Strange interaction with girl i fingered

[Nico]

This copy from field reports board, simce like no one wants to help with FR, sorry if this is not allowed
Hello guys, this is Nico from Russia
So i met this chick on the street, she is solid 7 blond with tan and fit body,so grabbed her number and we met like month after that.
On date we were talking, and i noticed that she had no bra on her. I started touching her and hour after I was grabbing her butt and tits. She turned down all my kiss attempts tho. So we went to woods and there i started fingering her but she resisted my sex attempts. And still no kiss. I was fingering her again, i was in beast mode and she asked me to wipe my dick out to see is it big or not(it is). She stimulated me thru trousers but when i wiped it out she refused to touch it and litteraly run away.I caught her. Then we talked a little and i decided that we should go home( not together)
And now when i calling her she says that our date was horrible and doesnt want second date.
Shouldve i been more agressive to fuck her in woods?(i was quite agressive, any more would be rape or smth)?
Or i was a bit overboard?
Can i turn it around with her?(i know probabally not i will try anyway so any tips would be appreciated)
As always excuse me for any mistakes, im russian
Have a good day
-Nico

 

[trashKENNUT]

Nico,

OFten the field reports is written like it's a dictionary. No one wants to read. I'm sure you won't.

woods and there i started fingering her but she resisted my sex attempts. And still no kiss. I was fingering her again, i was in beast mode and she asked me to wipe my dick out to see is it big or not(it is). She stimulated me thru trousers but when i wiped it out she refused to touch it and litteraly run away.I caught her. Then we talked a little and i decided that we should go home( not together)
And now when i calling her she says that our date was horrible and doesnt want second date.
Shouldve i been more agressive to fuck her in woods?(i was quite agressive, any more would be rape or smth)?

No rapport or some 'safety' variable involve?

When you are intimidating, you can get away with many things but something as simple as wipe your dick out when you are intimidating is like a 'timeline' breaker.

I need to know more about the date, what you talk about. How was it. Your date sequences.

The multiverse 'timeline break' is something that i will not talk about because it's something i created for myself. But the situation gives me the impression this happen on your date.

Zac

 

[Nico]

Thanks for reply Zac.Sorry, im really trying to make it as enjoyable as possible but im not native english speaker. So ill start from the begging. After i grabbed her number we were trying to meet the whole month, one time we almost scheduled but she was flying to moscow that evening and didnt want to ride closer to my place so i proposed that we meet after her trip to moscow. After the trip i called her and we talked about her trip and some other stuff, then i forgot about her for about 2 weeks since i was fucking with another girl. Then i called her and we decided to meet that day, but she was sunbathing and didnt want to ride to my underground station so i decided that i ride to her location. On date we were talking about her job, her interests and her hobbies. After a while i start to touch her back. Then i started to smack her ass, and eventually i grabbed her and said that ill throw her from the cliff(joke)
After that she was playfully mad at me and started to hit my dick with her ass(like i fucking her in standing doggy style)
After that we headed back to woods where i tried to kiss her 2 times withount any succsess
Then somehow i ended up fingering her and her asking to wipe my dick out.
Well, after that i fingered her one more time without success.
I have a felling in my gut that i needed to be more agressive. What do you think about it?
As always sorry for any mistakes and that my writing skills sucks, im more talker type

 

[Nico]

Nico,

OFten the field reports is written like it's a dictionary. No one wants to read. I'm sure you won't.

woods and there i started fingering her but she resisted my sex attempts. And still no kiss. I was fingering her again, i was in beast mode and she asked me to wipe my dick out to see is it big or not(it is). She stimulated me thru trousers but when i wiped it out she refused to touch it and litteraly run away.I caught her. Then we talked a little and i decided that we should go home( not together)
And now when i calling her she says that our date was horrible and doesnt want second date.
Shouldve i been more agressive to fuck her in woods?(i was quite agressive, any more would be rape or smth)?

No rapport or some 'safety' variable involve?

When you are intimidating, you can get away with many things but something as simple as wipe your dick out when you are intimidating is like a 'timeline' breaker.

I need to know more about the date, what you talk about. How was it. Your date sequences.

The multiverse 'timeline break' is something that i will not talk about because it's something i created for myself. But the situation gives me the impression this happen on your date.

Zac

What you mean by rapport or safety variable?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Nico,

she was flying to moscow that evening and didnt want to ride closer to my place so i proposed that we meet after her trip to moscow.

If her attraction is good, you can get away with proposing after the trip. Otherwise, try not to. Just stay quiet and text later date.

trip i called her and we talked about her trip and some other stuff, then i forgot about her for about 2 weeks since i was fucking with another girl.

Can get auto rejection if she is already open to meeting after the trip.

but she was sunbathing and didnt want to ride to my underground station so i decided that i ride to her location. On date we were talking about her job, her interests and her hobbies. After a while i start to touch her back. Then i started to smack her ass, and eventually i grabbed her and said that ill throw her from the cliff(joke)
After that she was playfully mad at me and started to hit my dick with her ass(like i fucking her in standing doggy style)
After that we headed back to woods where i tried to kiss her 2 times withount any succsess
Then somehow i ended up fingering her and her asking to wipe my dick out.
Well, after that i fingered her one more time without success.
I have a felling in my gut that i needed to be more agressive. What do you think about it?

The attraction had probably went into the drain but just enough.

Why didn't you just break the touch barrier when you meet her? No guy wait that long if they are honest. And girls know this. That's why she kind of run away because you were sweet to talk about her life. She is also switch back n forth on your role.

There's a lover here. There's a provider here. Too much mixed signals.

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Nico,

she was flying to moscow that evening and didnt want to ride closer to my place so i proposed that we meet after her trip to moscow.

If her attraction is good, you can get away with proposing after the trip. Otherwise, try not to. Just stay quiet and text later date.

trip i called her and we talked about her trip and some other stuff, then i forgot about her for about 2 weeks since i was fucking with another girl.

Can get auto rejection if she is already open to meeting after the trip.

but she was sunbathing and didnt want to ride to my underground station so i decided that i ride to her location. On date we were talking about her job, her interests and her hobbies. After a while i start to touch her back. Then i started to smack her ass, and eventually i grabbed her and said that ill throw her from the cliff(joke)
After that she was playfully mad at me and started to hit my dick with her ass(like i fucking her in standing doggy style)
After that we headed back to woods where i tried to kiss her 2 times withount any succsess
Then somehow i ended up fingering her and her asking to wipe my dick out.
Well, after that i fingered her one more time without success.
I have a felling in my gut that i needed to be more agressive. What do you think about it?

The attraction had probably went into the drain but just enough.

Why didn't you just break the touch barrier when you meet her? No guy wait that long if they are honest. And girls know this. That's why she kind of run away because you were sweet to talk about her life. She is also switch back n forth on your role.

There's a lover here. There's a provider here. Too much mixed signals.

What you mean by rapport or safety variable?

It is when you have an edge. Guys like me, whose fundamentals are on point, can get girls turn on easily, but they also "run away" because you dress normal and that you doubt yourself, and that kind of mixed signals sended to her.

It's too nuanced and probably varies to individual. You also need to be somewhat high level intermediate per se, to smell this going on.

Zac

 

[Nico]

Thanks Zac, you opened my eyes, right now i think that i been waiting to long and should have proposed our date way faster
I still texting with her tho
She is telling that she doesnt feel it but ill try anyway
Thanks

 

[trashKENNUT]

Nico,

She is telling that she doesnt feel it but ill try anyway

Date Compression. But caution.

You are way overinvesting, the way i see it.

Zac