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Smiling_Stray

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I've been off on my own little hiatus lately since life's been letting me kick back for a bit after my own fair share of satisfaction (and drama bombs). However, shits getting started up again (see, I went somewhere with that little reference ;) ) now that i'm getting ready to head off to college (kinda). Well, it's actually a high school program that gives collage credits, takes place in college, and is paid in full by the school district (Hey, almost 18 year- old Wanderer's gotta eat). That being said, I've been studying up recently (more like review) and trying to get back in the game.

Of course, old problems are coming back where I shine the most (Cold approach, being in high school hallways while learning this stuff works wonders). This problem usually consist of lacking of anywhere to go to actually do pick up (small town and I can't drive just yet) and approach anxiety (this one has a tendency to come back after I don't make any approaches for a while). These, i'm used to dealing with and usually overcome them after stepping out of my comfort zone when I hear opportunity knocking. (but I'm always open to learning new solutions to old problems, so feel free to leave any suggestions)

My real question is if you guys have any reading suggestions or any suggestions in general for me before I start school again (six days, give or take)? I haven't much practice lately a side from a very flirty (and cute) hairdresser(in an under the radar sense if that makes any sense) and a former classmate from a previous school reaching out to me on social media tonight (the two of us never really talked much but when we did, it was pretty sexually tense). Both of which i'd say went pretty well for someone who's been out of the game for about two (er, maybe three?) months now. Either way, it's good to be back! Any suggestions to get back on track would be great, thanks in advance.
 

Regal Tiger

Cro-Magnon Man
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Wanderer.o'7 said:
I've been off on my own little hiatus lately since life's been letting me kick back for a bit after my own fair share of satisfaction (and drama bombs). However, shits getting started up again (see, I went somewhere with that little reference ;) ) now that i'm getting ready to head off to college (kinda). Well, it's actually a high school program that gives collage credits, takes place in college, and is paid in full by the school district (Hey, almost 18 year- old Wanderer's gotta eat). That being said, I've been studying up recently (more like review) and trying to get back in the game.

Of course, old problems are coming back where I shine the most (Cold approach, being in high school hallways while learning this stuff works wonders). This problem usually consist of lacking of anywhere to go to actually do pick up (small town and I can't drive just yet) and approach anxiety (this one has a tendency to come back after I don't make any approaches for a while). These, i'm used to dealing with and usually overcome them after stepping out of my comfort zone when I hear opportunity knocking. (but I'm always open to learning new solutions to old problems, so feel free to leave any suggestions)

My real question is if you guys have any reading suggestions or any suggestions in general for me before I start school again (six days, give or take)? I haven't much practice lately a side from a very flirty (and cute) hairdresser(in an under the radar sense if that makes any sense) and a former classmate from a previous school reaching out to me on social media tonight (the two of us never really talked much but when we did, it was pretty sexually tense). Both of which i'd say went pretty well for someone who's been out of the game for about two (er, maybe three?) months now. Either way, it's good to be back! Any suggestions to get back on track would be great, thanks in advance.

Yo! Glad to hear you feeling better :)

Some of my suggestions are actually questions; what are you thinking about going to college for? Because most things don't require going to college for the huge debt.

BUT!

What you could do is start looking at colleges that have a high female ratio, like a fashion college ;)

Once you've found it, you can start looking for work in the industry that you think you'll want to learn about. If nothing comes to mind then choose something in marketing and/or sales. Because those two skills are transferable to women AND they're useful in just about every single industry out there.

Once you have the college and the work set up, move as close to the college as you can. But don't actually sign up for the college. You can audit some classes and [possibly] learn about fashion for men (I don't know if they would help for that but couldn't hurt to look).

Boom, now you have hotties running around you all day without all of the extra debt. They ask you what you're doing on the campus just tell them that you're auditing the classes (they'll probably have marketing/sales classes as well) to learn but don't want to go into debt. You also live nearby and this is the closest college to where you live, it's even within walking distance so you just come to this particular fashion college of 90+% women to 10-% men to learn some awesome skills without the debt. You also just so happened to start chatting up this hottie because she ran into your line of sight and you had to say something.

That's what I'd do if I could do it all over again.
 

Smiling_Stray

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey! I've actually been told I should work in the fashion industry before (thanks to this cite, little did they know) but I'm not actually going to college (I know what I said, just hear me out). That GED I was going after didn't compared much to this easy as hell high school program that takes place in the collage. This program actually gives me some pretty cool classes (one of them being psychology!) and collage cred for if I decide to take up that designer idea of yours but best of all... it's completely free (for me). So basically, I get to hang out with peeps at the collage (by the way, is it normal for it to be more difficult to approach girls who are older than you?) but unfortunately i'm stuck living under my mothers roof still (which I've been able to work around and at least I don't have to worry about rent XD )
 

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Wanderer.o'7 said:
Hey! I've actually been told I should work in the fashion industry before (thanks to this cite, little did they know) but I'm not actually going to college (I know what I said, just hear me out).
Honestly a decision that I'd support. I have an extremely low opinion of school in general lol

That GED I was going after didn't compared much to this easy as hell high school program that takes place in the collage. This program actually gives me some pretty cool classes (one of them being psychology!) and collage cred for if I decide to take up that designer idea of yours but best of all... it's completely free (for me).

Might as well cash in then :p

So basically, I get to hang out with peeps at the collage (by the way, is it normal for it to be more difficult to approach girls who are older than you?) but unfortunately i'm stuck living under my mothers roof still (which I've been able to work around and at least I don't have to worry about rent XD )

It's mostly about status, in my opinion, younger chicks are more concerned about dating people that are younger than they are I've noticed. Not everyone will feel that way though. Plus, grow out a little bit of a stubble beard if you haven't already, beards age you up a little bit in appearance ;)

Sounds like logistics aren't the best for you but you still have other options. Just be careful with the places you choose for sex in public or try to pull back to girls' dormrooms/apartments/whatever. With poor logistics you may have to try for sex under a 2-3 date structure instead of a 1 date structure like what GC advertises. Nothing wrong with that and it can still work.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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