So I guess this counts as losing my forum virginity (first time poster long time observer), I found Girls Chase around 2 years ago shortly after a long term relationship (3+ years) ended and have been enjoying the content ever since. The things I've learned and enjoyed here have helped me notch numerous college lays and I'm sure I'll do some level of write up about them at some point. (Also any feedback on how I'm formatting these reports is much appreciated only just started keeping these reports myself)
This particular LR begins with me relaxing waiting for some takeout Chinese at a restaurant near my house (I live with my parents while I finish college mostly because it saves me upwards of 7K a year but yeah its hell on the take a girl home life). So as I'm sitting there I get a snap from a girl I fucked previously and now have a friends relationship with asking me if I'd like to come over to her friends place for a barbecue, now I knew full well that she was only inviting me hoping I'd bring some alcohol with me to share with her but during quarantine and such things I'd been bored out of my mind so I was genuinely excited as fuck to finally get some new human hopefully female contact in my life. So I said absolutely I'll bring some White Claws and we can hang.
Made the drive hopped over to the party (really only 5 people total) at this point I met the new girl, we'll call her Erica, so started the night with a social vibe I honestly wasn't looking for a new girl or anything mostly just interested in meeting new people for the summer, she showed clear interest off the bat focusing on me off the bat, by this I mean she singled me out of the other men there as someone to have small talk with and converse with. At this point a small description without being too revealing, she is a freshman heading toward sophomore year blond hair with blue highlights sort of a rocker chick I don't like rating girls but she was absolutely attractive actually reminded me of a more attractive Arya Stark from GOT. Anyway the barbecue went well good food a couple drinks, I really didn't make direct approaches at her mostly just catching up with friends and finding out about their lives.
I did find out that one of my fellow varsity athlete teammates was one of her best friends so there was definite social proof there that I wasn't some random upperclassman creep. As the night progressed I started to talk to her mostly random social stuff, major, grade, and of course the most important question where she was living this summer (super important for learning if she lives nearby or if it's even feasible to try to get the lay).
Our conversation went well but since I was absolutely interested in how my other friends were doing I began transferred back to them to ask some questions at this point she suggested we swap snapchats which obviously if any of the other IOI's hadn't clued me in that she was interested this certainly would have. So I gave her my snap and she gave me hers.
Now a key part of this is that I was not interested in fucking her that night since I had a number of important tasks to do the next morning at my house so I was uninterested in staying late. So the party (still 5 people of course) moved inside here is where things took a sexual turn. I took a conversation topic, I believe it was drinking in on campus building and suggested the topic of sex in on campus buildings, mentioning that I'd fucked a girl who'd had sex in everyone on campus. This made the entire conversation far more sexual and allowed my to convey sexual ability and knowledge. We swapped stories of crazy things we'd done and I knew immediately that this was a girl I'd love to fuck as soon as possible.
This is the point where I decided I should head home I headed to my car (mind you I had only had 3 drinks over the course of 4 hours so well within the legal limit for the US), as I was leaving I said my goodbyes and when it came to saying goodbye to Erica I was sure to say “it was great to meet you and I'm sure we'll see each other again” Now tone here was obviously a sort of we both know what will happen then, hard to explain over text but sexual in nature obviously.
So I headed home so the next day I woke up did my morning work and decided to send a message knowing it's often best to strike while the iron is hot, I messaged her “I'm going to be around (the town where she lives) if you and anyone you know is down to hang out” to which she responded “absolutely I'm not sure who's free but we can always party at my apartment”. Of course I knew immediately that this was basically game over she'd invited me over to her place not really suggested anybody else join us etc.
I drove in found my way into her apartment started with small talk about her apartment, her last year of school etc. Then noticed her record player in her bedroom made it a topic of conversation and went over to see it and critique her music taste, this of course led to her wanting to prove herself to me by playing her music on the record player. I grabbed her hand and we started like silly dancing to the music at which time we started making close eye contact and I pulled her in for a kiss and from there the night went smoothly no LMR or anything except good sex.
Key Learned points from this interaction
So for every interaction I think I'll put this at the end a bulleted list of things I learned from each interaction.
Anyway that's my first lay report on here I'm well aware this was a distinct easy toss up without an incredible amount of difficult game or requiring careful thought however I was very satisfied especially since it was my first real new game experience after 3 months of quarantine low human interaction lifestyle. Again all feedback is very appreciated and I hope to have numerous more LR to share with the community as time goes on.
