So I got a text from a College buddy who I've kept in touch with via Social Media for a number of years. He said he would be at one of my client's events briefly, so I decided to go meet him and just kinda represent the company and make sure the client knew I was there to support them. Many of my client's customers were clients of mine, so while visiting I got the chance to introduce my buddy to people I knew, although there were plenty I didn't. My buddy had to leave so we bid farewell, and I stuck around to drink my client's beer and enjoy the company and BBQ'ed oysters.
Now I was not there to hook up with anyone. But I had women who saw me talking to other people, come up and introduce themselves. I found those interactions to be rather good reference points for filing away for future reference.
The first was a slender blonde older than I but attractive albeit a little rough/aged/weathered...She didn't come out and say it but she was there with her boyfriend, who was kinda being a prick to her and trying to act like a big shot with the boys. I think she was just looking for some male attention. We bonded over our divorces, and I determined later she was probably just looking for the gossip to pass along to her boyfriend. She never actually referred to the boyfriend as such, but I made the deduction. He was someone I grew up with and went to different schools. Truth be told I never volunteered my status either. Lots of eye contact and pretty touchy. I felt like if it got dark, she would be open to a down low hook up. She wasn't as engaged with any of the other guys there.
The second was a redhead, maybe 4 years younger than I, I'd seen at other community events since she had a management role in them. Knew her first name but not her last. We had some social media friends in common. Started talking with her drunk guy buddy, topic got sexual and she jumped right in the conversation specifically stating how her pussy was perfect because she had a c-section for her kid. Noted...She always seemed to be joining in to conversations I was having with other people. Later on that night she slipped her business card in my pocket, just as she was getting another young lady's phone number who I was talking to...
That young lady was a college student at the local university who was there with her father. I'm good friends with her father (and think the father's girlfriend would be a kick in the ass to date). I found that she positioned herself next to me as I was talking with someone else, and didn't say anything. So I was friendly and she lit up and chatted with laser eye contact. There was no way in hell I was going to do anything with a girl half my age, but the drunk guy buddy referenced earlier asked me 3 times that afternoon "is this your woman?" And she just smiled....Later she asked if I would come to her family's event that was similar to the one I was at. I declined because I already had plans, and I could see, I think she was making plans of her own....
So here is my point.....
I went there and showed no interest in any of the women, but that made them pursue me. I was cordial, and social, and most importantly sincere....That was attractive to these women. I didn't try to impress any of them, and to tell the truth, none of them were hot enough to warrant it. It was a nice ego boost knowing i could go into a situation like that and have options. Truly an Abundance mindset...It is a refreshing feeling.
Now I was not there to hook up with anyone. But I had women who saw me talking to other people, come up and introduce themselves. I found those interactions to be rather good reference points for filing away for future reference.
The first was a slender blonde older than I but attractive albeit a little rough/aged/weathered...She didn't come out and say it but she was there with her boyfriend, who was kinda being a prick to her and trying to act like a big shot with the boys. I think she was just looking for some male attention. We bonded over our divorces, and I determined later she was probably just looking for the gossip to pass along to her boyfriend. She never actually referred to the boyfriend as such, but I made the deduction. He was someone I grew up with and went to different schools. Truth be told I never volunteered my status either. Lots of eye contact and pretty touchy. I felt like if it got dark, she would be open to a down low hook up. She wasn't as engaged with any of the other guys there.
The second was a redhead, maybe 4 years younger than I, I'd seen at other community events since she had a management role in them. Knew her first name but not her last. We had some social media friends in common. Started talking with her drunk guy buddy, topic got sexual and she jumped right in the conversation specifically stating how her pussy was perfect because she had a c-section for her kid. Noted...She always seemed to be joining in to conversations I was having with other people. Later on that night she slipped her business card in my pocket, just as she was getting another young lady's phone number who I was talking to...
That young lady was a college student at the local university who was there with her father. I'm good friends with her father (and think the father's girlfriend would be a kick in the ass to date). I found that she positioned herself next to me as I was talking with someone else, and didn't say anything. So I was friendly and she lit up and chatted with laser eye contact. There was no way in hell I was going to do anything with a girl half my age, but the drunk guy buddy referenced earlier asked me 3 times that afternoon "is this your woman?" And she just smiled....Later she asked if I would come to her family's event that was similar to the one I was at. I declined because I already had plans, and I could see, I think she was making plans of her own....
So here is my point.....
I went there and showed no interest in any of the women, but that made them pursue me. I was cordial, and social, and most importantly sincere....That was attractive to these women. I didn't try to impress any of them, and to tell the truth, none of them were hot enough to warrant it. It was a nice ego boost knowing i could go into a situation like that and have options. Truly an Abundance mindset...It is a refreshing feeling.
