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ozzyakram91

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In spam approaching hundreds of girls over a few days last week, I accidentally approached a teenager minor and the moment I found out she was underage, I walked off.. but the warden there thought I was hitting on her and filed a report with the cops and they're looking for me and asking shop keepers in my cornerstore for my pictures.. what the fuck do I do?
 

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In spam approaching hundreds of girls over a few days last week, I accidentally approached a teenager minor and the moment I found out she was underage, I walked off.. but the warden there thought I was hitting on her and filed a report with the cops and they're looking for me and asking shop keepers in my cornerstore for my pictures.. what the fuck do I do?

1. Don't spam approach
2. Approach in a smooth, pleasant, socially calibrated way

I can't tell you what to do if you're already in trouble with the cops over some random dude's accusation, but if you've done nothing wrong then all you can do is defend yourself as best you can.

I've approached for years in the same places and never had any third parties interfere or make a complaint. But you have to do this stuff with finesse, under the radar, presenting yourself as a classy guy and fitting in within your environment.
 
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ozzyakram91

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1. Don't spam approach
2. Approach in a smooth, pleasant, socially calibrated way

I can't tell you what to do if you're already in trouble with the cops over some random dude's accusation, but if you've done nothing wrong then all you can do is defend yourself as best you can.

I've approached for years in the same places and never had any third parties interfere or make a complaint. But you have to do this stuff with finesse, under the radar, presenting yourself as a classy guy and fitting in within your environment.
How do you fly under the radar although youre approaching numerous girls in the same space/vicinity and it's evident you have an agenda
 

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How do you fly under the radar although youre approaching numerous girls in the same space/vicinity and it's evident you have an agenda

By not spam approaching, for starters.

You said you approached several hundred girls in a few days, that means two things.

1. You made it very obvious what you were doing, simply by doing it A LOT in a short space of time.
2. It's very likely you approaches were direct and uncalibrated.

No one has time to have a hundred conversations a day with girls. Assuming you were out for 8 hours (?) that's 12 approaches an hour. I can't even find that many girls to approach in an hour, let alone have conversations with them. Obviously you weren't being selective, obviously none of them were hooking, obviously it was just you whizzing around like a homing missile bouncing off every girl in sight. That's a good way to piss off some white knight who thinks he has some kind of ownership over that territory.

A seduction, in the beginning, should simply be a conversation. You stop her and compliment her, but then for the first 30 seconds you're basically just a warm, friendly, dude being social and cool. You're not putting pressure on her, or being all direct and obvious about your intentions.

And this first 30 seconds is what other people will notice, if anything, of your approach.

Even if she doesn't stop, she should typically be looking happy to have been approached, you should be looking happy even if a little disappointed, and everyone around can feel comfortable with that. I have a habit to always smile after a girl walks off, both for myself and for anyone around, to make it clear that it's all no big deal and I'm not some weird anxious hungry dude.

You need to study game a lot more, make your approach way more indirect, work on your technique and calibration, and be way more selective.
 

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Assuming this post isn't a troll, the best thing to do is to law low for a few weeks and never speak to the cops or admit anything. Even though you haven't done anything wrong, just deny everything. In this day and ages even approaching women in such a way will have you under a lense you do not want to be under.

If you see the cops lurking, calmly walk the other way. I'm guessing you are in Australia from your username, that is quite an authoritarian government that like to micromanage things, very much like the UK. Anonymity is essential for daygame. Also don't confront the security guard trying to explain the situation either. Just even let him see your face. I know it seems shady but it's just the current climate in these types of feminist societies at the moment.
 

AspiringStoic

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Guys, again the OP has started multiple threads and some very nonsensical ones like a recent one in the field reports section here:


Like what the hell is that? And how si that a field report?

He has demonstrated that he lacks basic self awareness about what he is doing and how he comes across.

Are we really going to sit here on this forum and try to advise a guy on cold approach when seems to lack even the most basic social skills and self awareness?

In doing so, if anything you are only going to get him into more trouble.
 
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