Successful late bloomers with a chip on their shoulder and the end-game. Thoughts and experiences?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I read the post by @Chase a while back about the end-game for a playboy and it was somewhat eye-opening for me. For the longest time, I wondered why we do not have more men like Dan Bilzerian on this planet but the post opened my eyes. I've long went back and forth with the likes of even @Franco on this very topic but I wanted to introduce another factor into it. Might even be a unique breed to some as I am definitely a part of it myself.

You get guys who are "naturals" that just get it at an early age, then you have most men who are "average" guys that are happy with a girl or two, and then some men who get it just early enough.

Say you have a guy who had the drive but grew up with a fair bit of challenges (bad environment, overbearing parenting, bad life circumstances, etc.). Maybe he came into form in life a bit later and let parents and people around him ruin his chances of being a player in his youth and early 20s. Perhaps he grew up in an area where reasonably attractive women were tough to find. Maybe he hits his stride a little later in say his 30s while having moreso average success in his 20s.

Assuming this guy puts in the work but has that chip on his shoulder not particularly against women but just something out to prove, to himself, and the game is a redeeming part of life for him. He gets significantly better in fundamentals and the work he has put in but unlike the natural who got laid at a young age or the average guy who just lacks that drive, this guy still has that itch to scratch and that drive to really "get it out of his system".

What is the endgame for that kind of a player?

In his situation, given the drive and added ambition towards game, does the constant sex with different women now have a longer lifeline to where say he can go until the age of 35 while the average man could only go to the age of 30?

I wanted to have some authorities on this forum who I have gained some respect for to weigh in on this.

@Hue
@DarkKnight
@Teevster
@Franco
@Chase
@Kvothe
@Grand Pooba
@Skills
@Sub-Zero
@Fuck This

 

[Sub-Zero]

What’s up Oh Pry,

With me, I come from a different place; was always able to get attention and still do, started having sex with chicks at a very young age. The main thing that I have dealt with and I’m trying to fix now is that I only lay girls that just make it easy for me, sure I’ve had to use game sometimes, but I don’t know how to do seduction at the level I need to do it, and another thing that I didn’t work on was lowering my standards and talking to a lot more chicks treating it like a numbers game.

That’s what currently keeps me going.

The age thing is bothering I know, I think everyone worries about being older, it’s normal, but when feelings aren’t involved, think of it like this....

Do you honestly think an in shape older man can’t get attractive girls consistently? And you said 30-35 which is the side of an extremely young older man.

So if you want to continue seduction there’s no problem with doing it no matter how old. I see real old dudes at the club all of the time.

You’re in NYC, I’m sure you have seen them too.

To me people settle down because they really want to, they get in their feelings a lot and get married, then they know they can’t do anything while married so they just stay married and hopefully they don’t get divorced.

The endgame for a player is when you want it to be, sometimes guys marry early and get in the game late, sometimes guys never settle down even if they are married or have a family.

Things change with how you feel at the time. I remember I used to go out a lot and was fuckin a lot of chicks at one time, then this one chick came along and treated me like a king, then I got lazy and was with her for years and she was a pain, and a huge reason why I don’t trust chicks, and what keeps me going strong in the game as well.

At that time I was tired of the game because while I was doing good, I still had to deal with so many flakes, games, etc.

I was going to settle down and then I said fuck that!!

Now I’m back doing game and plan on doing this until I am getting what I want and probably won’t stop. I’ll take breaks, but I’ll continue for a long time.

Another thing here is that I don’t trust chicks, you can give them everything and they will still complain, they have too many options, etc.

You can never really stop being a player in a way because women always have options and men need them as well.

So yeah, I wrote a lot of shit, but this shit is real, being a player is a way of life, especially with how chicks act now and all of the options they have.

It’s a necessity dawg!!

Do what you wanna do that makes you happy no matter what age!!