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Direct vs indirect openers.
Primarily talking day game, realise night game is probably different.
Seems to me that one of the main benefits of direct is that sexy girl gets to know that you are prepared to boldly go where no-one has gone before.
By which I mean, guys aren't generally going up and directly approaching often, so you stand out as a Starship Captain and not an un-named Ensign who is definitely getting killed on this week's upcoming away mission.
But doesn't that force Dr Beverly Crusher (my fave of the TNG babes) to make a quick decision about you based on what she knows so far? Which is very little.
So if she initially thinks you have the charisma of Lieutenant Commander Data (i.e. none) then you're not going to get very far.
Whereas, if you went indirect and don't force that quick decision, you get opportunity to demonstrate to her that you are Will Riker, the kick-ass Alpha dude who gets to show all the hot chicks on The Enterprise his photon torpedo. No?
After all, she's not a half-Betazoid mind-reading empath like Deanna Trio (Also hot, but I prefer Dr Crusher) so her first impressions are going to be quite important in determining whether she's going to want to stick around and talk to you, are they not?
Side note: I'm not planning on telling girls I like Star Trek. I suspect they'd immediately peg me as a total Wesley Crusher if I did this, even though they probably won't know who he is.
Primarily talking day game, realise night game is probably different.
Seems to me that one of the main benefits of direct is that sexy girl gets to know that you are prepared to boldly go where no-one has gone before.
By which I mean, guys aren't generally going up and directly approaching often, so you stand out as a Starship Captain and not an un-named Ensign who is definitely getting killed on this week's upcoming away mission.
But doesn't that force Dr Beverly Crusher (my fave of the TNG babes) to make a quick decision about you based on what she knows so far? Which is very little.
So if she initially thinks you have the charisma of Lieutenant Commander Data (i.e. none) then you're not going to get very far.
Whereas, if you went indirect and don't force that quick decision, you get opportunity to demonstrate to her that you are Will Riker, the kick-ass Alpha dude who gets to show all the hot chicks on The Enterprise his photon torpedo. No?
After all, she's not a half-Betazoid mind-reading empath like Deanna Trio (Also hot, but I prefer Dr Crusher) so her first impressions are going to be quite important in determining whether she's going to want to stick around and talk to you, are they not?
Side note: I'm not planning on telling girls I like Star Trek. I suspect they'd immediately peg me as a total Wesley Crusher if I did this, even though they probably won't know who he is.