FR+ sucked my dick but no sex. Ideas???

[skin_man]

Hello everyone,

Basically I'm in a rush to get help on this one. Here is a recap on what had already occurred so far with me and this gal.

Initial Game *easy mode*
I was on a trip and got to stay at a family house for a period of time. This girl lives there and recalls me from when I was in high school. When I saw her, I thought she was too young for me but she qualified her self to me: "You think i'm a small girl? *scoffs and shakes hips at me*" So I turned up my game and she melted enough to...

First Escalation
Make out with me the very next day after we come in from a walk around the estate where they live. She leans in and I eat her lips wildly and she opens up for a deeper kiss then I stop and she is breathing heavily on me. As the time goes on, I drag her into my bathroom and proceed to take off her bra and just stare at her nipples to build anticipation. Until..

Under the Radar
The parents (my hosts) come in from their outing. My dick is hard as a rock and in the state I'm in, i have to put on more clothes to cover the wonder. She rushes to button up her clothes again and go out of my room just in time. Now, it is obvious to you all that this is all going to be an under the radar seduction. It affects everyone of our flirtations, though she comes to my room often to say hi to me and the like: sitting on my bed, touching my stuff, being near me always.

Deeper Escalations
Needless to say after that first 'Green light' I take every chance I can to touch her and almost finger her once, while she's on a call but she runs off. I command her to keep her bedroom door open and she does - we lay in bed and I just kept meeting Resistances and resistances till she says she is on her Period. For me, this doesn't matter but to her she is so adept at waiving me off, I almost think she is experienced.

Subsequently, in the day time, she sucks my dick and I am pretty much won at this point. But still when I ask her to get the panties off, she only gets the bra off and stayed put with it. I have to leave the next day.


Keeping her hot
Not been the easiest since I am avoiding the early boyfriend precedent. She calls and calls and I evade the calls till I finally reply that I was swamped with work. She agrees to let us meet up when the school is open and she does. I take this as a sign of our fervent passion for each other - and this is all sounding too romantic at this point since I only want to stick it in and keep her as a fuck buddy. Well, in time, I make arrangements for us to meet again when I'm back in town. She comes out, chasing hard imo, but poor logistics made me decide to pull all the shots and like the best of seducers say: "burn it all to the ground" so, I revisit the family who she stays with, the same ones that hosted me the last time I was around.


Question of the Post

THis is the crux of this post. How can I make our laisons result in proper sex without the hangups of the past times: period and under the radar being put into consideration?

If anyone can give me the best tool, I would be very much obliged to you (read as: I would owe you on that).

Thank you guys.

 

[kalyan]

She gave you a BJ, that's pretty close to what you want, and a very good starting point.
What I would focus on is two things; first, solve the logistics problem- you can't have sex when you're afraid that at any moment, her family is going to pop in. Solve this, and let her know that the two of you are going to be undisturbed. A hotel room would be ideal if you could manage it.
Second thing I'd do is focus on turning her on more, while denying her the chance to give you a blowjob- don't "settle" for it. They way I'd do it is by grinding (try to take as many layers of your and her clothes off), and then, progressively, by: rubbing her from outside her panties, then inside, then fingering her.
You'll know what to do next.

 

[skin_man]

Thanks kalyan,

Yeah. That's what I ought to have done. Now I'm gone from the home and all I was able to do was touch her pussy. So much surveillance in that house.. haha.
I do hope to keep the flame hot till when she comes to my city though. It's a balancing act but I have done the following:

texted her to not call or message me except she is near to where I am. My reason in the text: it would stir up strong emotions that I'm not ready to deal with.

This text follows a precedent I have so far set as being purely a lover who would offer her romance, sex, adventures and cuddles. She was looking for commitment but I cut off that line of conversation. When I was about to leave she was so turned on that I almost slayed her in the living room. This was when the house owner started coming down the stairs.


Now, since then I have met a new girl who is a stronger yet inexperienced chap.

WIth this previous one though, I started wanting to fuck again so I sent her a text to say "what's up" - no reply.


It's gonna be tough keeping her hot for me till we next see where I will surely make it happen in a hotel or enclosed room somehow.

 

[kalyan]

Ay man, why did you say that? I mean, i get where you're coming from and your motive is good, but you didn't need to say it out loud... Imagine a girl writes that to you, doesnt feel nice does it? Plus, you broke your own rule on not talking to her by actually talking to her.. You probably were horny when you did that, thats why its best not to text while horny.
And yeah, its good that you found a new chick, cuz thinking of that old one won't cause youcanything but sorts of trouble.

 

[skin_man]

Yeah.

Great input Kay.

I didn't think it through till just now. Probably killed whatever attraction she had left for me. Meh!