuse. Have to find one next time. Gotta' be more resourceful.

-Sexual talk has to be combined with building comfort.
Feel like I can get too player-y when I do this. It builds value but things that build value usually tank comfort and attainability. Gotta' balance.

-Get moving.
Gotta' get used to just moving girls around when the conversation dies. Easy thing to do.

-Don't verbal open on the dancefloor.
This shit kills me every time I try it. I get an approach invitation then try and "Hi!" Just gonna' open physically.

 

[Smurf]

DIdn't go out Monday or Tuesday. Wednesday just got super drunk for my birthday which was dumb. Did approach this one weird girl with my friends that was super off putting.

Slept all of Thursday.

Friday

This shit is mad frustrating but it's not bad. Also insane coincidence I couldn't pass up on.

I texted some leads and only one texted me back with a possible confirmation. She eventually flaked though. Thinking about deleting her number. I just have a lot of girl's numbers in my phone not saved that'll text me intermittently - not sure how to capitalize on these. Also not sure when to text this FB. I like her, I like fucking her, I don't want to date her. And for some reason we meet up on weekends which is a huge no-no for me. I'll keep seeing her if I can get her to meet up during the week.

Anyways onto this fuckery.

A friend says he's down the street from my house at a bar. I quickly get dressed and head in that direction. It's a good friend of mine, his friend I may have mentioned from a month back and his girlfriend. They're decently sloshed up so I entertain the girlfriend for a bit. In the short period of time I manage to get her chasing a bit and touching me unassisted. I wanted to see how far I could get her to lean off the ledge without jumping. I tease her on her age but quickly change subjects as it might've been a bit much, but she didn't mind. I'm starting to feel interested in girlfriends again along with other taboo things I'll talk about later.

We end up going to get food which I don't partake in and meet up with my other friend. I chill with him for a bit and talk about girls since he recently broke up with his girl. We chat and eventually get walking down the street since my other friends are still eating. I lose steam her and don't go off like I wanted to. I go to this place I used to work at and see a bunch of people I used to know, including this flirty Asian girl. I mess up here and should've led but I couldn't get a good read on the situation. I see this other girl and just compliment her as she walks by. Turns out they know each other and start talking. The Asian one says it's her girlfriend and I cockily say "she's my girlfriend" which was a mistake. They walk off. I totally mistimed that cocky humor don't know what I was thinking there. My other friends say they're getting back from food and I meet up with them again. I also meet up with a good girlfriend of mine and one of her co-workers. Her co-worker is shy and I don't feel like cracking eggs without scrambling yolks right now. I flirt with my girl-friend and end up walking them home while me and my other good friend walk to an after party.

I make a half-decent impression on the co-worker but not enough for her to let me into her house after meeting her 15 minutes ago. Damn. Felt if I tried harder it could've gone either way but I wasn't really trying to risk it with my girl-friend right there.

Get to the after party and it's okay. Nothing really poppin but it's alright. I chit chat here and there and talk to some people I know. Overall nothing really happens. I help them clean up and shit and talk shit, then head out with Obama.

One of the guys gives Obama and I a ride home. We stop by McDonalds and hear this car crash on my street. I'm like, "that's unfortunate" and start unwrapping my McGriddle. They drop me off and I see one of the guys I met from the crazy after party over a month ago. I've seen him and his friends since but this was mad random. It's 5am. I'm literally about to step into my house. I give them hugs and they were the ones in the accident. Talk about fate. It's him and his sister and I just start walking with them. They're like, "You pretty much have to come with us now it's fate." I agree.

So I knew his sister was hot but I didn't really pay attention. For some background she has a boyfriend I mentioned her briefly before. My friend is also super protective. But apparently she can fuck other girls but not dudes. Well we shall see. We get back to theirs and it ends up being me, my friend, his sister, and another guy that's pretty much comatose. Round two of fucked logistics here we goooo. I just start doing cocky funny style on both of them since my friend is gay. I'm basically waiting to time it to start flirting with his sister harder. We talk and talk and eventually pole dance and acro yoga comes up. I tell her to come try it with me. So we're doing acro yoga in the middle of the floor of her apartment and that was the best thing I could think of to get some strong kino going. It worked a bit actually, because she was a lot more touchy after that. My friend and the other guy go to grab yet ANOTHER dude. I take advantage and teach her a headstand. I'm touching her pretty frequently and she's asking me to adjust her form. The guys come back in and I'm fuucked now. She tells me to get her number so we can practice again. That. Will. Happen.

