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Strong men getting weak after getting into the relationship.

Emmanuel

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It is sometimes observed that a strong man, an alpha male after getting into a relationship with a girl gets weak or becomes needy after sometime or a long time has passed. And their women are less attracted towards them or leave them. But in some cases in movies or some real life experiences show that these alpha males who get weak after getting into the relationship, when again become the guy they used to be, means they again become alpha male or non needy, their girlfriends are attracted towards them as before they used to be. My question is that, is it possible that after she has lost attraction for him, or she is less attracted to him, she again can be made to feel same attraction she used to. Or once the man has become weak so there is no way back?
 

OldSelf

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In my experience, depending on how genuinely she cared about you will dictate whether or not she wants to be with you again. She was attracted to you originally, and lost it because the man changed. If she was really into you and became disappointed and upset that you lost your spark, then seeing you back to your old self will make her happy and she'll want to be with you again (if after youre back to your old self, you want to be with her.)
 

Drck

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That's why it is so important to keep the same frame - before, during and after relationship...

Many guys only fake being the "alpha" male or popular with girls. They get the girl, slew sleep with her, but after couple of weeks their frame melts down. They become needy and immature. She recognizes it and usually leaves, and the guy doesn't have a clue why... She may actually become quite disgusted with the guy because she can smell the fake...
 

OldSelf

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Drck,

I've also noticed that it helps keep you solid too. Any days of self doubt or anxiety or whatever your demons may be, can be curbed with the frame check.
 

Drck

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Yep, keeping the frame is very important. Not changing because of her. Not changing your way of life because of her. Not changing your frames and things you like because of her and so forth...

Why is that? Because once you start changing frame she recognizes you as being submissive (to her). She is not looking for submissive guy, she is looking for dominant male...
 
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