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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I'm still in the phase of discovering nightclubs to socialize in and memorizing the route to them. So as a result I've been focusing on daygame and meeting girls on the streets as I journey on. Here's what's happened so far:

1) I met a girl in a restaurant as I was buying something to eat. When I saw her I greeted her and asked her her name and asked her which school she goes to and if she enjoyed graduating from high school. She got her order and as I walked her out of the restaurant I asked for her numbers. She turned me down.

2) I met a girl on my way back from home. I greeted her and I told her that I thought she was pretty and that I would like to have a conversation with her. She blushed and we stood and spoke for about 10 minutes talking about school and stuff. I told her that I had to leave and I asked for her numbers. She gave em to me.

3) I saw a girl I knew and she was with her cousin. I spoke to them both, mostly the girl who I knew. I asked her to introduce me to her cousin and I started chatting them both up. I saw that the cousin was starting to get impatient so I asked them both for their numbers (so that I wouldn't creep the cousin out asking for her numbers) and I got them and I bowed out.

4)A girl got off of a cab a few metres in front of me and she was walking fast. I wanted to go for one more approach and so I ran towards her hoping that she wouldn't look back to see me running. She did. I didn't mind it though, as I caught up I greeted her and asked her why she was in such a rush. She said that she didn't wanna stay out in the dark. (which kinda worried me, because it only solidified the idea that nobody in my age group is going to be in the clubs). We spoke for about 2 minutes before I got antsy and had to eject. I asked her for her numbers and said goodbye.

These are interactions that I had a few days ago when I was looking around for clubs. Just wanted to post em up so you'd all know that I'm still alive and kicking and to see if anybody had any advice on them.
 
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I'm not the best here, but from my experience I think you just didnt bulid attraction. What happened to the girl who gave you her num?
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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One_of_kind_200 said:
I'm not the best here, but from my experience I think you just didnt bulid attraction.

Yeah. I think there wasn't enough time between me seeing her and her getting her order. I think that I should have stopped her as she was leaving and chatted her up a bit more or I should have found a way to extend our conversation.

One_of_kind_200 said:
What happened to the girl who gave you her num?

Well, that's a bit of a sad story. I literally have no idea what to do with her since her IM doesn't work and my call game is literally crap. I didn't really do anything with her numbers ever since that day. I texted all the other girls who gave me their numbers and now I'm trying to ease a meet up out of them so I can avoid the chat trap.
 

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Ash said:
1) I met a girl in a restaurant as I was buying something to eat. When I saw her I greeted her and asked her her name and asked her which school she goes to and if she enjoyed graduating from high school. She got her order and as I walked her out of the restaurant I asked for her numbers. She turned me down.
Don't just greet, try to cold approach and build her up from the beggining, be witty and some jokes about the food of the restaurant or the food would have been a good idea.

Ash said:
2) I met a girl on my way back from home. I greeted her and I told her that I thought she was pretty and that I would like to have a conversation with her. She blushed and we stood and spoke for about 10 minutes talking about school and stuff. I told her that I had to leave and I asked for her numbers. She gave em to me.
Deep dive more, school talk is pointless..

Ash said:
3) I saw a girl I knew and she was with her cousin. I spoke to them both, mostly the girl who I knew. I asked her to introduce me to her cousin and I started chatting them both up. I saw that the cousin was starting to get impatient so I asked them both for their numbers (so that I wouldn't creep the cousin out asking for her numbers) and I got them and I bowed out.
Relax man, first practice your skills with single approaches, but one great line i use is:"I have a big crush on one of you girls, but both are so pretty where are you from?"

Ash said:
4)A girl got off of a cab a few metres in front of me and she was walking fast. I wanted to go for one more approach and so I ran towards her hoping that she wouldn't look back to see me running. She did. I didn't mind it though, as I caught up I greeted her and asked her why she was in such a rush. She said that she didn't wanna stay out in the dark. (which kinda worried me, because it only solidified the idea that nobody in my age group is going to be in the clubs). We spoke for about 2 minutes before I got antsy and had to eject. I asked her for her numbers and said goodbye.
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From the momment she caught it's awkard enough to cockblock yourself, never chase!! even literally!! Should have waited for going inside and talked to her there!

Work on your fundamentals, that's your no. 1 thing when you are in night venues, tone of women will check you out.

Cheers, DonAngelo.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Thanks don

Lots of great advice in there. And I especially like the line you use with the two girls. Ill keep these in mind in my next cold approaches
 
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