Superfluous Apology + Pacing + Relating Combo

[foggy]

Quick piece of tech here that’s super easy to use and fun to implement!

Superfluous apologies are when you apologize to someone for something you are clearly not responsible for. Studies show that using a superfluous apology increases an individual's trust in the apologizer.

You can pair superfluous apologies along with pacing and other rapport building techniques to rapidly build trust and an emotional connection with girls.

Here's an example in which I pull out this combo on a female cashier in an empty grocery store:

Fog: I’m sorry it’s not busy. (Superfluous Apology) You look sooo bored. (Pacing)
Cashier Girl: Oh my gosh I know, it's terrible!!
Fog: I remember when I used to work as a cashier at a grocery store. When business was slow, time would just drag on and on and on… (Relating)

The superfluous apology demonstrates empathetic concern, while the pacing and relating show her that you understand what she's going through.

 

[trashKENNUT]

sbf,

i done this a lot during my younger days. I am not sure if this works when girls don't like you in general. I would say this is a good gauge test to see whether she likes you or not.

Zac