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So, I went back up to my old college to visit friends this weekend. We went out to a house party.
Tonight was a perfect example of two things:
1. What happens when there are more girls than guys at a venue.
2. Working the room and getting to pick out the girl I want.
So when I got there, the first thing I did was hit the dance floor. A group of girls walked in. One of them was pretty bomb. She held eye contact with me. Slightly more prolonged than usual. Easy approach invitation. Keep in mind I was already pretty drunk as this conversation goes on.
Me: Let's see your best dance move!
Her: Ok, lets battle!
Me: I instantly start break dancing. I hit a lamp at the top of the wall and break it. I feel super bad. Fortuntely, I did enough to get everyone talking about how dope my dancing was. I found the house owners, apologized graciously and everyone was chill. They actually invited me to stick around. After that, this dude approached me telling me he's a hip hop instructor and he wants me to stop by his class to teach tomorrow LOL. I had to decline because I was leaving for home in the morning.
I head back upstairs, chat casually with a few other people. Then head back downstairs, run into the same super hot girl who gave me the approach invitation. Unfortunately, even though she was into me, her friends pulled her away and they all left the party.
I head back upstairs and meet the girl of the night. I talk to her for a while about mundane topics. Most of it was about her tattoo, her costume (it was a costume themed party), her major, her hobbies etc. She wasn't a very good conversationalist. So I did the brunt of the work (she was still very engaged, so I knew she was interested. She just didn't know what she was doing).
Now here's where the preselection kicks in:
1. My friends who I came with are mostly girls. They would come by, I would kind of flirt with them and playfully give them shit (to which they would ofc respond well)
2. Like I said before, I already met a lot of people that night. Including her roommate. Since I was already chill with her roommate (who was also into me), it was pretty easy to control the conversation. I invited the roommate into the convo for a while. It was clear that they were both vying for my attention. So what did I do? I left the conversation. Very intentionally. At this point, because there were so many girls there and I was clearly the most attractive guy there, roles had reversed. I was basically like the hot girl who gets to dismiss guys left and right. Except that I'm the hot guy doing it to girls lol.
I went around, did my own thing for a while until I ran into the hotter roommate again. This time, she was by herself. I invited her to go to the dance floor with me. Unfortuntely, when we got downstairs, for whatever reason, the music was stopped and there was almost no one there. So I had to improvise:
Me: Let's go sit on that couch over there
Her: Okay
From then on out, I made idle chatter while I physically escalated. First to an arm around her shoulder, then to making out. Five minutes later, I break the kiss. Then I slowly get up
Me: Come with me [I extend my hand out]
Her: Okay [She grabs my hand]
I lead her outside the party to where my car is parked. We go straight to my backseat. We start making out hardcore. I take off her shirt no problem. She tells me
Her: I've never done this before [I assumed she meant hook up with a guy in the back of his car]
Me: That's okay.
We make out for a while longer. I take my pants off and lightly push her head down, indicating that I want her to blow me. She slightly hesitates. Then it hits me:
Me: When you said "you've never done this" what did you mean by that?
Her: I've never done anything. Ever.
Me: Ohh, okay. That's fine.
So we go back to making out for a while. I take her pants off. I tell her to suck it. This time, she blows me no problem. She actually wasn't bad for a first timer. Nothing special, but at least she didn't lick the tip & hurt me like most virgins do lol. I eat her out after. When I'm done, I say
Me: Should I put it in?
Her: Do you have a condom?
Me: Yeah, ofc.
I put on a condom and put it in. She really was a virgin. It took about 30 minutes for me to get it all the way in and for it to not hurt her. Also, she bled all over my car seat....still haven't managed to get that out.
Also, the next day, I get a text from my friend. Apparently, she found out that this girl was part of the same friend group as another girl I hooked up with last time I was at that house. See: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=15421
^She too was super inexperienced. Maybe a virgin a well. So I can almost guarantee I created helllaaa drama in their social circle. Am I going to hell for this?
