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Ok, so I met this girl off Tinder. We were going to go stargazing. It was her idea, not mine. So I let her auto-invest by organizing the whole thing. We met at a Fred Mayer near my place. I assumed we had to buy something there, apparently she just asked me to meet there lol. Had I known there was nothing to be purchased, I would have just asked her to meet me at mine.
Anyways...we meet at this Fred Mayer then we drive for about 15 minutes to a nearby church. On the way, I find out this girl has:
- Been in two car accidents this year
- Been kicked out of her parents house for converting to Mormonism (apparently her parents disapproved of the religion enough to kick her out for it)
- She used to go to a small school in Utah before she moved here (Washington)
- She's been on a LOT of dates and none of them panned out. She's never had a date where she thought "that went so great!". All of them were "meh" at best.
- Her lungs are damaged from on of her car accidents, so she had to go to the ER 7 times this year.
- She's not in school now because of said car accidents
- She's mentioned that she's had one relationship before, and it was pretty bad.
-She talked the whole time. I said almost nothing and I asked her almost nothing. It almost felt like she could have a conversation with herself. lol
and probably some other things I don't remember. Overall, she gave out a pretty "crazy girl" type of vibe.
We pulled up to a nearby church and "by chance" we ran into three of her friends. I'm still not sure if all this was set up or if it really was a coincidence. We had to wait for it to get darker before we go stargazing, so we sit and hang out with her friends for a few minutes. Five minutes into conversation with said friends, she gets a phone call. Apparently it was her roommate who also apparently has some sort of medical condition and needed to be driven to the emergency room right away.
She explained to me what it was in quite a bit of detail (unfortunately, I forgot most of it. It was something to do with her jaw haha.). It sounded pretty unusual and horrific. On the way back, she apologized to me quite a few times and promised to "make it up to me" and said that she'd still love to see me again.
The next day, I added her on snapchat. She didn't add me back. I assumed she just doesn't use it. The day after that, I texted her asking when she's free to hang out. I got no reply.
It's clear to me that this girl was kind of crazy to begin with, and I'm not entirely sure how much I want to deal with her anyways (being that she's Morman, I assume she'll be quite reserved about sex and I already know enough about her to conclude that I don't want her for an LTR).
But I'm still curious...what are your guys's thoughts? Why would she be so apologetic and ask ME if I want to see her again, then not reply to my calls/texts?
Anyways...we meet at this Fred Mayer then we drive for about 15 minutes to a nearby church. On the way, I find out this girl has:
- Been in two car accidents this year
- Been kicked out of her parents house for converting to Mormonism (apparently her parents disapproved of the religion enough to kick her out for it)
- She used to go to a small school in Utah before she moved here (Washington)
- She's been on a LOT of dates and none of them panned out. She's never had a date where she thought "that went so great!". All of them were "meh" at best.
- Her lungs are damaged from on of her car accidents, so she had to go to the ER 7 times this year.
- She's not in school now because of said car accidents
- She's mentioned that she's had one relationship before, and it was pretty bad.
-She talked the whole time. I said almost nothing and I asked her almost nothing. It almost felt like she could have a conversation with herself. lol
and probably some other things I don't remember. Overall, she gave out a pretty "crazy girl" type of vibe.
We pulled up to a nearby church and "by chance" we ran into three of her friends. I'm still not sure if all this was set up or if it really was a coincidence. We had to wait for it to get darker before we go stargazing, so we sit and hang out with her friends for a few minutes. Five minutes into conversation with said friends, she gets a phone call. Apparently it was her roommate who also apparently has some sort of medical condition and needed to be driven to the emergency room right away.
She explained to me what it was in quite a bit of detail (unfortunately, I forgot most of it. It was something to do with her jaw haha.). It sounded pretty unusual and horrific. On the way back, she apologized to me quite a few times and promised to "make it up to me" and said that she'd still love to see me again.
The next day, I added her on snapchat. She didn't add me back. I assumed she just doesn't use it. The day after that, I texted her asking when she's free to hang out. I got no reply.
It's clear to me that this girl was kind of crazy to begin with, and I'm not entirely sure how much I want to deal with her anyways (being that she's Morman, I assume she'll be quite reserved about sex and I already know enough about her to conclude that I don't want her for an LTR).
But I'm still curious...what are your guys's thoughts? Why would she be so apologetic and ask ME if I want to see her again, then not reply to my calls/texts?
