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9/17/22
hey guys, this is the tale of me laying a virgin
Description of the girl
the early 20s, been through maybe 1 boyfriend, who she didn't have sex with, very inexperienced in dating, I would place looks around a 6.5 could be higher if she took care of her fundamentals better.
On 1st date, when we first met, she had a big smile and initiated a hug from the beginning, from meeting to end her it took about 3 hours, everything was pretty casual, no heavy escalation and etc., tried pulling back to my place the 1st time it failed at the stairs, around the 1 hour mark and I immediately took a detour to the back gate and continued our date. went to go eat, visit some places around the local spots, and laid on her shoulder/lap while on our tourist visits to locations, breaking the touch barrier.
she outright told me she liked me, which was against what her "girlfriends" told her to do, admitting that she was attracted and losing frame, etc.
during the interaction i wanted to cut it short:
me: "I'm tired I want to go back"
Riding bus back to my place. At this point, I didn't care if she came, but she was compliant the whole way, then getting to the door she hesitated again, but this time I held her hand, which extended interest and raised my attainability helped, which wasn't a huge huddle.
Escalated, but failed didn't push for it and sent her off.
*underlying insecurity and nervousness about being around a person she liked.
CONTINUING ON TO THE 2nd DATE**
She reached out to talk, wanted to hangout again. Worst decision because I scheduled our meeting on a day when I go out to game, and felt not as strong after i had sex
2nd date, when i saw her you was smiling, we go to get food, riding bus and walking, after getting some food, I suggested we go back to my place with an indifferent attitude. once she got to my place, as I was trying to connect my TV to Netflix, the internet was having problems,
light shit test*
girl: "this usually happens to people, who watch porn"
unamused**
me: "exactly..."
Initially, when I waved her to come, she refused, but then ask if she could bring me over water. As I was sitting down on my one-person couch, she came over to sit on my lap like how I had her the first time when I tried escalating, this time I had the frame.... than slowly just escalated without any LMR. Genuinely surprised when i saw blood, i asked her and then i knew....
Reason
I don't know how much the tourist card worked, but it did. without social restriction, repercussion of knowing to get pump and dump. But I doubt that level was considered by this girl. There was a subculture, I benefited from as well, after finding out she was interested in what kind of shows she liked. I find them to be pretty naive about relationships, converted to a girlfriend after the sex, and paranoid about getting pregnant. She expressed her emotional baggage, as all girls do.
In a more traditional environment, they have a pretty hard rule about not sleeping with the guy immediately. I've managed same-day lays, but that's usually not the norm, even with night game escalations, there's more of a kneejerk reaction, after they realized they cross some physical it would trigger a bit of FSC (female state control), ASD Buster, Sex talk, raises your odds to closing.
I find not many gratifications because I feel I could potentially have hurt her and set a bad precedent. Lessons have been learned.
Don't mind me, i know I sound like a super religious priest who just had an epiphany
*converting to total night game fully this year and focusing on fast lays compared to drawn-out interactions, and dates, I dated this person for a whole day. takeaway is during day game/ dates all you really need to run a normal interaction, you can sexualize run a bit of sex talk/ sex talk lite if you are good
Ciao
hey guys, this is the tale of me laying a virgin
Description of the girl
the early 20s, been through maybe 1 boyfriend, who she didn't have sex with, very inexperienced in dating, I would place looks around a 6.5 could be higher if she took care of her fundamentals better.
On 1st date, when we first met, she had a big smile and initiated a hug from the beginning, from meeting to end her it took about 3 hours, everything was pretty casual, no heavy escalation and etc., tried pulling back to my place the 1st time it failed at the stairs, around the 1 hour mark and I immediately took a detour to the back gate and continued our date. went to go eat, visit some places around the local spots, and laid on her shoulder/lap while on our tourist visits to locations, breaking the touch barrier.
she outright told me she liked me, which was against what her "girlfriends" told her to do, admitting that she was attracted and losing frame, etc.
during the interaction i wanted to cut it short:
me: "I'm tired I want to go back"
Riding bus back to my place. At this point, I didn't care if she came, but she was compliant the whole way, then getting to the door she hesitated again, but this time I held her hand, which extended interest and raised my attainability helped, which wasn't a huge huddle.
Escalated, but failed didn't push for it and sent her off.
*underlying insecurity and nervousness about being around a person she liked.
CONTINUING ON TO THE 2nd DATE**
She reached out to talk, wanted to hangout again. Worst decision because I scheduled our meeting on a day when I go out to game, and felt not as strong after i had sex
2nd date, when i saw her you was smiling, we go to get food, riding bus and walking, after getting some food, I suggested we go back to my place with an indifferent attitude. once she got to my place, as I was trying to connect my TV to Netflix, the internet was having problems,
light shit test*
girl: "this usually happens to people, who watch porn"
unamused**
me: "exactly..."
Initially, when I waved her to come, she refused, but then ask if she could bring me over water. As I was sitting down on my one-person couch, she came over to sit on my lap like how I had her the first time when I tried escalating, this time I had the frame.... than slowly just escalated without any LMR. Genuinely surprised when i saw blood, i asked her and then i knew....
Reason
I don't know how much the tourist card worked, but it did. without social restriction, repercussion of knowing to get pump and dump. But I doubt that level was considered by this girl. There was a subculture, I benefited from as well, after finding out she was interested in what kind of shows she liked. I find them to be pretty naive about relationships, converted to a girlfriend after the sex, and paranoid about getting pregnant. She expressed her emotional baggage, as all girls do.
In a more traditional environment, they have a pretty hard rule about not sleeping with the guy immediately. I've managed same-day lays, but that's usually not the norm, even with night game escalations, there's more of a kneejerk reaction, after they realized they cross some physical it would trigger a bit of FSC (female state control), ASD Buster, Sex talk, raises your odds to closing.
I find not many gratifications because I feel I could potentially have hurt her and set a bad precedent. Lessons have been learned.
Don't mind me, i know I sound like a super religious priest who just had an epiphany
*converting to total night game fully this year and focusing on fast lays compared to drawn-out interactions, and dates, I dated this person for a whole day. takeaway is during day game/ dates all you really need to run a normal interaction, you can sexualize run a bit of sex talk/ sex talk lite if you are good
Ciao
