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tommysawyer123

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I’ve gotten really good at approaching and picking up women at the gym, bars, online apps, IG, and social situations. I have a huge sticking point of seeing a girl walking on the street, stopping her and spitting game. I don’t know why. Feels really unnatural to do it. Any tips how to get over this?
 

Mikedee

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I’ve gotten really good at approaching and picking up women at the gym, bars, online apps, IG, and social situations. I have a huge sticking point of seeing a girl walking on the street, stopping her and spitting game. I don’t know why. Feels really unnatural to do it. Any tips how to get over this?
Great job with approaching. There’s no one size fiit all answer. Just be confident and approach. Use open, non-intimidating body language, facial expressions, and make it clear right away why you’re stopping her. Oh don’t forget eye contact preferably puppy eyes lol. You got this….
 

TwoNameGame

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Feels really unnatural to do it.
True, but irrelevant. Once you ease her into a conversation and establish the connection, it will feel "right" for both of you and the initial awkwardness is forgotten.

Any tips how to get over this?
Lean into it.

Be bold. Use a policeman stop to instantly gain lots of compliance and screen for greens. Be direct and pattern interrupt her. Remember, this may he a boring routine for her and you are spicing it up precisely because it is abnormal.

Maybe open over her shoulder next to her (feels easier but lends itself to false hope in street game).
 
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