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Kalyan was rushing to class as he was late, and then he saw her: cute features, pink hair, and nicely shaped body. "I wish I had time to talk to her" i said to myself. Then I thought back: "hey, I'll never see her again if I don't take this chance, go for it" and i walked (quick paced) towards her. Note: many times, I would be presented with a similar situation and end up not approaching. You need to find a way to do otherwise, or else you can't write up a nice report like this.
I walk up, give her a compliment on her nice hair, and tell her I don't have time to seduce her (ok, i didnt use that word) but I would like to call her. And promise to call her at 8:30 that day.
I call her at night, we have a 10 minute convo. She's receptive but shy. We set a date for sunday (3 days in advance). She texts me on Saturday saying that going downtown would be a bad idea as it's raining, we schedule to do something on campus- we both live there.
The date
I meet her at our rendezvous point, and she looks so cute- nice boots, black outfit, her cute hair and excessively feminine features. Really sweet look, and matches her sweet personality as I got to find out. The plan was to walk to a coffee shop. I just finished watching Chase's Spellbinding and I applied baiting and deep dive quite well, I believe. At one baiting attempt, she said "well don't stop there!". That felt like a victory itself. I got to find out that she's bisexual (more on that later) and i told her that's exactly what I wanted in a girlfriend. I know, maybe not a good word to use, but I felt like it. We got to the shop, sat there for 20 minutes then we moved out. I held her hand here (was touching quite a lot) and wrapped my arm around her with her hand in mine- i like doing that for a few seconds, it feels nice. We were now "just walking around" (towards my room). I mentioned I sing, and she told me I have to sing for her. I peomised I will once we're in my room. I also used my typical "hey let's go to my place and listen to some good music". And, i pulled her- only the second girl I pull home out of my usual social circle/ online game
The kiss and escalation attempt
As soon as we got in, I told her I will sing for her. I sang 30 seconds of a nice spanish song I know, and then pulled her up to dance. 20 seconds of dancing, then I directed her lips to mine. Was not an electric kiss, but god, did she taste/ smell good.
3 kisses, backing off, a few more kisses, then sitting down. I talk about the song a bit, and we get on my bed (my room is small, so it all happened in a 3 footstep radius). We kiss on and off for a few minutes, and then she tells me "I've never been kissed before". I ask her if she means she initiates the kisses usually, she said no- she's never kissed. And I say to myself "holy shit. I can't believe this". And I really couldn't: how could such an attractive 18 year old, who claims to be bisexual (my close friend told me she probably doesnt know her sexuality if she's never kissed before) be kissless? I mean, it was obvious from the way she kissed that she's not a pro, but it really hit me hard. I was unfazed, of course: I could take harder shocks than this. I was sure to be very gentle with her, asking her if she's comfortable all the time (and i did not get many yes-es). She looked really nervous; I persistently asked what's wrong, she finally said she's "kindda seeing someone"- either bs, or that someone has no clue what he's doing. I smiled and proceeded in making out. I announced "im going to take my top off", and she replied by "i think I should leave". I kindda was expecting her to be so nervous, so we cuddled/ made out some more, and then i escorted her out. After I found out about her secret, during escalation and dropping her off, I made an effort to paint the experience in a positive light in her mind: she's obviously very confused, and how I frame it is largely what she will think of the interaction. I gave her a big hug and kiss on the cheek as I dropped her 10 minutes away from her room, and ask for a last investment- text me when you're home. She did, barely.
Aftermath
i text her thr next day, and this is what happened:
Me: hey X, had a good time yesterday... Have a good day blabla
Her: thanks
Me: was thinking dinner blabla tomorrow or thursday?
Her: actually i think we shouldn't see each other again, i really dont want a relationship. Sorry
Me: who said about relationship? Relax, we're not getting married
Her: sorry, i just dont think we should hang out
Me: i understand, won't push you. Text me when you feel comfortable seeing me again...
Her: ok thanks
Conclusion
I ran the date perfectly, to the best of my knowledge. And I really, really liked her. I've never kissed a kissless girl before, I always wanted to try it, and i got my chance. She felt uncomfortable during the alone period. Actually, she even had her arms crossed during the coffee shop chat. But i really tried my best to make her comfortable, and am happy I changed someone's life- I made it as positive an experience as it could be, but she's just too shy/ non social, I don't think she could've had it any other way. I made sure to frame it in a positive light through the interaction. Even when she told me she doesn't want to see me, I explained it as her being confused, and left a door open for her to contact me. In general it was a good trip- made me remember a story (which i shared with her) when I had a girl over, who was horny as hell, but could not get me to kiss her. When she did, i was so nervous that she just called me a bad kisser and moved on.