I try and play attrition game and pass out while they get tacos. I'm also genuinely tired as it's 11am and I've been good so far today. Just a lot of wine at their house. I figure they'll all go home and I can make something happen when she gets back. When she gets back my friend (the brother) kicks all of us out after I had specifically asked her if I could stay since she didn't have to be up till 11pm. Little salty but I'll get the runback soon.

Getting used to fucked after-party logistics. Working on being blatantly sexual. Maybe fleshing out a better style, just need a little less sarcastic humor and more genuine connection to avoid player-y stuff.

Going out tonight, kinda on a mission at this point. Haven't gotten a new lay this month and I'm kinda salty. Also losing bad in the S.T. so it's now or never really. Texting all the leads. Pushing all the sets.

+5

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Saturday

Rest of the week I either didn't go out or not much happened. Got a new job at an after hours spot so that's gonna be huge.

Went out with a buddy of mine to a bar down the street from mine. Decided to hit this other spot and a girl from a couple weeks ago hits me up. I tell her to meet us there and she does. Unfortunately I only could hang out with them for about 45 minutes before I went to work. I flirted with her slightly but think I didn't push hard enough. Tried to get her to come by my work later but didn't pan out.

Got to work and set up. Started pretty slow and picked up around 2:30-3:00. I can't really move around a bunch since I'm working but people have to talk to me eventually so its a nice thing. Also since I work there now I have authority game going as well. I see this girl that's cute and turns out she's with a girl I know that I'm friends with. SShe comes over and hugs me for some mad social proof then her friend comes over and I talk to her casually. I ask to hit her juul and she puts it in my mouth for me. She wanders off and I talk to my friend girl about random creepy dudes and her cute friend. She tells me she's single so I take mental note. Not much happens after with anyone else.

Around when we're about to close I talk to her again and I meant to see what they were doing afterwards. It wasn't solid so I couldn't do much but I grabbed my friend's instagram and the glasses girl's snap. She kisses me on the cheek and I respond with, "that was weak" to which she kisses both my cheeks then one on the lips. I pull her back and make out with her for a second then let her go. After this she hovers around for a second. I couldn't do anything because I had to stay and clean and didn't make a solid day 2 plan. Hopefully I'll see her again or she'll message me.

Think I'll text the girl from earlier in the night to get drinks sometime this week. New job is gonna make life a lot easier though.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Monday

Lots of basic fuck ups here but trying to get in the habit of writing. I got out super late and had to leave super early. I got to this jazz bar and didn't approach too much.

The most notable things were that glasses girl and my friend-girl showed up. Glasses girl was on a date with a guy. My friend eventually pulled me into the group but I didn't do much after I found out the dynamic. I didn't want to just pull her off. Another girl approached me for a cig but I didn't do much with it.

Saw a friend of mine and he was with a guy and a girl. I noticed tonight I didn't talk enough initially to get the group hooked onto me. I just said a few things and hung back which wasn't the correct option in this situation. I ended up leaving, before I did I saw another friend who invited me to some party this weekend. He'll have to text me as I deleted his number some time back.

-Need to be out longer and need to do at least two approaches.

-Too much sitting around and waiting tonight. I'm not at work so that strat doesn't work.

Jake.

 

[Smurf]

Update:

Haven't been updating due to work. Tried working days and nights and it turned out to be too much to handle juggling game/work/night job. Dropped the night job, cut game to two nights a week and focused on the day job. Payed off though, got a raise at the day job, night job will start up again here in the next two weeks, and its been a nice break from game related development. Have the rest of the week off (I think) so planning on going hard for what's left.

Went out tonight and reading from my journal I'm rusty as fuck. Saw a pretty famous RnB artist but the venue was very crowded. Didn't do much in terms of approaches. Wasn't the venue for my mood at the time.

Plan on going out tomorrow.