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So I had a small success last week, many would call it great, it kinda pissed me off though!
I approached this girl as the first set of the day, after walking around for 7 hours and not being able to approach the previous day. It’s strange that the girl hooked. A sexy, slim latina. Not really my type though so I was able to be confident around her.
We talked for like 5 minutes and I took her IG. I told her we could meet later, but she told me she has to wake up at 3 am to catch her flight.
I still texted her 4 hours later that we are out with a friend who speaks her language (Portuguese), and that she can join us. She said yes.
^ first thing that pissed me off. First she said it won’t be possible, and then she said yes. I lost many girls because I just didn’t push. Had I not pushed, we wouldn’t have met. Annoying! Why is success hidden behind this barrier of risk and courage?
So we met, walked around the city, my friend is good at conversation but not good at being sexy yet, so she still wanted me. We proposed we could go to a latin dance club, since we know salsa and she didn’t, and we could teach her.
In the club I was able to get close to her, and after dancing I put my arm around her, touched her, etc. Then she put her hand on my thigh.
^ that also pissed me off - again I was the one who had to break the touch barrier, I didn’t get anything without risking by doing it first.. and here I didn’t care much because she wasn’t my type, with better girls I wouldn’t dare to touch them as much… which is annoying.
Anyway then we left the club and my friend said goodbye. I took her by the hand (again, I had to do it myself…) and in the park, I told her I know a cool psychological trick that will tell me everything about her.
I told her to look into my eyes, then to come closer, and then kissed her. She sank into me and we kissed some more.
^ again, this was a bold move from me. Is it really this easy? I lost so many girls because I wasn’t willing to risk it. Could I have just gone for it? This is so annoying, realising that I might have the power/the right to have girls but I don’t trust it… I will literally NOT escalate with a girl I like, just to prove to myself that I can’t have her…
Then I took her to my car, tried to escalate there but got LMR, and she said we should say goodbye and she should go to her hostel.
So I drove her there and told her I’ll use their bathroom, in the hostel I pulled her into the bathroom and we kissed some more and I pulled out my D. She stroked it and after licking my hand, also sucked it.
^ might seem like a nice success but it pissed me off, how many girls I could have if I could be this bold with them… I turned a No to a Yes, it’s not logical at all! And I had to be in control the whole time, I got nothing for free again…
Anyway I wasn’t able to get further, she was blocking my hand, and the reception guy was talking close to the bathroom, so we called it off. We cuddled a bit on the hostel sofa (again, I had to take her and cuddle! I really get nothing for free… ugh) and it was 3 am already so she went to pack and leave. We said our goodbyes and I left.
All in all I was happy but it made me mad how much power I probably have - only it’s being blocked by fear around women I really like. With this one it felt easier, but I still had to do the moves and take the risks myself, so there isn’t much to be happy about. I got nothing more than what I worked for.
Let’s see if next time I can get a girl I’ll actually really like and escalate on her. But I’m afraid that will make the past fails hurt even more, because I’ll have another proof that “I could have just done it”.
Anyway it was an enjoyable experience.
I approached this girl as the first set of the day, after walking around for 7 hours and not being able to approach the previous day. It’s strange that the girl hooked. A sexy, slim latina. Not really my type though so I was able to be confident around her.
We talked for like 5 minutes and I took her IG. I told her we could meet later, but she told me she has to wake up at 3 am to catch her flight.
I still texted her 4 hours later that we are out with a friend who speaks her language (Portuguese), and that she can join us. She said yes.
^ first thing that pissed me off. First she said it won’t be possible, and then she said yes. I lost many girls because I just didn’t push. Had I not pushed, we wouldn’t have met. Annoying! Why is success hidden behind this barrier of risk and courage?
So we met, walked around the city, my friend is good at conversation but not good at being sexy yet, so she still wanted me. We proposed we could go to a latin dance club, since we know salsa and she didn’t, and we could teach her.
In the club I was able to get close to her, and after dancing I put my arm around her, touched her, etc. Then she put her hand on my thigh.
^ that also pissed me off - again I was the one who had to break the touch barrier, I didn’t get anything without risking by doing it first.. and here I didn’t care much because she wasn’t my type, with better girls I wouldn’t dare to touch them as much… which is annoying.
Anyway then we left the club and my friend said goodbye. I took her by the hand (again, I had to do it myself…) and in the park, I told her I know a cool psychological trick that will tell me everything about her.
I told her to look into my eyes, then to come closer, and then kissed her. She sank into me and we kissed some more.
^ again, this was a bold move from me. Is it really this easy? I lost so many girls because I wasn’t willing to risk it. Could I have just gone for it? This is so annoying, realising that I might have the power/the right to have girls but I don’t trust it… I will literally NOT escalate with a girl I like, just to prove to myself that I can’t have her…
Then I took her to my car, tried to escalate there but got LMR, and she said we should say goodbye and she should go to her hostel.
So I drove her there and told her I’ll use their bathroom, in the hostel I pulled her into the bathroom and we kissed some more and I pulled out my D. She stroked it and after licking my hand, also sucked it.
^ might seem like a nice success but it pissed me off, how many girls I could have if I could be this bold with them… I turned a No to a Yes, it’s not logical at all! And I had to be in control the whole time, I got nothing for free again…
Anyway I wasn’t able to get further, she was blocking my hand, and the reception guy was talking close to the bathroom, so we called it off. We cuddled a bit on the hostel sofa (again, I had to take her and cuddle! I really get nothing for free… ugh) and it was 3 am already so she went to pack and leave. We said our goodbyes and I left.
All in all I was happy but it made me mad how much power I probably have - only it’s being blocked by fear around women I really like. With this one it felt easier, but I still had to do the moves and take the risks myself, so there isn’t much to be happy about. I got nothing more than what I worked for.
Let’s see if next time I can get a girl I’ll actually really like and escalate on her. But I’m afraid that will make the past fails hurt even more, because I’ll have another proof that “I could have just done it”.
Anyway it was an enjoyable experience.
