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RyRy

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So recently my luck has changed with girls, I've been talking to a girl for a bit now but she's really hard to crack.

We both share a heap of the same interests one big one is gaming and collecting movies, we talk every day she usually initiates the conversation which I thought was a good thing that she texts first and we talk alot, but she's very short most the time, I'm almost to the point that as awesome as she seems I'm getting kinda bored texting the same shit.

But the other night she went out had a few drinks she just wouldn't stop talking as if she wanted to talk not like usual,

I'm ashamed to say that I'm sorta keen on her, but I'm pretty sure that she's not at all interested in me,
Is there a way to change this, like get her more invested into the conversation talk more so it's not just me asking all the questions or should I just accept it's not going anywhere and give in,
 

TylerDurden

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I am not sure I understood, when you text her, she starts the conversation, but answers short texts/expects questions/etc.
But you can't get it to something more prone to romance than movies or games.
And when you are with her (and she had a few drinks) she can't stop talking to you (about what?).
Is that right?
Also, How are you "pretty sure" she isn't interested?, starting the conversation is indeed a good sign, but the vibe that's going on could be friends or something more, I need more info.
 

RyRy

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Oh most times she texts me first, she only says how's your day or something along the lines of that,
Yeah like we both like to collect movies and play games, apart from that there's nothing to talk about,
the conversation goes stale, not that she doesn't talk any more just the conversation goes really slow otherwise,
when she's at work she texts me on break and stuff like that.

I've never met her before, I've organized to catch up for a coffee or food with her and she just said yes and we haven't spoken about it again,
I don't want to seem too pushy,

okay what I meant about the talking more when she's drunk when I try find out what else she's into she doesn't really go into that side of things,
But yeah she goes out to mates often and once she has a few drinks she tells me a heap about herself and seems like she wants to talk.
we do text a lot.

She seems like a good chick, and she's hot She found me on face book from instagram somehow, and I want to try swings things more to hang out not being in the friendzone.
 
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