OR Stepping back in

[Raqimus]

Hey guys, been a minute. Been away and now I'm back again. In that time had 2 solid fuck buddies and have improved my sex skill tremendously but at the same time I stopped approaching girls due to the notion of "Well, why approach her when I'm going to go fuck xx later?". I made sporadic approaches when i really wanted to but not enough and not consistently enough to keep AA away. With this I'm fresh again.

So today after not talking to anyone I go out to head to work to get my check. I notice a tall girl walking towards me, I look and we catch eyes. She has a very curvy figure for a tall woman. We hold eye contact and she breaks down and i just don't approach.

Next is an Asian girl shortly afterwards she wasn't looking while she was looking, she was cute enough to talk to. I didn't.

Next was a woman on the bus, she was with her daughter I also did not talk to her even when she decided to sit in front of me and kept giving indications I should talk to her. Wasn't nervous here but I just didn't.

I have to re adjust myself to talking to new women again because the anxiety is popping up but I know that once i start talking it will go away. I would say it's because I am lazy right now. I haven't been going to the gym and working out and my sex drive was sated when i was fucking those girls. SO now that I've gotten used to a release every few days it's tough readjusting which is helping to boost my drive as long as I keep my hands off myself oh and maybe finally buy chases e-book.

I haven't been on the site reading, gonna take a step back and start reading more and taking more action with approaching; gonna be starting up the snatch tourney again in jan to motivate. This post was to encourage myself and I am motivated.

 

[Rage]

Hey welcome back raquimus good to hear you getting back into it; I recommend chases evook as being great content.

Sometimes it is best to simplify and you get information overload (happens to me at least); when it does happen, just my own notes and chases ebook plus a past lay report or two are the only things I like to have and refer back to (and just be going at it hard in the field other than that).

It's a good cornerstone book imo

All the best

Rage

 

[Bboy100]

Same here dude. I've been out of the game too (although, it was admittedly for different reasons) for a while now. I went out and tried to approach for the first time sober in a few months, and I missed like, 80% of them. I felt the same way as you. It wasn't so much that I felt fear as "ah, well I'm not sure how badly I want to do this atm". It's kind of a strange feeling right?

In any case, I think the best way to overcome this is to start small again. So maybe instead of doing full on convos, start out by just saying "Hi" or "Hi, how's your day going" then ejecting. Slowly building up to full on conversations.