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his is a few weeks old but I figured I'd write it up and try to learn about it. I'm genuinely not sure what exactly went wrong so feel free to critique it.
So I've known this girl for a LONG time, like I think since she was 13 or so, and I was 18 or 19. She was already in a bad crowd back then, as was I. Drug use, etc., smoking, drinking, at such a young age lol. She actually booty called me one night a long time ago and I avoided/ignored her since she was like 13 at the time, it was really shortly after I met her too, she was also somewhat overweight back then.
She ended up becoming a stripper I think a year or two ago, she's 18 or 19. Maybe 20, not sure. Anyways, contacted her on facebook and got her number. She invited me to hang out at her work so I showed up. I seeded the bounce after work but some weird emergency came up and she had to leave. She actually looked really fucking sexy that night at work, half naked. She lost a lot of weight and was working out. I was genuinely surprised at the improvement. It had also been years since I had seen her.
After wards I couldn't manage to set up another date until a few months later. So I end up picking her up at her house. She looks awful. Her hair has dreads and is dyed a different color. She smells weird. She seems to have gained weight again and her teeth are somewhat discolored. HUGE difference from last time.
We drive to some fast food restaurant and get food there then go back to my house. We eat and talk about stuff. She ends up leaving my house to smoke cigarettes two or three times in the 2-3 hours she was at my house. After we eat we go up to my room and I put on some random movie that I've seen before on my computer, turn off the lights and lock the doors. She is sitting on my bed so I sit down next to her.
Use my stock routine k-close and it works. Bite her neck too, she tells me not to leave a hickey, I say I suck at those (I really am, I can't even leave one if I want to). Then I pull her shirt and bra down and suck on her nipples. She is turned on. I take off my shirt and shorts (changed into shorts after I got back to my place, I always do this on dates), and then my boxers. I get her to jerk off my dick very briefly but she keeps stopping me and saying she is too turned on.
She says she's on her period (I do still try to convince her to have sex on her period to no avail), which seems true. I still rub her pussy from outside her jean shorts (jorts) and even try to reach inside for no particular reason, she doesn't let the escalation go further than this. After a while of this she eventually physically stops me. I end up driving her to work at the strip club (something that was agreed upon earlier since my house was a lot closer to her work).
We scheduled to hang out the next day but when the next day comes it doesn't happen and ever since this day I have not seen her or been able to get her to meet up with me. I've contacted her multiple times. She replies sometimes, ignores me other times. She asked me for a ride to work one day, I ignored her that time. She doesn't have a car.
Thoughts?
I think I should have stopped escalating once I knew sex couldn't happen (she was on her period) instead of giving my game away. That way she would have maybe been more likely to meet up the next day. She's ironically had more sexual partners than I've had. I asked her out of curiosity.
So I've known this girl for a LONG time, like I think since she was 13 or so, and I was 18 or 19. She was already in a bad crowd back then, as was I. Drug use, etc., smoking, drinking, at such a young age lol. She actually booty called me one night a long time ago and I avoided/ignored her since she was like 13 at the time, it was really shortly after I met her too, she was also somewhat overweight back then.
She ended up becoming a stripper I think a year or two ago, she's 18 or 19. Maybe 20, not sure. Anyways, contacted her on facebook and got her number. She invited me to hang out at her work so I showed up. I seeded the bounce after work but some weird emergency came up and she had to leave. She actually looked really fucking sexy that night at work, half naked. She lost a lot of weight and was working out. I was genuinely surprised at the improvement. It had also been years since I had seen her.
After wards I couldn't manage to set up another date until a few months later. So I end up picking her up at her house. She looks awful. Her hair has dreads and is dyed a different color. She smells weird. She seems to have gained weight again and her teeth are somewhat discolored. HUGE difference from last time.
We drive to some fast food restaurant and get food there then go back to my house. We eat and talk about stuff. She ends up leaving my house to smoke cigarettes two or three times in the 2-3 hours she was at my house. After we eat we go up to my room and I put on some random movie that I've seen before on my computer, turn off the lights and lock the doors. She is sitting on my bed so I sit down next to her.
Use my stock routine k-close and it works. Bite her neck too, she tells me not to leave a hickey, I say I suck at those (I really am, I can't even leave one if I want to). Then I pull her shirt and bra down and suck on her nipples. She is turned on. I take off my shirt and shorts (changed into shorts after I got back to my place, I always do this on dates), and then my boxers. I get her to jerk off my dick very briefly but she keeps stopping me and saying she is too turned on.
She says she's on her period (I do still try to convince her to have sex on her period to no avail), which seems true. I still rub her pussy from outside her jean shorts (jorts) and even try to reach inside for no particular reason, she doesn't let the escalation go further than this. After a while of this she eventually physically stops me. I end up driving her to work at the strip club (something that was agreed upon earlier since my house was a lot closer to her work).
We scheduled to hang out the next day but when the next day comes it doesn't happen and ever since this day I have not seen her or been able to get her to meet up with me. I've contacted her multiple times. She replies sometimes, ignores me other times. She asked me for a ride to work one day, I ignored her that time. She doesn't have a car.
Thoughts?
I think I should have stopped escalating once I knew sex couldn't happen (she was on her period) instead of giving my game away. That way she would have maybe been more likely to meet up the next day. She's ironically had more sexual partners than I've had. I asked her out of curiosity.
