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Hey guys, so here's the story with this girl(sorry if its a bit long, but i need the HELP!):
i met her back in May and we began talking by facebook/text. Situation was ,she was going to study abroad for the summer. No big deal, each day we talked more and more, as the summer passed we Skyped alot, she'd call and text me multiple times a day. She would even go on vacations/trips, call me from there, bunch of stuff that you could say things were going pretty smooth. Time came and she was here! I was eager to meet this girl.
We went out twice on different weeks. She even picked me up at work, offered to pay lunch, i didnt let her obviously. And things were going pretty well. Thing was she was starting to talk to me less and less via phone, though if i was the one initiating or calling, she would talk a lot. Normal. She was going on a trip that day for the weekend and we talked a few days later,she told me seriously EVERYTHING she did on that weekend, from what she ate to what she did and who she was with, without me specifically asking.
Next week we were starting classes back in college and i asked her when i was seeing her again, she said on that day. The day came by and she started sending me this snapchats of "First day of classes"(i know, highschoolish) then some with mutual friends hanging out. When i got out of my class i texted her,thing which i hadnt done in 3 or 4 days. We agreed to meet up and did so, for a few minutes because she was running late for a class, but she did tell me "we talk by text". After she got out of hers, she called me and we agreed to meet up again. We did for like 10 mins, talked for a bit, flirted a little until some friends of her came up and started talking to her and i had to go to class, so that was basically it. i asked her what she was doing on the weekend and she replied with " im busy Sunday", i said ok, Saturday is good then, to which she said " hmm i dont know, let me know and we set up something" i was like fuck. Friday came, and i called her around 10, said she was going to this place with a female friend to meet up with a group, that we'd keep communicating on the night.
So i called her again around 1 am, told her to stay there, i'll be coming over. Thing was i went to the place got to the door and guess who was heading out? We encountered there, she was like im going home with my friend, i wanted to keep her around for a bit, even gave her a kiss, offered to take her home, she was like resisting a bit in a funny way to stay. Anyways, she left, and what did i do, i called her. i was a bit drunk and i flat out asked herdo you want to keep seeing/going out with me? She replied: "Whats up with that question?" " Why are you asking me this". I said i wanted to know, but left it there.
Basically the thing is this girl is kinda driving me crazy, i like her, i WANT her. BUT i know i can't be chasing her around like a dog for a freaking bone. I REALIZED this and stopped all communications with her(No calls,texts,snapchats,whatever). Haven't talked to her for a week and a half now. She hasn't texted me either or called me. Though there has been a sort of an encounter at school. Last thursday, i was with some friends sitting around, she walked right by us on purpose, looked at me and didnt even said hi, just crossed by like she didnt know me.I dont know what to do with this chick, if i let time pass and dont talk to her for a while, then try to pursue her again in the future, ask her out or something, OR wait for her to get back at me first. Such a shitty situation.
i met her back in May and we began talking by facebook/text. Situation was ,she was going to study abroad for the summer. No big deal, each day we talked more and more, as the summer passed we Skyped alot, she'd call and text me multiple times a day. She would even go on vacations/trips, call me from there, bunch of stuff that you could say things were going pretty smooth. Time came and she was here! I was eager to meet this girl.
We went out twice on different weeks. She even picked me up at work, offered to pay lunch, i didnt let her obviously. And things were going pretty well. Thing was she was starting to talk to me less and less via phone, though if i was the one initiating or calling, she would talk a lot. Normal. She was going on a trip that day for the weekend and we talked a few days later,she told me seriously EVERYTHING she did on that weekend, from what she ate to what she did and who she was with, without me specifically asking.
Next week we were starting classes back in college and i asked her when i was seeing her again, she said on that day. The day came by and she started sending me this snapchats of "First day of classes"(i know, highschoolish) then some with mutual friends hanging out. When i got out of my class i texted her,thing which i hadnt done in 3 or 4 days. We agreed to meet up and did so, for a few minutes because she was running late for a class, but she did tell me "we talk by text". After she got out of hers, she called me and we agreed to meet up again. We did for like 10 mins, talked for a bit, flirted a little until some friends of her came up and started talking to her and i had to go to class, so that was basically it. i asked her what she was doing on the weekend and she replied with " im busy Sunday", i said ok, Saturday is good then, to which she said " hmm i dont know, let me know and we set up something" i was like fuck. Friday came, and i called her around 10, said she was going to this place with a female friend to meet up with a group, that we'd keep communicating on the night.
So i called her again around 1 am, told her to stay there, i'll be coming over. Thing was i went to the place got to the door and guess who was heading out? We encountered there, she was like im going home with my friend, i wanted to keep her around for a bit, even gave her a kiss, offered to take her home, she was like resisting a bit in a funny way to stay. Anyways, she left, and what did i do, i called her. i was a bit drunk and i flat out asked herdo you want to keep seeing/going out with me? She replied: "Whats up with that question?" " Why are you asking me this". I said i wanted to know, but left it there.
Basically the thing is this girl is kinda driving me crazy, i like her, i WANT her. BUT i know i can't be chasing her around like a dog for a freaking bone. I REALIZED this and stopped all communications with her(No calls,texts,snapchats,whatever). Haven't talked to her for a week and a half now. She hasn't texted me either or called me. Though there has been a sort of an encounter at school. Last thursday, i was with some friends sitting around, she walked right by us on purpose, looked at me and didnt even said hi, just crossed by like she didnt know me.I dont know what to do with this chick, if i let time pass and dont talk to her for a while, then try to pursue her again in the future, ask her out or something, OR wait for her to get back at me first. Such a shitty situation.
