Suggestions for Staying Relevant?

[NewBeeWinner]

Hey guys,

Ive been down in the dumps a bit lately. I was going to move out of my parents (finally) but that fell through. I then thought of getting a second job, but I have to get an internship to graduate from university so I wont have enough time to. Im graduating in December and then moving to a new city so I'll get free then.

I dont feel comfortable bringing girls home. My parents also arent the most open to it atm. But Ive been trying to go out. Approaches have been horrible lately and I am not the most efficient. Just kind of brought me down. I hate to just say "wait until the new year" because thats so many wasted months!

I'm only 21 so part of me feels like I have time - but I also hate being passive!!

It feels like my hands are tied until December. I need a different perspective, which is why Im asking.

Im impatient. I want to experience the change as soon as possible. Any tips for staying relevant and boosting back up my esteem?

NBW

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

NBW dude! You have time but there's no time like the present! Ya have bad logistics and I know this can make it an uphill battle to begin with. The further away ya put the goal in ya mind the bigger the hurdle seems.

Ya could decide to be passive and wait until new year but it's very pessimistic and not productive! Ya could still be out meeting girls, getting references, gaining experience and get momentum for when ya move city dude. If ya take yourself out the field ya rusty when ya get back out there and have to warm back up. Why make it difficult?

Shit logistics are shit logistics, ya left hoping ya can go to her place, in ya car or getting creative. Even if can't get the goal before the new year wouldn't ya rather try? Ya would have a much better time meeting girls dude!

Boost esteem by meeting girls, stay relevant by keeping ya skills sharp. Trust me ya will thank yourself for it