Status & Social Proof to attract women as an adult.

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I say adult to mean anyone who is outside of the high school and/or college setting. Upon some readings it seems like people use the word "status" liberally but never really understand what it means once you start talking about life as a grown up. They know what it means in a school-type setting with being popular or being in a frat but it becomes more complicated as you get to adulthood.

Its like yeah you might be a lawyer, doctor or some job perceived as high paying on paper but it doesn't really equate to attracting and smashing a lot of women as an adult, its more of a case of women past their primes looking at someone to lock down into a marriage. Thought of a few instances where I think it can still apply in the adult world itself.

Working at a top notch nightlife establishment.

Whether it is a club promoter or bartender at the place that a lot of party girls and hot girls party at, I think this is a status booster. I have heard of guys often owning nightclubs or being part-time owners but these days it seems like more of a corporation thing. Been trying like crazy to get some chances and will keep on trying to get that bartending gig with my main job, not easy, that's for sure.

Killer social media account.

It has to be something relevant to the party crew but a smaller scale version of what Dan Bilzerian has. What this could mean is thousands of followers with over 500 likes per pic showing that you have been pre-selected. Once again, I am not finding this easy myself. Even though you can pay for followers, it is tough on a site like Instagram to consistently get a lot of likes. Nothing more embarrassing than an account with 10k followers but 10 likes on a photo.

Working any job that draws in a lot of hot girls and having status at that job.

Model photographer, a director at a company that a lot of hot girls want to work for or something along those lines. I think this can be slightly broad but surely a chance to get creative with it.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Sup dude!

I feel ya, but a feel like ya angle of approach here isn't the best view point.

in the real world status is a little bit different than the school setting however lucky or unlucky for ya is the school setting never ends. Looking at a job for *status* depends on who ya meeting and talking to. If ya read the thread on here bout telling girls what ya do for a living ya will find people will dress up what they do and focus on what they want to be percieved as. This is what a do cause a find different girls that a meet either value what i do as high status or look down upon it cause it sounds boring or ya look like a deadbeat.

A wouldn't go changing ma job just to meet people at the end of the day ya do what ya wanna do and its pointless learning to be a photographer which is a highly competitive industry yah? just to meet more girls. If ya fundamentals or game is of it wouldnt do ya much use anyway.

Instagram and all social media is a warzone, good luck creating highly successful accounts on it. Whats hilarious a was dating this girl that had 800 followers (wow that impressed me...) where a only had 200. She was trying to tell me how a should post more to do better on it. Her posts would get 10 - 20 likes where mine would routinely bring in 60. Yeah am really gonna follow her advice on that....to be fair she had a point but the truth yah? I dont care about social media, a never have i enjoy being in the real world with people. Okay so ma facebook is dead, but if a girl talks to me she realises am always busy doing summit. MYSTERY! This went of topic a little.... back on track yah?!?

A have friends that run the best club in town so am always VIP there, when girls notice this it can spike a few of there interests in me cause a will look high value like a mini celeb jumping the queue all tha time. Disadvantage some of them reject me cause of this cause they think that a work there or they are to intimidated by it. When ya think of status and social proof think of how ya meeting this girls. Look at the company ya keep. if ya out with the boys and ya having fun or ya know half the girls in the club ya status and social proof is already there.

If ya like me an ya fly solo most tha time, ya learn to make a perceiption of ya being social by working the room and meeting people. By being sociable, ya appear social yah? Its not difficult to change what ya status looks like with social proof. Unless ya a hermit using nothing but facebook and tinder to meet girls, then ya online presence will affect ya!