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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I was visiting a market some time ago with my family. I wasn't really in the mood for day gaming, because 1. We were in a different town so logistics 2. I was with my family and I respect them, don't want to start doing games in these times. So instead, I was adamant to just be on the lookout but nothing more.

I was visiting this one stall, grabbing a coffee with my family.
As I approached the queue, I noticed that there were several young women serving at the stall (Young women as guns for hire? "Who would've thought?"). As I was in the queue, I noticed that one of the girls - the prettiest in the group, was looking at me while serving another customer. I smiled casually but I had to admit, the girl was really beautiful.
Light tan, healthy blonde hair and a beautiful face.
Eventually it came my turn and I stepped in front of the girl. We both smiled widely to each other. Then,
"Don't bother. I already bought your coffee."
With a mild surprise (and a mild disappointment for the missed opportunity) I looked as my mother was already walking away, waiting for me to come with her.
I looked to the girl - who was still smiling but was a bit humoured by the situation - and said to her, accompanied by a mildly embarrassed laugh,
"Well, I guess I go then.."


Hours went by and some of the stalls were beginning to close. I approached another stall with my family.
Then I noticed it - it's the same girl again!

She had moved to serve at this stall, but she was between my queue and another one, so I had about 50 percent chance to get served by her - and get finally talking to her.
I kept looking at her, when she eventually noticed me. And at that moment I knew she remembered me, as she had a very genuine smile at her face, like she was actually happy to see me again. This all happened while she was serving a customer. After she had server her customer she fixed her hair as if preparing to look good for the upcoming confrontation. This time I was alone in my queue, so there wouldn't be any "interruptions".

But luck turned against me as I heard, "Mister, you can come here."
It was a different girl, who didn't really evoke any kind of emotions in me.
But as she was serving me, I managed to sneak peek the pretty girl's name tag. "Wow. It actually has the whole name in it.", I thought to myself.

The girl sailed in my thoughts for the rest of the day. I had noticed that I was lifting her to a pedestal.. In the end, she's just a normal girl. Only happens to be smoking beautiful.
I knew that I wouldn't encounter her anymore, but I had to get her out of my thoughts somehow.
So I actually went and sent her an FB message. Just a few compliments and a "thank you", plus a short description of myself (so she would connect me to the person).
Then I remembered that FB uses a system where messages from "non-friends" are sent straight to a "spam mail/trash bin" where one has to go and separately check if there's any mails there. No notifications, nothing.
It's basically like sending a bottle mail to a person. There's no quarantee that this person will ever going to get to read it.
So I thought for a small while of actually going and adding her as a friend, "to make sure that she will get the message". But then I thought I would end up looking like a creep or a stalker, so I declined myself of doing it.
Plus, logistics still suck, so why even bother..

Now I still can't get her out of my thoughts.. And you know what that means.

Time to go and meet new girls.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Improvementalist

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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By the way, what do you think?

If the young woman was clearly interested, should I've pushed it more forward?

Too bad the logistics were as they were, and there were too much social pressure against the situation.

Also, I had to leave after the market event, so there wouldn't had been a chance to hang out with her afterwards, even if I would've had some initial conversation made with her on the spot.
 
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