bored as fuck today i took sick day from work, just felt like not going in. went out around the streets and realized how fucking hard day game is here. then i realized that my only actual, successful, totally cold daygame pickup was this african chick a few weeks back. figured i'd write about it and give something back to the community.
had to go to a work 'training' in the afternoon, few weeks back. afterwards, the usual tradition is that we go to a japanese restaurant and drink sake. pounded a couple bottles and was pretty drunk. i didn't have to work after but my colleagues did.
i went to get my hair cut, i was surprisingly drunk. i fell asleep in the chair and woke up with a cool new hairdo.
my colleague had some free time. i was only gonna go over the road to walmart and buy a load of booze so he met me there and we bimbled around the supermarket. i'm feeling pretty confident with my new 'do and still being sake'd up
meanwhile i've been making plans for the evening. someone's having a barbecue so i'm gonna head over there.
so i've got a basket full of wine and meat and whatever, i'm stocking up because they have some good stuff that i can't get closer to home. i've got like 8 bottles of wine and loads of steaks and fish and whatnot.
i'm generally being friendly with the people i meet around the supermarket. there's one girl who seemed keen, i can't remember what i said to her but she left and i transitioned directly over to this black chick and just starting firing off lines at her. she's asking me about if i'm a having a party coz of all the booze and i'm just like yeah, party, you're coming with me. meanwhile, my colleague is kind of aghast, they've seen me pull some shit but they can't deal with it. their minds boggle when they see me spouting random shit to strangers.
i continue blathering shit at this black girl and i'm paying for my stuff and bagging it and drop a bottle of red wine on the floor. smashes, of course. messy. i take that in my stride and continue talking to the girl as i wait for her to pay then we all go outside together and sit on a bench and have a beer.
we've got a really good vibe going. my colleague is getting into it and the girl keeps saying she thinks we're high. she's from botswana. like an african princess or something. speaks with a posh english accent. she clearly down for a good time.
meanwhile, a spanner in the works. i had a meeting that was meant to be cancelled but then wasn't. so i convinced the girl to come with me and just told her what was gonna happen. she got on my bike and i rode 20 minutes to my place to drop of my stuff, she came up with me and we smoked a bong. then i took her over to my friends place and said, hey guys, this is my new friend. take care of her. i'll be back in a couple hours.
i get back later and everybody has been drinking,smoking, having a good time. my friends have all been hitting on my girl, for sure. my spirit is unbreakable. from the moment i first saw this girl i knew i was gonna fuck her. so i wasn't too worried.
so were sitting outside. kinda next to each other. i'm getting loads of social proof. some of these guys i hadn't seen for a while so they're all giving me hugs and saying "where you been you don't hang out enough" "we fucking love you man, you're fucking awesome" obviously booze was involved. i was taking it easy and drinking much water.
i've got two vibes going on, the party vibe with my buddies and a sexy vibe with the girl
so i talk to my friends, leave the girl hanging a little, but now and then lean over and check on her. about an hour in i suggest we go get some water. i take her through the apartment to the water cooler, get a 2 cups of water, and stand there face to face talking. i'm making solid eye contact and just talking about boring shit with a sexy, knowing look. can't remember anything i said but it's basically all sexual innuendo. i mean, i'm talking about a drink of water, or riding my scooter, but every word out of my mouth means, we're gonna fuck. so we make the decision to leave. it was like "some negligible excuse to leave. let's go."
so we say our goodbyes and rode over to my place, up the stairs, stripped off and got in the shower together. i almost always do this. wash her back. get her soaped up. depends on how i feel at the time but sometimes i'll go pretty far in the shower, sometimes i'll just wash and massage a little then always get out first to let them wash their girly-parts in private.
so i washed her back and sexed her up a bit in the shower. got out and dried myself, waited for her to get out, then finished the job.
not much here in the way of content as i can't remember anything i said. and reading it makes me sound like a fucking white trash or something with the pounding beers and smoking weed. it's quite different from my usual date model but i coped with some potential problems quite well and kept a solid frame throughout.