I walk up, give her a compliment on her nice hair, and tell her I don't have time to seduce her (ok, i didnt use that word) but I would like to call her. And promise to call her at 8:30 that day.
I call her at night, we have a 10 minute convo. She's receptive but shy. We set a date for sunday (3 days in advance). She texts me on Saturday saying that going downtown would be a bad idea as it's raining, we schedule to do something on campus- we both live there.
The date
I meet her at our rendezvous point, and she looks so cute- nice boots, black outfit, her cute hair and excessively feminine features. Really sweet look, and matches her sweet personality as I got to find out. The plan was to walk to a coffee shop. I just finished watching Chase's Spellbinding and I applied baiting and deep dive quite well, I believe. At one baiting attempt, she said "well don't stop there!". That felt like a victory itself. I got to find out that she's bisexual (more on that later) and i told her that's exactly what I wanted in a girlfriend. I know, maybe not a good word to use, but I felt like it. We got to the shop, sat there for 20 minutes then we moved out. I held her hand here (was touching quite a lot) and wrapped my arm around her with her hand in mine- i like doing that for a few seconds, it feels nice. We were now "just walking around" (towards my room). I mentioned I sing, and she told me I have to sing for her. I peomised I will once we're in my room. I also used my typical "hey let's go to my place and listen to some good music". And, i pulled her- only the second girl I pull home out of my usual social circle/ online game
The kiss and escalation attempt
As soon as we got in, I told her I will sing for her. I sang 30 seconds of a nice spanish song I know, and then pulled her up to dance. 20 seconds of dancing, then I directed her lips to mine. Was not an electric kiss, but god, did she taste/ smell good.
3 kisses, backing off, a few more kisses, then sitting down. I talk about the song a bit, and we get on my bed (my room is small, so it all happened in a 3 footstep radius). We kiss on and off for a few minutes, and then she tells me "I've never been kissed before". I ask her if she means she initiates the kisses usually, she said no- she's never kissed. And I say to myself "holy shit. I can't believe this". And I really couldn't: how could such an attractive 18 year old, who claims to be bisexual (my close friend told me she probably doesnt know her sexuality if she's never kissed before) be kissless? I mean, it was obvious from the way she kissed that she's not a pro, but it really hit me hard. I was unfazed, of course: I could take harder shocks than this. I was sure to be very gentle with her, asking her if she's comfortable all the time (and i did not get many yes-es). She looked really nervous; I persistently asked what's wrong, she finally said she's "kindda seeing someone"- either bs, or that someone has no clue what he's doing. I smiled and proceeded in making out. I announced "im going to take my top off", and she replied by "i think I should leave". I kindda was expecting her to be so nervous, so we cuddled/ made out some more, and then i escorted her out. After I found out about her secret, during escalation and dropping her off, I made an effort to paint the experience in a positive light in her mind: she's obviously very confused, and how I frame it is largely what she will think of the interaction. I gave her a big hug and kiss on the cheek as I dropped her 10 minutes away from her room, and ask for a last investment- text me when you're home. She did, barely.
Aftermath
i text her thr next day, and this is what happened:
Me: hey X, had a good time yesterday... Have a good day blabla
Her: thanks
Me: was thinking dinner blabla tomorrow or thursday?
Her: actually i think we shouldn't see each other again, i really dont want a relationship. Sorry
Me: who said about relationship? Relax, we're not getting married
Her: sorry, i just dont think we should hang out
Me: i understand, won't push you. Text me when you feel comfortable seeing me again...
Her: ok thanks
Conclusion
I ran the date perfectly, to the best of my knowledge. And I really, really liked her. I've never kissed a kissless girl before, I always wanted to try it, and i got my chance. She felt uncomfortable during the alone period. Actually, she even had her arms crossed during the coffee shop chat. But i really tried my best to make her comfortable, and am happy I changed someone's life- I made it as positive an experience as it could be, but she's just too shy/ non social, I don't think she could've had it any other way. I made sure to frame it in a positive light through the interaction. Even when she told me she doesn't want to see me, I explained it as her being confused, and left a door open for her to contact me. In general it was a good trip- made me remember a story (which i shared with her) when I had a girl over, who was horny as hell, but could not get me to kiss her. When she did, i was so nervous that she just called me a bad kisser and moved on.