Tonight was a perfect example of two things:
1. What happens when there are more girls than guys at a venue.
2. Working the room and getting to pick out the girl I want.
So when I got there, the first thing I did was hit the dance floor. A group of girls walked in. One of them was pretty bomb. She held eye contact with me. Slightly more prolonged than usual. Easy approach invitation. Keep in mind I was already pretty drunk as this conversation goes on.
Me: Let's see your best dance move!
Her: Ok, lets battle!
Me: I instantly start break dancing. I hit a lamp at the top of the wall and break it. I feel super bad. Fortuntely, I did enough to get everyone talking about how dope my dancing was. I found the house owners, apologized graciously and everyone was chill. They actually invited me to stick around. After that, this dude approached me telling me he's a hip hop instructor and he wants me to stop by his class to teach tomorrow LOL. I had to decline because I was leaving for home in the morning.
I head back upstairs, chat casually with a few other people. Then head back downstairs, run into the same super hot girl who gave me the approach invitation. Unfortunately, even though she was into me, her friends pulled her away and they all left the party.
I head back upstairs and meet the girl of the night. I talk to her for a while about mundane topics. Most of it was about her tattoo, her costume (it was a costume themed party), her major, her hobbies etc. She wasn't a very good conversationalist. So I did the brunt of the work (she was still very engaged, so I knew she was interested. She just didn't know what she was doing).
Now here's where the preselection kicks in:
1. My friends who I came with are mostly girls. They would come by, I would kind of flirt with them and playfully give them shit (to which they would ofc respond well)
2. Like I said before, I already met a lot of people that night. Including her roommate. Since I was already chill with her roommate (who was also into me), it was pretty easy to control the conversation. I invited the roommate into the convo for a while. It was clear that they were both vying for my attention. So what did I do? I left the conversation. Very intentionally. At this point, because there were so many girls there and I was clearly the most attractive guy there, roles had reversed. I was basically like the hot girl who gets to dismiss guys left and right. Except that I'm the hot guy doing it to girls lol.
I went around, did my own thing for a while until I ran into the hotter roommate again. This time, she was by herself. I invited her to go to the dance floor with me. Unfortuntely, when we got downstairs, for whatever reason, the music was stopped and there was almost no one there. So I had to improvise:
Me: Let's go sit on that couch over there
Her: Okay
From then on out, I made idle chatter while I physically escalated. First to an arm around her shoulder, then to making out. Five minutes later, I break the kiss. Then I slowly get up
Me: Come with me [I extend my hand out]
Her: Okay [She grabs my hand]
I lead her outside the party to where my car is parked. We go straight to my backseat. We start making out hardcore. I take off her shirt no problem. She tells me
Her: I've never done this before [I assumed she meant hook up with a guy in the back of his car]
Me: That's okay.
We make out for a while longer. I take my pants off and lightly push her head down, indicating that I want her to blow me. She slightly hesitates. Then it hits me:
Me: When you said "you've never done this" what did you mean by that?
Her: I've never done anything. Ever.
Me: Ohh, okay. That's fine.
So we go back to making out for a while. I take her pants off. I tell her to suck it. This time, she blows me no problem. She actually wasn't bad for a first timer. Nothing special, but at least she didn't lick the tip & hurt me like most virgins do lol. I eat her out after. When I'm done, I say
Me: Should I put it in?
Her: Do you have a condom?
Me: Yeah, ofc.
I put on a condom and put it in. She really was a virgin. It took about 30 minutes for me to get it all the way in and for it to not hurt her. Also, she bled all over my car seat....still haven't managed to get that out.
Also, the next day, I get a text from my friend. Apparently, she found out that this girl was part of the same friend group as another girl I hooked up with last time I was at that house. See: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=15421
^She too was super inexperienced. Maybe a virgin a well. So I can almost guarantee I created helllaaa drama in their social circle. Am I going to hell for this?
