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Hey guys,
Lately my interactions are getting more solid, but girls don't reply to my icebreakers. This is rather strange because I can tell these girls are clearly keen to meet up again when we exchange numbers. Anyway, here's an interaction I had today. Any feedback is welcomed!
So I was at the mall today and already talked to a few girls before I saw this girl walking into a sports shop. I followed her into the store and waited until she was alone in the aisle.
Me: "excuse me"
she was walking away and she looked back, but she kept on walking.
Me: "hey excuse me!" I waved at her.
Her: "oh me?" (see fellas, most of the time girls aren't blowing you out. you blow yourself out)
Me: "yes you" I smiled. I maintained a calm eye contact that seems to draw girls eye onto you.
Me: "I saw you walking past..."
Her: "walking past?"
I sensed that she was japanese, so I introduced myself in japanese.
Her eyes light up and told me she's here to learn english. Then I complimented on her style. She was surprised, but I stayed calm mostly because I've seen it thousands of times.
Me: "what are you doing here?"
Her: "I'm just killing time before I go to yoga." she points towards her yoga mat.
Me: "ahh I see...I love girls who do yoga"
Her: "Oh really?" she seems attracted
Me: "yes they stay in really good shape."
Her: "*talked about how long she's been doing it"
Me: "how does yoga make you feel?"
Her: "It makes me feel relaxed and calm, but it's really hard"
Me: "I see..I do meditation"
Her: "meditation?"
Me: "yes you sit somewhere quiet...." I said it in a sexual tone.
Her: "somewhere quiet.."
Me: " and you think about nothing"
Her: "ahh"
Then we went on to talk about her plans in the future. I moved closer to her during the interaction because I felt like it and touched her occasionally on the arm. I told her to guess my age and it turns out I'm 2 years younger than her. I asked her if she has ever dated a younger guy. She said "no". I teased her "well today's your lucky day".
Then after more chit-chat, I asked her out.
Me: "I like how you do yoga and *something else I can't remember, let's grab coffee sometime."
she excitedly said yes. she took out her local phone. (It seems like Jap people have two phones when they travel) We exchanged numbers. She even took down my number and put my name in. She told me she just topped up. I asked her "do you text?", she said she does. I asked this to gauge if she's a texting person. I've learned not to walk away immediately after taking down her number, so I stayed to ask her what her japanese name means, and teased her it sounds like a food...a very delicious food
I asked her what her schedule's like in the next couple of days.
Her: "umm...I think I have plans. do you mean thurs and fri?"
I took a deep breath, because I noticed I was projecting a nervous vibe.
Me: "any day really" I smiled
Her: "I'm free next week"
Me: "alright we can do next week"
A few more seconds of chit-chat.
Me: "I'm glad I came talk to you. we should see each other again. I'll text you"
Her: "me too! yes text me!" she was looking at me very eagerly with dilated pupil.
Me: " alright give me a hug" It was a light hug. Not what I had hoped but I was following my instinct.
Texted her an icebreaker 2 hours later. "Hey XX! cool meeting you. =) hope u got to relax at yoga"
No reply. This is interesting. Probably the second time this has happened this week and I thought it was a pretty solid interaction.
I would appreciate any feedback!
Cheers
Smith
Lately my interactions are getting more solid, but girls don't reply to my icebreakers. This is rather strange because I can tell these girls are clearly keen to meet up again when we exchange numbers. Anyway, here's an interaction I had today. Any feedback is welcomed!
So I was at the mall today and already talked to a few girls before I saw this girl walking into a sports shop. I followed her into the store and waited until she was alone in the aisle.
Me: "excuse me"
she was walking away and she looked back, but she kept on walking.
Me: "hey excuse me!" I waved at her.
Her: "oh me?" (see fellas, most of the time girls aren't blowing you out. you blow yourself out)
Me: "yes you" I smiled. I maintained a calm eye contact that seems to draw girls eye onto you.
Me: "I saw you walking past..."
Her: "walking past?"
I sensed that she was japanese, so I introduced myself in japanese.
Her eyes light up and told me she's here to learn english. Then I complimented on her style. She was surprised, but I stayed calm mostly because I've seen it thousands of times.
Me: "what are you doing here?"
Her: "I'm just killing time before I go to yoga." she points towards her yoga mat.
Me: "ahh I see...I love girls who do yoga"
Her: "Oh really?" she seems attracted
Me: "yes they stay in really good shape."
Her: "*talked about how long she's been doing it"
Me: "how does yoga make you feel?"
Her: "It makes me feel relaxed and calm, but it's really hard"
Me: "I see..I do meditation"
Her: "meditation?"
Me: "yes you sit somewhere quiet...." I said it in a sexual tone.
Her: "somewhere quiet.."
Me: " and you think about nothing"
Her: "ahh"
Then we went on to talk about her plans in the future. I moved closer to her during the interaction because I felt like it and touched her occasionally on the arm. I told her to guess my age and it turns out I'm 2 years younger than her. I asked her if she has ever dated a younger guy. She said "no". I teased her "well today's your lucky day".
Then after more chit-chat, I asked her out.
Me: "I like how you do yoga and *something else I can't remember, let's grab coffee sometime."
she excitedly said yes. she took out her local phone. (It seems like Jap people have two phones when they travel) We exchanged numbers. She even took down my number and put my name in. She told me she just topped up. I asked her "do you text?", she said she does. I asked this to gauge if she's a texting person. I've learned not to walk away immediately after taking down her number, so I stayed to ask her what her japanese name means, and teased her it sounds like a food...a very delicious food
I asked her what her schedule's like in the next couple of days.Her: "umm...I think I have plans. do you mean thurs and fri?"
I took a deep breath, because I noticed I was projecting a nervous vibe.
Me: "any day really" I smiled
Her: "I'm free next week"
Me: "alright we can do next week"
A few more seconds of chit-chat.
Me: "I'm glad I came talk to you. we should see each other again. I'll text you"
Her: "me too! yes text me!" she was looking at me very eagerly with dilated pupil.
Me: " alright give me a hug" It was a light hug. Not what I had hoped but I was following my instinct.
Texted her an icebreaker 2 hours later. "Hey XX! cool meeting you. =) hope u got to relax at yoga"
No reply. This is interesting. Probably the second time this has happened this week and I thought it was a pretty solid interaction.
I would appreciate any feedback!
Cheers
Smith
