Wanted to tell you about an interaction I had that might serve as a data point for guys to determine if a woman is open to being approached.
St Patricks Day 2:00 pm Sunny and warmer than it had been for some time. Shirt sleeve weather
I'd had a couple beers, and was slightly sweaty. I'd run 7 miles that morning.
I was leaving a Downtown courtyard where holiday festivities were going on. I walked around the corner into a parking lot and a woman about my age was talking with a man in a car who had some passengers including a teenager an a couple toddler age kids milling around . She had another attractive woman approaching leading a small dog on a leash. At first glance I could tell they were gathering up to go to the festivities together.
As I got into earshot, the woman stretched and said to the group loud enough for me to hear from 50 ft away "I need a massage!"
My vehicle was parked behind her and she was in my path. As I approached I made eye contact, shrugged my shoulders and spread my hands apart and said to her "But i don't know how to do a proper massage."
She smiled and said "Well I could teach you." DING DING DING IOI ALERT!
The Lesson here is: When a woman is having a conversation with someone else, and speaks loudly so you can hear it while making eye contact with you it is an approach invitation! You have to be ready with a witty response to the question and then segue into your small talk routine. I had a 2 night hotel bar SNL from a similar greeting I've written about here before...The emotional spike from a spur of the moment "hello" is huge. Strike while the iron is hot....
St Patricks Day 2:00 pm Sunny and warmer than it had been for some time. Shirt sleeve weather
I'd had a couple beers, and was slightly sweaty. I'd run 7 miles that morning.
I was leaving a Downtown courtyard where holiday festivities were going on. I walked around the corner into a parking lot and a woman about my age was talking with a man in a car who had some passengers including a teenager an a couple toddler age kids milling around . She had another attractive woman approaching leading a small dog on a leash. At first glance I could tell they were gathering up to go to the festivities together.
As I got into earshot, the woman stretched and said to the group loud enough for me to hear from 50 ft away "I need a massage!"
My vehicle was parked behind her and she was in my path. As I approached I made eye contact, shrugged my shoulders and spread my hands apart and said to her "But i don't know how to do a proper massage."
She smiled and said "Well I could teach you." DING DING DING IOI ALERT!
The Lesson here is: When a woman is having a conversation with someone else, and speaks loudly so you can hear it while making eye contact with you it is an approach invitation! You have to be ready with a witty response to the question and then segue into your small talk routine. I had a 2 night hotel bar SNL from a similar greeting I've written about here before...The emotional spike from a spur of the moment "hello" is huge. Strike while the iron is hot....