Alaric
This particular LR begins with me relaxing waiting for some takeout Chinese at a restaurant near my house (I live with my parents while I finish college mostly because it saves me upwards of 7K a year but yeah its hell on the take a girl home life). So as I'm sitting there I get a snap from a girl I fucked previously and now have a friends relationship with asking me if I'd like to come over to her friends place for a barbecue, now I knew full well that she was only inviting me hoping I'd bring some alcohol with me to share with her but during quarantine and such things I'd been bored out of my mind so I was genuinely excited as fuck to finally get some new human hopefully female contact in my life. So I said absolutely I'll bring some White Claws and we can hang.
Made the drive hopped over to the party (really only 5 people total) at this point I met the new girl, we'll call her Erica, so started the night with a social vibe I honestly wasn't looking for a new girl or anything mostly just interested in meeting new people for the summer, she showed clear interest off the bat focusing on me off the bat, by this I mean she singled me out of the other men there as someone to have small talk with and converse with. At this point a small description without being too revealing, she is a freshman heading toward sophomore year blond hair with blue highlights sort of a rocker chick I don't like rating girls but she was absolutely attractive actually reminded me of a more attractive Arya Stark from GOT. Anyway the barbecue went well good food a couple drinks, I really didn't make direct approaches at her mostly just catching up with friends and finding out about their lives.
I did find out that one of my fellow varsity athlete teammates was one of her best friends so there was definite social proof there that I wasn't some random upperclassman creep. As the night progressed I started to talk to her mostly random social stuff, major, grade, and of course the most important question where she was living this summer (super important for learning if she lives nearby or if it's even feasible to try to get the lay).
Our conversation went well but since I was absolutely interested in how my other friends were doing I began transferred back to them to ask some questions at this point she suggested we swap snapchats which obviously if any of the other IOI's hadn't clued me in that she was interested this certainly would have. So I gave her my snap and she gave me hers.
Now a key part of this is that I was not interested in fucking her that night since I had a number of important tasks to do the next morning at my house so I was uninterested in staying late. So the party (still 5 people of course) moved inside here is where things took a sexual turn. I took a conversation topic, I believe it was drinking in on campus building and suggested the topic of sex in on campus buildings, mentioning that I'd fucked a girl who'd had sex in everyone on campus. This made the entire conversation far more sexual and allowed my to convey sexual ability and knowledge. We swapped stories of crazy things we'd done and I knew immediately that this was a girl I'd love to fuck as soon as possible.
This is the point where I decided I should head home I headed to my car (mind you I had only had 3 drinks over the course of 4 hours so well within the legal limit for the US), as I was leaving I said my goodbyes and when it came to saying goodbye to Erica I was sure to say “it was great to meet you and I'm sure we'll see each other again” Now tone here was obviously a sort of we both know what will happen then, hard to explain over text but sexual in nature obviously.
So I headed home so the next day I woke up did my morning work and decided to send a message knowing it's often best to strike while the iron is hot, I messaged her “I'm going to be around (the town where she lives) if you and anyone you know is down to hang out” to which she responded “absolutely I'm not sure who's free but we can always party at my apartment”. Of course I knew immediately that this was basically game over she'd invited me over to her place not really suggested anybody else join us etc.
I drove in found my way into her apartment started with small talk about her apartment, her last year of school etc. Then noticed her record player in her bedroom made it a topic of conversation and went over to see it and critique her music taste, this of course led to her wanting to prove herself to me by playing her music on the record player. I grabbed her hand and we started like silly dancing to the music at which time we started making close eye contact and I pulled her in for a kiss and from there the night went smoothly no LMR or anything except good sex.
Key Learned points from this interaction
So for every interaction I think I'll put this at the end a bulleted list of things I learned from each interaction.
- Gaining social proof from friends is very powerful for getting a girl to become interested
- Not always focusing exclusively on the girl especially when she's already given you IOI's is often a good idea, make sure she's hooked but don't go crazy trying to pull slower burn isn't the worst thing.
- Making a conversation sexual is virtually never going to go bad as long as it's a calibrated process make sure it fits with the current topic (Drinking on campus → Sex on campus).
- When a girl invites you over to her apartment without really suggesting it, assume shes interested in you as a sexual partner.
- Try to set the mood remember it's her place you don't have as much control over your surroundings as you do at home so look to set a situation where she makes things sexual, you're still in control you just cant be quite as blatant as you would at home making a drink and putting on good music.
- With a girl that is clearly interested in you make her the one who's trying to prove herself to you not the other way around (I suggested she had bad music taste so she put on her music to prove me wrong leading to dancing and debauchery).
Anyway that's my first lay report on here I'm well aware this was a distinct easy toss up without an incredible amount of difficult game or requiring careful thought however I was very satisfied especially since it was my first real new game experience after 3 months of quarantine low human interaction lifestyle. Again all feedback is very appreciated and I hope to have numerous more LR to share with the community as time goes on.
Alaric
