Today I was at the river washing some bags for my Dad and two girls were there swimming and kept looking at me. I thought they were just curious so I called to them. They asked what I was doing and I said " sugar is in these bags and it's attracting bees so I'm washing them out to make the bees leave ". That's when they started to talk to me every now and then.
One of them, a dark girl named Jody especially I think she liked me. Everywhere on the river bank I went she came close to me. There were times during the conversation when it just didn't feel " right " to ask for her number. I didn't get to a high point where she was clearly amused and I prefer to ask for numbers when girls are feeling good. In the end she left with her friends and I didn't ask her number. She was there with some guys. And I took too long to get her amused and when she was walking away I didn't want to ask. I don't like the chasy feeling of calling back girls when they want to leave . If I got no other option should I just bite the bullet and ask for the number at a conversation end ?
They left and I left the river too. As I was walking back to get lunch at a restaurant I saw a cute brown girl walking towards me and she walked past . I just loved the way her hair was all wild like a after sex look . I couldn't resist and blurted out
Troy : Hey your hair is so wild and sexy . I love it
Girl : ( turning around to look at me and all smiles ) Hey
Troy : ( stammer ) My hair is all wild too and I was wondering if you know any barber around here .
Girl : Sure go around the corner and walk straight
Troy : Huh
Girl : I'll show you ( and we walk off together )
Troy : I'm Troy . What's your name?
Ashley : Ashley
Troy : Oh which side of the hood you from ?
Ashley : ( points)
Troy : I'm from ( point dramatic )
Ashley : ( laughs)
We talk till I arrive at the barber. She calls him . I thank her and go inside. Some part of me feels weird, I should have asked for her number .
The vibe just wasn't right. The end of the conversation I was doing the talking, she was just all straight face. That's not to say she was bored, but she wasn't feeling good like smiling and laughing. I just didn't think it was time to ask her for anything else. Think I should have asked even if it would cause awkwardness. Looking at it any way I may or may not see her again. Me having her number ( getting it at a awkward moment) think I could have called her later and " made it up "?
But something felt off .I tell these both stories because I think the problem isn't so much the conversation but more so the transition to asking for the number suddenly. To where time is limited should I forget about asking smoothly and just ask for the number? Should I stop looking so much at a girl's reaction prior to asking? I realize I am always on the alert of how a girl is feeling and I purposely avoid stuff that would be incongruent to how she is feeling.
Troy
One of them, a dark girl named Jody especially I think she liked me. Everywhere on the river bank I went she came close to me. There were times during the conversation when it just didn't feel " right " to ask for her number. I didn't get to a high point where she was clearly amused and I prefer to ask for numbers when girls are feeling good. In the end she left with her friends and I didn't ask her number. She was there with some guys. And I took too long to get her amused and when she was walking away I didn't want to ask. I don't like the chasy feeling of calling back girls when they want to leave . If I got no other option should I just bite the bullet and ask for the number at a conversation end ?
They left and I left the river too. As I was walking back to get lunch at a restaurant I saw a cute brown girl walking towards me and she walked past . I just loved the way her hair was all wild like a after sex look . I couldn't resist and blurted out
Troy : Hey your hair is so wild and sexy . I love it
Girl : ( turning around to look at me and all smiles ) Hey
Troy : ( stammer ) My hair is all wild too and I was wondering if you know any barber around here .
Girl : Sure go around the corner and walk straight
Troy : Huh
Girl : I'll show you ( and we walk off together )
Troy : I'm Troy . What's your name?
Ashley : Ashley
Troy : Oh which side of the hood you from ?
Ashley : ( points)
Troy : I'm from ( point dramatic )
Ashley : ( laughs)
We talk till I arrive at the barber. She calls him . I thank her and go inside. Some part of me feels weird, I should have asked for her number .
The vibe just wasn't right. The end of the conversation I was doing the talking, she was just all straight face. That's not to say she was bored, but she wasn't feeling good like smiling and laughing. I just didn't think it was time to ask her for anything else. Think I should have asked even if it would cause awkwardness. Looking at it any way I may or may not see her again. Me having her number ( getting it at a awkward moment) think I could have called her later and " made it up "?
But something felt off .I tell these both stories because I think the problem isn't so much the conversation but more so the transition to asking for the number suddenly. To where time is limited should I forget about asking smoothly and just ask for the number? Should I stop looking so much at a girl's reaction prior to asking? I realize I am always on the alert of how a girl is feeling and I purposely avoid stuff that would be incongruent to how she is feeling.
Troy
Time to ask them out on a date.