I'm still using street game.
I have been getting better on making girls comfortable. To do this I try to talk more to make them comfortable. Going with questions (what do you do? what are your hobbies?) at the beginning is no good if she is not at ease with you (an stranger!). I try to be irrelevant, make them laugh. This is my style for almost everytime I talk to a girl at the beginning so she is comfortable. Even with girls on clubs/bar so they are refreshed with a guy that doesn't start talking the same boring shit at the start of a conversation (then I can get on those topics and, of course, deep dive while still having a unique conversation different from most of the ones she's had).
First of all, you may think I have approached a lot of women now, but no (maybe I have talked to 20 girls tops on the street in 3 months). I just learn fast. I analyze my interactions and make changes. Like I've said on other posts I'm pretty sure I'm a natural so it helps me a lot. I stopped talking to girls for a while and now I started again with this new style (before I used to put the pressure on her asking questions... bad).
The last time I got two numbers on the same day (It was on the night).
The first girl actually had problems writing her number in my awful cellphone so she missed one digit (Actually, before asking her I grab her hand and she was comfortable while I was doing it). I asked the janitor to call the girl and she have me come up. She add the digit.
The second one had a boyfriend. I knew she wasn't sure about giving me her number but she did. She had fun talking, surely, or she wouldn't have gave it.
Neither of them has reply. I sent two messages to each of them. An ice breaker (Nice to meet you blabla) and other one. To the girls with a boyfriend I wrote something about me and some friend looking for any plans so I just wanted to know what she was going to do (didn't want to put her pressure on a date when I know she has a boyfriend). To the other girl the message was about something weird that happen to me (a crazy guy following me for a while at the street and talking to me) and asking how was she.
I will continue to approach girls, of course. I think getting number closes on street is more likely that they will answer you (In clubs/bars girls give phone like nothing to many guys even). Unless she talks to someone and freaks her out ("what??? talk to you on the street?? he is crazy!") or starts having second thoughts about what she's done. I just wonder what you guys think. Maybe I should be a little more sexual? Whatever you think, tell me. Like I said, doing things for me is not that hard as I'm a guy that has high self steam and a natural.
PS: There is a funny case of a third girls. I talk to her like a month before just when she was almost arriving home and she didn't gave me anything. The other day I saw her again and I had more time to talk to her. The funny thing is she told me I can go to a webpage and look for her... yep, an elite hooker. That's what she is. I just told her something like: "nah, i want to know you and get out with you. I'm not gonna use some page". She ended up giving me her mail although she said she had little free time (I guess it's clear why). She was in a hurry because she had a date, so I told her "See? You have dates?". To what she answer something like "Yes, but they pay me to". I find it weird that someone would tell me so openly she is a hooker (without saying that word of course).
I don't know if i'll see her. She must work a lot but we'll see. She's got a killer body.
I have been getting better on making girls comfortable. To do this I try to talk more to make them comfortable. Going with questions (what do you do? what are your hobbies?) at the beginning is no good if she is not at ease with you (an stranger!). I try to be irrelevant, make them laugh. This is my style for almost everytime I talk to a girl at the beginning so she is comfortable. Even with girls on clubs/bar so they are refreshed with a guy that doesn't start talking the same boring shit at the start of a conversation (then I can get on those topics and, of course, deep dive while still having a unique conversation different from most of the ones she's had).
First of all, you may think I have approached a lot of women now, but no (maybe I have talked to 20 girls tops on the street in 3 months). I just learn fast. I analyze my interactions and make changes. Like I've said on other posts I'm pretty sure I'm a natural so it helps me a lot. I stopped talking to girls for a while and now I started again with this new style (before I used to put the pressure on her asking questions... bad).
The last time I got two numbers on the same day (It was on the night).
The first girl actually had problems writing her number in my awful cellphone so she missed one digit (Actually, before asking her I grab her hand and she was comfortable while I was doing it). I asked the janitor to call the girl and she have me come up. She add the digit.
The second one had a boyfriend. I knew she wasn't sure about giving me her number but she did. She had fun talking, surely, or she wouldn't have gave it.
Neither of them has reply. I sent two messages to each of them. An ice breaker (Nice to meet you blabla) and other one. To the girls with a boyfriend I wrote something about me and some friend looking for any plans so I just wanted to know what she was going to do (didn't want to put her pressure on a date when I know she has a boyfriend). To the other girl the message was about something weird that happen to me (a crazy guy following me for a while at the street and talking to me) and asking how was she.
I will continue to approach girls, of course. I think getting number closes on street is more likely that they will answer you (In clubs/bars girls give phone like nothing to many guys even). Unless she talks to someone and freaks her out ("what??? talk to you on the street?? he is crazy!") or starts having second thoughts about what she's done. I just wonder what you guys think. Maybe I should be a little more sexual? Whatever you think, tell me. Like I said, doing things for me is not that hard as I'm a guy that has high self steam and a natural.
PS: There is a funny case of a third girls. I talk to her like a month before just when she was almost arriving home and she didn't gave me anything. The other day I saw her again and I had more time to talk to her. The funny thing is she told me I can go to a webpage and look for her... yep, an elite hooker. That's what she is. I just told her something like: "nah, i want to know you and get out with you. I'm not gonna use some page". She ended up giving me her mail although she said she had little free time (I guess it's clear why). She was in a hurry because she had a date, so I told her "See? You have dates?". To what she answer something like "Yes, but they pay me to". I find it weird that someone would tell me so openly she is a hooker (without saying that word of course).
I don't know if i'll see her. She must work a lot but we'll see. She's got a killer body.