only takeaway i can think of, and this is something i haven't done on my recent failed dates, is getting face-to-face immediately sexes up the interaction. sure, stand side by side, sit side by side on a date, but when you wanna put out the vibe you have to get right into her space, face to face.
had to go to a work 'training' in the afternoon, few weeks back. afterwards, the usual tradition is that we go to a japanese restaurant and drink sake. pounded a couple bottles and was pretty drunk. i didn't have to work after but my colleagues did.
i went to get my hair cut, i was surprisingly drunk. i fell asleep in the chair and woke up with a cool new hairdo.
my colleague had some free time. i was only gonna go over the road to walmart and buy a load of booze so he met me there and we bimbled around the supermarket. i'm feeling pretty confident with my new 'do and still being sake'd up
meanwhile i've been making plans for the evening. someone's having a barbecue so i'm gonna head over there.
so i've got a basket full of wine and meat and whatever, i'm stocking up because they have some good stuff that i can't get closer to home. i've got like 8 bottles of wine and loads of steaks and fish and whatnot.
i'm generally being friendly with the people i meet around the supermarket. there's one girl who seemed keen, i can't remember what i said to her but she left and i transitioned directly over to this black chick and just starting firing off lines at her. she's asking me about if i'm a having a party coz of all the booze and i'm just like yeah, party, you're coming with me. meanwhile, my colleague is kind of aghast, they've seen me pull some shit but they can't deal with it. their minds boggle when they see me spouting random shit to strangers.
i continue blathering shit at this black girl and i'm paying for my stuff and bagging it and drop a bottle of red wine on the floor. smashes, of course. messy. i take that in my stride and continue talking to the girl as i wait for her to pay then we all go outside together and sit on a bench and have a beer.
we've got a really good vibe going. my colleague is getting into it and the girl keeps saying she thinks we're high. she's from botswana. like an african princess or something. speaks with a posh english accent. she clearly down for a good time.
meanwhile, a spanner in the works. i had a meeting that was meant to be cancelled but then wasn't. so i convinced the girl to come with me and just told her what was gonna happen. she got on my bike and i rode 20 minutes to my place to drop of my stuff, she came up with me and we smoked a bong. then i took her over to my friends place and said, hey guys, this is my new friend. take care of her. i'll be back in a couple hours.
i get back later and everybody has been drinking,smoking, having a good time. my friends have all been hitting on my girl, for sure. my spirit is unbreakable. from the moment i first saw this girl i knew i was gonna fuck her. so i wasn't too worried.
so were sitting outside. kinda next to each other. i'm getting loads of social proof. some of these guys i hadn't seen for a while so they're all giving me hugs and saying "where you been you don't hang out enough" "we fucking love you man, you're fucking awesome" obviously booze was involved. i was taking it easy and drinking much water.
i've got two vibes going on, the party vibe with my buddies and a sexy vibe with the girl
so i talk to my friends, leave the girl hanging a little, but now and then lean over and check on her. about an hour in i suggest we go get some water. i take her through the apartment to the water cooler, get a 2 cups of water, and stand there face to face talking. i'm making solid eye contact and just talking about boring shit with a sexy, knowing look. can't remember anything i said but it's basically all sexual innuendo. i mean, i'm talking about a drink of water, or riding my scooter, but every word out of my mouth means, we're gonna fuck. so we make the decision to leave. it was like "some negligible excuse to leave. let's go."
so we say our goodbyes and rode over to my place, up the stairs, stripped off and got in the shower together. i almost always do this. wash her back. get her soaped up. depends on how i feel at the time but sometimes i'll go pretty far in the shower, sometimes i'll just wash and massage a little then always get out first to let them wash their girly-parts in private.
so i washed her back and sexed her up a bit in the shower. got out and dried myself, waited for her to get out, then finished the job.
not much here in the way of content as i can't remember anything i said. and reading it makes me sound like a fucking white trash or something with the pounding beers and smoking weed. it's quite different from my usual date model but i coped with some potential problems quite well and kept a solid frame throughout.
only takeaway i can think of, and this is something i haven't done on my recent failed dates, is getting face-to-face immediately sexes up the interaction. sure, stand side by side, sit side by side on a date, but when you wanna put out the vibe you have to get right into her space, face to face.
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