Fellow seducers!
This type of dynamic has really eaten into my confidence of approaching.
Everytime i see a woman i'd go for rolling around in a group, it is either i wait for an opportunity to get her alone or (mostly) let the prey go. It is frustrating, as women are usually, if not all the time, IN GROUPS at any given social opportunity. I do not know where this tactic emerged from (could someone please enlighten me on this), but when i see lady groups, it just shakes me off my seductive stride.
One on one with a lady, i will operate with fluency and efficiency....But all hell breaks loose when her group comes along and i just clam up like a first timer at a talent show!
I have come to understand that my great fear of these groups stems from the negative judgement i might recieve from her peers, which will reverse the attraction she has invested (which has been worked at extracting from her). Also, physical escalation is very hard to pull off with a handful of eyes in our direction.
I vividly recall an experience when i went to my friend's house, of whom his older sister (around my age) seemed to resent my presence. I would be pleasant to her but she wouldn't return pleasantaries. For example: I would pass her in the house and say "Hey" , and she'd look at me with the face of "What the hell are you doing here?", and simply go about her way, and ao would I.
This one particular day, I was at their place when she had invited her classmates over (and boy were they something!). Again, "Group Anxiety" attacked me again and i therefore avoided the living room, as they were holed up there.
Towards the end of the day, her brother (lets call him George, and his sister; Wangui) and I decided to grab a snack frim the kitchen, as "Wangui" and her group had moved outside to do what girls do these days: Take selfies.
Out of the blue, Wangui enters the house and whispers to George while looking at me, then returns back outside. Knowing that I was the topic of that whisper, i quizzed him on what she said, to which he bluntly replied:
"My sis told me that her friends think you're cute"
BOOM.
Just like that, because of a silly anxiety, i missed the opportunity to meet 7 new, beautiful girls (as they each left shortly after). Believe me, i went home wondering what kind of man could waste such a shot.
These are the scenarios i need help in:
-Directly approaching a girl group (in general)
-Approaching a girl group (with one of them being the target)
-How to transition smoothly if her group arrives
Much appriciated
W.Ok
This type of dynamic has really eaten into my confidence of approaching.
Everytime i see a woman i'd go for rolling around in a group, it is either i wait for an opportunity to get her alone or (mostly) let the prey go. It is frustrating, as women are usually, if not all the time, IN GROUPS at any given social opportunity. I do not know where this tactic emerged from (could someone please enlighten me on this), but when i see lady groups, it just shakes me off my seductive stride.
One on one with a lady, i will operate with fluency and efficiency....But all hell breaks loose when her group comes along and i just clam up like a first timer at a talent show!
I have come to understand that my great fear of these groups stems from the negative judgement i might recieve from her peers, which will reverse the attraction she has invested (which has been worked at extracting from her). Also, physical escalation is very hard to pull off with a handful of eyes in our direction.
I vividly recall an experience when i went to my friend's house, of whom his older sister (around my age) seemed to resent my presence. I would be pleasant to her but she wouldn't return pleasantaries. For example: I would pass her in the house and say "Hey" , and she'd look at me with the face of "What the hell are you doing here?", and simply go about her way, and ao would I.
This one particular day, I was at their place when she had invited her classmates over (and boy were they something!). Again, "Group Anxiety" attacked me again and i therefore avoided the living room, as they were holed up there.
Towards the end of the day, her brother (lets call him George, and his sister; Wangui) and I decided to grab a snack frim the kitchen, as "Wangui" and her group had moved outside to do what girls do these days: Take selfies.
Out of the blue, Wangui enters the house and whispers to George while looking at me, then returns back outside. Knowing that I was the topic of that whisper, i quizzed him on what she said, to which he bluntly replied:
"My sis told me that her friends think you're cute"
BOOM.
Just like that, because of a silly anxiety, i missed the opportunity to meet 7 new, beautiful girls (as they each left shortly after). Believe me, i went home wondering what kind of man could waste such a shot.
These are the scenarios i need help in:
-Directly approaching a girl group (in general)
-Approaching a girl group (with one of them being the target)
-How to transition smoothly if her group arrives
Much appriciated
W.Ok
