was chilling with a friend and his group of friends just now...we bumped into two girl friends of his. one of them definitely sees me (not sure about after tonight) as a low value guy, understandable since i was chodey when i first met her a while ago. she starts talking a whole lot and i give her half my body, eyes looking at her occasionally while she speaks. she then, in how i perceived, shit tests me by saying something like "what are you doing? you're standing in the back and chewing gum blah blah". at the time, i was giving her my full body as she was talking, before she suddenly decided to test me. i remember just holding gaze with her, not saying a word, body still and just, in my mind, unaffected by what she said. i don't think there was much facial expression change in my face either. she then filled the gap and resumed talking.
i'm curious to find out if any of you guys been through the experience of trying to implement unaffectedness (something chase often refers to) in your interactions/character but not sure how it came off to others. if you were in that scenario (and i apologize if the situation is not clearly illustrated by my writing) how would you react?
really interested to find out your thought guys
i'm curious to find out if any of you guys been through the experience of trying to implement unaffectedness (something chase often refers to) in your interactions/character but not sure how it came off to others. if you were in that scenario (and i apologize if the situation is not clearly illustrated by my writing) how would you react?
really interested to find out your thought guys
